Safe word: what not to say and do in front of a man
Men are much more vulnerable creatures than is commonly believed. Remember these rules if you don’t want to plunge into the abyss of despair, severely angering him.
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- Its advantages are nothing to joke about. He is endlessly confident and can easily make fun of himself, but this topic cannot be touched.
You should also sincerely praise that part of the body. You should also not admire its huge size, although in reality this is not the case. He will either understand that you are flattering him or take it for laughter.
- He will doubt his masculinity. If you want to ask him about something: “Well, you’re a man!” there is no need to throw around phrases like “I am a man!” He had heard this before as a child, when he tried not to cry over broken consoles and bruised knees. Don“t throw accusations at his masculinity, even in the heat of a quarrel. With this, he fell apart even more, became even more forgotten, and then the quackery began.
- Under no circumstances compare him with other men. No, if this comparison is in his favor, then the way is open. My friends complain that their men don“t know how to listen. How lucky I am that you paid attention to me!“ — Everything is fine. „But, Irinin, men go to the gym three times a week, not like you, they don’t smoke, they don’t smoke!” -vou-wow vou!
- I don“t want to remind him that Irina is preparing him like a chef in a Michelin star restaurant. Next. No way. Don“t compare yourself to your ex. Otherwise, you risk encountering the answer: “Well, why did you throw away your fairy-tale winner?”
- Do not criticize his family under any circumstances. If he complains about the ridiculous behavior of his mother or father Hyperopk, listen to him calmly and nod sympathetically. Avoid harsh remarks towards loved ones. If you allow him to attack his mother, no matter how much he loves you, he may turn your heart into a passage. What happens if he starts a fight at your wedding and rams your mother with a three-story cake?
- Sometimes it’s more difficult than helping a friend pick up a broken heart — being able to support a man when he’s wrong. Under no circumstances should you unclench your hands and grieve. He feels very bad, and he wants you to clear away the clouds over his head. But I warned you! I said it before! But no, darling, you didn“t listen to me! I am responsible!“ Hand on heart, has at least one person in the world assured you that such an attack is possible? Unlikely.
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Men and women are very different creatures, so finding the key to each other remains difficult. Sometimes women who don“t know how to ruin a relationship.
Men don“t always need advice. Finding himself in a difficult situation, he wants to receive warmth and affection from you. Support him and hug him. Now he is most afraid that you will be disappointed in him and leave him for a more successful man. Let him know that you are on his side and trust him. Go into his soul and let him be alone with his thoughts. Open a can of beer and order your favorite pizza.
- Forget about all kinds of ultimatums like bad dreams. Never prohibit or criticize communication with friends. Are they really stupid? If your friend looks stupid, there“s nothing you can do about it. He doesn“t like all your girlfriends either, does he? But he smiles patiently and holds fast under the fire of their questions. He doesn“t break a sweat when your hottest girlfriend asks him about the wedding.
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- Never flirt with his friends. Have you decided to build a good relationship with them? This is commendable! However, do not cross the line between friendly jokes and outright flirting. Your man will not be happy with this development of events, nor will your girlfriend.
- Don“t devour his brain with your complexes. Firstly, he is already tired of complimenting you. „Yes, you are beautiful. Yes, you are slim. Yes, you have beautiful breasts. Yes, you have beautiful lips. Yes, yes, yes, yes.“ Secondly, the abundance of the complex is not sexy. Thirdly, you will achieve your goal, and he will see all your shortcomings.
You hoped that he would start convincing you and showering you with compliments. Lord, tell me about it?
- Don“t check his phone or read his messages. It looks pathetic and is incredibly annoying. Jealousy only works in moderate doses. Constant hysterics and distrust look more or less aesthetically pleasing only on Brazilian television programs. Passionate music plays, he catches up with you on the street, and you kiss on the beach.
In real life, he just throws one obscene adjective (rhymes with „crazy“) in your direction, and by the way, you go to your friend, who is also annoyed.
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