What is it like to be a lover? The girls told the truth
Your friend is dating a married man again, who is not only untrustworthy but also unpleasant to you. Naturally, you’re furious. But don’t panic. Find out what other girls think about this and why they are so attracted to having a married partner.
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What’s it like to be a mistress?
So many opinions. This is exactly the principle we followed when conducting the survey. The girls on Reddit were happy to share their life stories and even allowed themselves to write them down in short stories.
I’ve been dating a married man for 5 years.
I’ve been dating a married man for five years. At first, I didn’t know he was single. He never mentioned his wife and didn’t wear a ring. I became very attached to him in our so-called relationship and seemed to be falling in love with him.
Recently, I saw him with a woman. She was clearly older than me and, it seemed to me, older than him. I didn’t say anything to him because they were walking at a distance from each other and I had no reason to be jealous. After that, I forgot about this woman and continued my life as usual. But soon I saw her again. With him. They were standing hand in hand. I immediately understood what was happening because the ring on his finger began to glow.
A week later, we saw each other again, and I couldn’t keep silent. There was no scandal, but I felt devastated and humiliated. I forgave the deception because I loved him very much.
We continued to see each other, but less often. I still remember our time together.” — WWbowieD
I believe he will leave her
“I was in a relationship with a married man for two years. I knew from the beginning that he had a wife, but it didn’t bother me at all. On the contrary, I felt a certain desire. However, after six months, I realized I was in love with him, and the thought made me uneasy. Could I have been so stupid?
After a year of secret meetings, I was finally convinced that I loved him. My relationship with my wife deteriorated, and he left her. Now we live together. I know they rarely see each other. He is always there. And I believe he will leave her forever. But not today. Not now.” — Prototype 137.
And suddenly he gets married
We’ve been dating for a year and a half. I’ve never met his wife and I’m in no hurry to meet her. We have a good time together, we have a lot of fun together. The only sad thing is that we rarely see each other—once or twice a week. But that’s enough.
I love his smell, his voice, his body. I’m so glad he’s by my side. I dream of marrying him one day. And suddenly he gets married, and everything will be fine. — Library of Smells.
I learned_this_bitter_lesson
A few years ago, I worked for a trading company. He was my boss. It’s actually quite a common situation. Take a typical office romance, twist it, and you get a so-called love story.
My boss wasn’t a handsome man. He had a long goatee, he wasn’t old, but he knew how to tell corny jokes. His physique wasn’t perfect, but he wasn’t a “shapeless sack.”
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After my promotion, we began to communicate more often, organizing important documents and arranging meetings with partners. Over time, I noticed that he began to look at me differently, and I myself changed a little. Perhaps the young man was to blame for all this. His tendency to leave emphatic pauses in conversations was a little unnerving. Perhaps I confused this intimidation with admiration. I don’t know.
In any case, I knew he was married. But when he first started paying attention to me, I was surprised and excited. Of course, he noticed. My obvious excitement must have given him confidence, because he immediately asked me out. Our meeting resulted in my pregnancy.
He never left his wife, but neither did I. He’s a good man. At least for now. And I’ve learned a bitter lesson in this life.
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I know that I will be replaced too
“I’ve been in a relationship with a married man for four years. We’ve been through a lot during this time, and I can say that we’ve become very close. I have an amazing insight into how happy he is, and I know how to please him in bed.
His wife is 15 years older than me. But she also looks very attractive. But you can’t tell your heart. He attracts me, and I attract him. With him, I feel safe and happy. But I think this joy is temporary. I know that sooner or later I will be replaced. One thing I know for sure: I don’t want to be a mistress for the rest of my days.
And why not?
I met him at an exhibition. He was my ideal type. When we met, he told me he was married but did not live with his wife. After a while, he hinted that he would like to meet me after the exhibition. “Why?” I thought. And To this day, I don’t regret it.” — Giakd348
I like everything
I don’t know why anyone would be against a relationship with a married man. I like everything. I have jewelry, money, sex, beautiful clothes. What else could I dream of? At least no one limits my activities. If I want, I can find another man. But for now, I’m happy with what I have.” — Anna Sutherington
Outside_Opinion
Not all girls want to commit to a married man. You can see it on their faces. But those behind the rejection—the girls on Quora—shared their opinions:
- “Even if I were single—I’m unmarried and 25—I wouldn’t date or sleep with a married man. Pride and health are more important to me than the occasional moment of pleasure. I couldn’t hurt another woman like that, whether I knew her or not. I’ve been asked to be his mistress more than once, but I’ve always refused. I don’t want to share a man with someone else.” — Cherie Lynn
- Maria, 28: “I don’t know what it’s like to be a married man’s mistress. I’ve been dating my boyfriend for four years, and we’re planning a wedding. I don’t think I’d be happy to learn he’s having an affair with another woman. I don’t want to go through that myself. Besides, I’m happy in my relationship.” — Nia Gisson
- “You shouldn’t be someone else’s mistress.” You need to find someone you can be committed to and who doesn’t have any connections. Ultimately, you’re your own boss.” — Andcile Stephensen
- “Ask yourself, how would you feel if your significant other had a mistress?” — VitaR
- “How can you feel being in that position, knowing you’re hurting another woman? Is anyone okay with that?” — Yvette
- “I think that’s too much. I would never want to be a mistress. I prefer my men to be honest and loyal.” — Marta Dolly
- “I don’t recommend it. Sooner or later, you might end up in a bad situation yourself and be alone. Men can be very fickle.” — Rebecca Boat
Some people think that being a married man’s mistress means riding a horse. Others vehemently reject this theory, preferring to deal with faithful and confident men. The choice is entirely up to the woman. The only truth worth remembering is that instead of a jilted woman, someone can at any moment decide to take someone else’s happiness into their own hands.
