From betrayal to jealousy or vice versa: from jealousy to betrayal?
Misbehavior is the leading cause of divorce. Many people speculate about this. But you can’t tell what drives people to be unfaithful. A study conducted by University of Texas researchers David M. Bass and Todd K. Shackelford looked at several possible causes of infidelity. These include personality factors, relationship context, and the relative value of people’s families in a marriage.
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The results of a study of 107 married couples show that the reasons leading to infidelity are mainly low awareness, high narcissism and high conflict. If we talk about social reasons, then these are sexual dissatisfaction and constant jealousy of a partner, leading to conflicts.
They say: he is jealous, which means he loves. And no matter how inclined we are to trust folk wisdom, it can sometimes be wrong. Jealousy and love are, as life shows, completely opposite emotions. Psychologists say that it can even cause betrayal. It is generated by selfishness, the desire to control everything, including the behavior of the spouse, who begins to fiercely resist this and deliberately goes to rebellion.
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depending on the length of the relationship, the likelihood that a person will deceive his partner ranges from 40-70%. However today.
Anticipation of betrayal//jealousy//fantasies of betrayal
How to get out of this contradictory situation? He can learn to trust his partner, try to understand him and not keep him under his thumb. Otherwise, the infernal machine called “je” will destroy everything that is valuable in family relationships.
The framework of jealousy and betrayal. Archpriest Andrey Tkachev.
