Masturbation: for singles or those who are happy in relationships?
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For some reason, it is generally accepted that masturbation was invented for acne (some people are convinced that acne is caused by it), or for unhappy lonely women and unhappy lonely people who are not needed by anyone. And these undesirable populations have no choice but to give themselves love. In fact, it’s almost the opposite.
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of course, we won’t talk about teenage masturbation, because that’s not what we’re talking about. Acne has nothing to do with this phenomenon at all, as we assume, since no one had hair on their palms.
Think about the attraction this activity might generate in adults and how it might affect a couple’s relationship. This may come as a real revelation to some, but masturbation is very important for couples.
First, about the delights
Perhaps you are a serious person, you are busy at work, you have large responsibilities at home with servants, and you have not done such nonsense as masturbation for a long time. And very useless! It’s time to go back to puberty and remember how it went. Often it is serious adults who need an emotional retreat, the opportunity to step away from everything and have the whole world waiting at the door.
Yes, yes, in the middle of the workday there is nothing stopping you from locking the door for five minutes. The brain has rebooted. In the midst of a working day, it is impossible to even imagine that you can get a small and very sweet orgasm with a tonic effect.
In terms of its magical effects, it can only be compared to a sound, healthy sleep. But you need at least half an hour, or better yet, one and a half hours of sleep to feel rested and fresh, and about five minutes to masturbate with sufficient experience.
In fact, it is not as easy as it may seem to a beginner to distract himself from work problems and colleagues at the door. No wonder these words go harmoniously with meditation! The same ability is required. Deep. Believe me, if in stressful situations you replace sedatives and alcohol with masturbation, you will very quickly notice a positive effect!
Read also: Should you take a break from your relationship? What happens next?
some couples reach a dead end in their relationship and decide to take a time out. This helps them take a break from each other and consider the possibility of continuing.
In what situations can masturbation help? Literally in any situation. If you have the opportunity to relax for a few minutes, it’s a very good habit. Stress at work, arguments at home, problems large and small, overwork, health—these are just the first situations that come to mind when masturbation is an excellent way to distract yourself and switch off.
In addition to the physical consequences, it completely affects your self-esteem. In your fantasies, the hand you love may not belong to you, but to anyone, even to your own authorities! In any case, who knows, but you’re ready!
Now about relationships
Who said masturbation is only possible when you’re alone! And who isn’t a person in a relationship? Why not?
If there is no love and joy in the relationship.
Let’s start with the fact that husbands and wives can get sick, go on business trips, visit their mothers. And now—not married? And for a long time? Why can’t you allow yourself to enjoy yourself? What’s wrong with you? Yes, nothing, so masturbate to your heart’s content.
For married people, stress is a solitary, or even more frequent, way to relieve stress, so it’s natural and safe and shouldn’t be used solely because a partner is waiting at home—that’s counterproductive. The other half will prevail, because not only will you have nothing to lose, but you also won’t have to deal with the consequences of stress in the form of conflict or argument.
By the way, who came up with the idea that masturbation should be done alone? If his wife likes to take care of herself, who will be worse off seeing her husband fail? Firstly, the wife doesn’t forget either, and secondly, perhaps the husband changes the direction of attack and goes on the offensive in a completely different direction.
It should be noted that the opposite isn’t always a good thing—watch how the husband takes care of masturbation while the wife mops the floor. Things don’t always end the same. But to see how she’s embroidered, look at a TV series or her nail art. It’s true, your nails have to be repainted, and someone rubs the polish in from behind. But it’s worth it!
And completely unknown things can lead to mutual masturbation! Attachment to each other, as well as attentive satisfaction of your partner. This is a wonderful way to become closer, learn to trust and feel each other. Learn to play with your partner’s body as an instrument and learn to achieve the desired sound and climax—orgasm. Isn’t this one of the most important conditions for a long and strong relationship?
Masturbation—conscious masturbation, developing sensitivity! Alina Sikut [Love Points].
