How to move your tongue during a French kiss without getting confused?
Oh, kissing. So romantic, so tender, so sensual, so exciting, so awkward if you don’t know exactly how to move your tongue during this exciting process. Seriously, you don’t want to ruin everything and make your partner look awkward and inept, right? To prevent this, read the tips and rules below.
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Twelve tips about French Kisses
- You don’t have to start French kissing right away. Start by closing your lips and kissing a few times, massaging your partner’s lips, first gently, then firmly. Then open your mouth and close it after a few moments. French kissing is a long process. Why not prolong the pleasure a little longer? It’s so fun, gentle, and stimulating.
- To initiate the French kiss itself, run your tongue over your partner’s lips and outline them. Ask your partner if they want to continue and if they’re ready for a French kiss. You can first gently tug on their tongue, almost touching it, tickle and tease it with the tip of your tongue, then tug more persistently with more pressure.
- You can kiss not only with your lips but also with your hands. The main role of a kiss is to relax your partner, arouse them, and, most importantly, make them feel desired. Show him how much you love him. Not just his mouth, but everything else.
Pull him close and caress his shoulders and neck. You can lightly run your fingertips along his ribs, stroke his chest if you’re kissing a girl, or squeeze his buttocks. But listen carefully to the reaction of the person you’re kissing: if your partner stiffens and tenses, if they’re like a stone in your hand, if they feel like they’re hugging a pole—chances are, you’re doing something wrong, and you should stop! You must.
This is especially true for intimate body parts like breasts, buttocks, etc. Your partner might think you’re hinting at a horizontal continuation by stroking or squeezing there, but they might not want that, especially on a first date. It’s best to discuss these things beforehand.
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- Play with pressure.
French kissing doesn’t mean shoving your tongue as deep into your partner’s throat as possible and staying there until you get bored. Alternate between sharp movements, where you explore your partner’s mouth as deeply as possible with your tongue, and softer movements, where you almost finish the French kiss and begin kissing with your mouth closed. Firstly, it gives you both new sensations and a break from intense caresses, and secondly, it doesn’t get boring.
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- Gently bite your partner’s upper and lower lips. Note: Be gentle! Gently. Lightly grasp your teeth and apply only a hint of pressure. Your goal is to make them feel the contrast between the hardness of your teeth and the softness of your lips and tongue so they don’t bite off a piece of your partner. Even if it’s delicious.
- Move the tip of your tongue in a circular motion.
- Suck on your partner’s lips. That is, take hold of their upper or lower lip with both hands and begin sucking lightly and gently. This is a very sensual and pleasurable caress that naturally brings blood to the lips, intensifies sensations, and leaves your partner’s mouth feeling irritatingly sore, swollen, and moist.
- Suck on their tongue. This means literally grabbing their lips and gently drawing them into your mouth, sucking on them like berries or candy. It’s important to do this very gently, delicately, and carefully. Sucking is stimulating, pleasant, and painless. Yes, even sucking can be harmful, so prolong it carefully.
- A French kiss doesn’t require you to focus solely on your lips! Start with light sucking and nibbling on your partner’s jaw, neck, ear, and earlobe. Only then return to the lips. Variety is always good; the neck and ears are usually very sensitive. Give your partner the sensual caresses and sensations you desire and love, covering every inch of their body.
- Watch your tongue. Don’t use too much; don’t try to put everything in your partner’s mouth.
Remember that the oral tongue is very large (listen to how it feels: it takes up most of your mouth, and if you’re too aggressive, most of your partner’s mouth as well), and it’s a muscle, the strongest muscle.
Stroke with your tongue and lips so he doesn’t feel too high. Try making tongue and lip movements, moving your tongue in circles, left to right, up and down, stroking your tongue, and meeting the tip of your tongue with your tongue.
- The key is to pay attention to your partner’s reactions. You’re now very close; you might hug them when they’re nervous (they don’t like that), or hold you tightly, or how their breathing changes; you might even hear their softest moans and sighs. Focus on this and mimic their favorite behavior.
- Close your eyes, relax, and enjoy the process! A kiss isn’t a command or a guide; it’s pleasure, relaxation, sensuality, trust, and love.
