Safe back and hot sex: why do we love men?
Safe back and hot sex: why do we love men?
It seems that every person has at least once wondered: what is love and why do we experience this feeling? Some are interested in the perspective of a biological process, while others are interested in the emotional aspect of the problem. Indeed, in most cases this interests girls who want to understand why we love men.
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What kind of love is there?
Love is a deep affection for a person, a feeling of compassion and attraction. The concept of love is conventionally considered from a philosophical point of view. Philosophy divides love into several categories and gives them interesting Greek names:
- Mania. This type of love is characterized by increased dependence on a partner, an obsessive desire to always be close and is typical of youth.
- lyudus. it is a consumer feeling based on excitement. Such love can be observed among alphas who strive to add to the list of their partners.
- agap. a rather imperfect type of love in the sense that it implies a complete return to the relationship, without the opportunity to accept anything. Constant guardianship, excessive sacrifice and obsessive tenderness can quickly destroy such relationships.
Amazing and incredible: why do we love men?
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A survey conducted among women on this topic divided the reasons for love into several categories. The girls interviewed recalled at what moments in everyday life they caught themselves thinking that they loved their man:
- Reliability. Not all men are reliable barriers, but it’s difficult to say the opposite. The problem is that everyone has a different concept of trustworthiness, and if one girl is interested in a relationship with a man, then another will be confident in him tomorrow.
- Thought. Men always come to the rescue when women have no idea how to solve a particular problem — a type of thinking that is radically different from women”s. And if the problem seems simply insoluble, then next to the male point of view it seems trivial.
- Confidence. The absence of emotional suffering, quick reaction speed, the ability to persuade — all these are indicators of a self-confident person. This is usually very attractive. It”s nice to know that there are people nearby. They can come together at any moment, clench their fists and make a decision.
- Responsibility. Yes, it is believed that men are more irresponsible. However, this applies mainly to small issues. In most serious situations, the ability to take responsibility for solving global problems is why we love men.
Today, biology shows us that love is simply a chemical process primarily intended for reproduction. Of course, this cannot be denied, but remember that a person gets used to the constant release of all the hormones that the body secretes.
And at the moment, love rests only on the mutual trust of partners, mutual respect, love for the habit and the ability to close one’s eyes.
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