Burning anus syndrome or why girls want sex in the wrong place
Sex is wonderful, it relieves stress, heals the body and is generally wonderful. But why do girls like anal sex? It actually hurts, and the anal passage is not designed to introduce anything physiological. It”s still meant to get rid of something. However, girls do have anal sex. Why?
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This question was of great interest to a group of American scientists, so they decided to conduct a study and found out what it is. And so that you don”t have to read boring scientific texts, check out this more fun article about this joke.
Physiological basis for pleasure during anal sex
Why can girls, in principle, be physiologically comfortable in the anus? How does it work and how can you get an orgasm from anal sex? The point is that when a woman invades a woman”s anal passage (with a finger, a penis, a toy), it stimulates. Clitoris. Yes, exactly. In fact, the clitoris is not only an external “button”, but also something that women often like to care for during masturbation (and nothing else!). — This is a whole system that scientists call clitoris-vaginal. The clitoris is a much larger organ, most of which is located inside the woman and is called the “clitoral stalk.” Visually, it looks like a bunch of bananas — orial. The G-spot is also part of this system. Indeed, the clitoral leg is stimulated during anal sex, simply through a subtle muscle separation. In addition, the small area of skin between the anus and vagina is very sensitive and has many nerve endings, so tongue stimulation, massage or tongue stimulation is pleasurable. However, it is very difficult to come out of anal stimulation just because the stimulation occurs through the septum. In addition, anal sex is less comfortable than vaginal sex (since the anus is not designed for a penis inside it, and the internal muscles can be damaged much more easily), and the girl may feel embarrassed by the situation itself. They feel the heat. All this complicates the achievement of orgasm, because for orgasm purely physical manipulation is not enough — emotional relaxation is also necessary. Therefore, during anal sex, it is best to use a sex toy to simultaneously stimulate the clitoral glans. This is the most sensitive part of the clitoris-baginal system. True, people spread rumors that women come only from anal stimulation, but these are most likely jokes from pornography lovers and perverts.
And now — to the results of the study.
Six reasons why women have anal sex
What the scientists did: They recruited 30 heterosexual women who a) agreed to participate in the study, and b) said they had had anal intercourse in the past. They were divided into four groups, and in one group, they tried to ensure that all nationalities represented in the sample were represented (and they”re Americans, baby, they have their own problems there), and they were interviewed. The only caveat: these women were recruited from an outpatient drug treatment program and HIV and STI testing program. Therefore, their experiences are somewhat more specific and often involve drugs and violence. However, this is generally true for all women. There are probably no drug addicts reading this article, but there may be those who smoke or drink alcohol—a substance that, although not as clearly as drugs, affects consciousness, personal boundaries, and sexual desire.
So, what the scientists found:
- The first reason is you. Hmm, Igor Nikolaev ran off somewhere, that”s the first reason. They did it on drugs, and drugs increased libido.
Quote from one respondent: When you take drugs, most drugs you know about, you know in advance that sex is going to happen. It”s like, bam! (clapping hands) Or you take a pill, and then bam! (clapping hands again) And you”re already naked and not about to take it off. You know what you”re waiting for. Or you can go on a trip, go to a motel, take all your stuff, get high, have sex. Hours of sex. Hours, hours, yes.”
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- They take drugs, and when they”re on drugs, they do things they wouldn”t normally do.
While this study looked at hard drugs, it”s worth acknowledging that alcohol has a similar effect. It makes them feel bolder, more relaxed, sexier, and more willing to experiment. (Not everyone does this, but alcohol has a similar effect on many people.)
- They took medications that relieved pain.
When I have sex, I”m not very sober. When I”m drunk, everything seems a little different. If I were sober, I don”t think I could handle it.” This is about couples and women for whom—thank goodness!—a small amount of alcohol isn”t harmful, especially if you”re nervous about trying it for the first time, because drug problems aren”t part of their lives. However, “a little” means “a little, boldly,” not so drunk that you don”t feel anything. Anal sex can be traumatic, so you need to be gentle, calm, and clearly aware of what you”re doing.
- They didn”t want anal sex, but they didn”t feel the right to refuse.
“You see, this is something I do unconsciously. I suffer from depression and so on, so a lot of what I do would probably seem pointless to others. It”s my way of punishing myself. “Harm yourself.”
Unfortunately, this happens. Not only in anal sex, but in other types of sex as well. For example, if a man performs cunnilingus on a woman, and she believes she has no right to refuse a blow job, it seems like a “bash-bash.” In fact, this is absolutely not the case. If something is considered unacceptable for one partner, they are not obligated to do it, even if the other partner has done something similar or equivalent. It”s not a matter of “you give me what I give you,” but rather the personal preference and comfort of each partner. The same applies to penetrative sex. Sometimes a woman agrees to a “delay” because the man has persistently begged her for it, played on her pity, threatened to break up, and accused her of being withdrawn and arrogant if she doesn”t want something. This is a very uncomfortable and painful situation for women, who often even feel violated after such a situation. “Pseudo-consent.” If a man is reading this article, listen up. Don”t pressure a woman. If she says “no,” that means “no.” You can have a conversation, promise to be calm and gentle, and provide information about the sexual activity you desire. But don”t threaten, whine, or put emotional pressure on her. Accept refusal gracefully—after all, you are a man.
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By the way, you can learn several life hacks from this! If a girl is afraid of anal sex, she can agree to it in a more dominant position.
- To please your partner. Quote
“It”s always, “Baby, if you love me, oh baby, will you give it to my ass?” “I want to be a woman who satisfies her man in every way, whatever his desires.” This has already been explained above. Outwardly, the desire to please your partner is innocent, pleasant and noble. However, something goes wrong if this is the only reason the girl agrees. Both should want to have sex.
- Some respondents described situations where anal sex was initiated without consent.
In other words, the intercourse began as normal vaginal intercourse, and then the man entered her from behind, as if by accident. Quote.
“Have you ever had sex and his dick comes out. and instead of going back into your vagina (the rougher term was “vagina” back then), it invades right into your buttocks, knowing full well it”s not that vaginal? Yo, man, my vagina is here! (Do you think he was intentionally tricking you or really cheating on you?) Good man. My vagina is hairy. And I don”t have buttocks. Consider it that neon “fuck here” sign glowing on my vagina! No, he knew exactly what he was doing.”
- Three participants also stated that they did this to avoid vaginal intercourse during menstruation.
In many cases, fellatio is used instead of vaginal sex. There are already jokes about this. So this is wrong. During menstruation, vaginal intercourse is possible and can even help relieve pain and cramping, and some women become even more aroused and sensitive during menstruation. There is no need to reinvent the wheel and look for new ways to have fun. Enter through the other entrance. So it will be. The main conclusion from all of the above: everything is pretty sad. Ideally, if both partners want anal sex, the other partner sacrifices nothing and is cool enough that both can figure it out. Enjoy the evening with your partner or partners and don”t repeat the mistakes of the other.
