Rules for chatting with girls
Without a doubt, the most fashionable place to meet people is the Internet. It is proven to expand boundaries, increase opportunities and make it easier to find and make connections. All this is true, but in order to meet in person, you need to get to know each other. This definitely happens if the girl is interested. And there is a cool tool for this: chat. It is enough to ask the correspondent an interesting question, and the date is in your pocket. Do you want to meet girls? We”ll show you how to do it!
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However, there is one caveat: you need to be careful. It all depends on the goals you set for yourself. I won’t give lectures and say that a serious relationship is much more interesting and far-sighted, I’ll just tell you how to meet a girl. How you choose to communicate is entirely up to you—it may not be a one-night stand, but the rules for dating are a little different.
Whatever goals you pursue, remember the main thing:
- Don”t delay in answering.
- Let”s talk about the girl.
- Don”t be afraid.
In general, the goal is the same — to arouse the girl’s interest and continue communication. The difference starts with a familiar task—whether it”s long-term or not. In the second case, non-standard questions are not needed.
Rules of correspondence for short-term dating
No matter how parents shake their heads, this is happening in our age. Short-term relationships occur on dating sites such as Tinder, Mamba, Badoo and Tabor.
Is it worth doing? It”s up to you. Remember. This has its pros and cons.
- It improves your self-confidence.
- You develop communication skills with the opposite sex (oh, how useful).
- You will learn a lot of new things about yourself and about girls.
- Of course, this is not the absolute truth, but many men are convinced that it is impossible to find a girl for a serious relationship on dating sites.
- After repeated rejections, you may lose confidence in yourself. Don”t give up! Remember that self-confidence should not depend on the opinions and actions of other people.
A distinctive feature of communication in this case is not to concentrate on one thing, but to expand your network. There are no interesting questions here. Start with “Hi! Are you okay?” Works just like any other beautiful plaster. Here quantity turns into quality. If you write to 10 girls, at least three of them will respond. And if it’s 50, count for yourself.
If you answer “okay”, “ok” or “good” in monosyllables without asking any questions, do not continue writing. Most likely there will be no continuation.
Don”t dance with the one in charge. Remember the three rules of initial communication and immediately lead the conversation to the phone number.
Read also: How to start a conversation with a girl — basic rules
Men often feel embarrassed when meeting them before they become real “sharks” preying on young girls. No wonder that.
On dating sites, girls are also looking for men and therefore are pre-prepared for communication. There won”t be any problems. There are many girls, you will achieve your goal. Don”t expect a beautiful relationship.
And to make everything work:
- Post cool photos on your page.
- Don”t worry;
- Don”t be rude or insulting.
Be more confident in yourself and everything will be fine. After all, you can”t just do it for people you know and guess.
Melstroy and Amiran learn to communicate with girls
Rules of correspondence for long-term acquaintance
Where could this be? This rarely happens on dating sites. Mainly on social networks. Here you need to ask the reporter interesting questions. It”s simple. Are you okay?” She doesn”t answer.
Don”t forget to polish your page (photo, status, information about yourself) and show it before starting correspondence. You”ll learn about interests, hobbies, and appearance, which will help you start conversations.
For example, use the following phrases.
- You have a very unique clothing style. Are you a fashion designer?
- I noticed a trait in you that many men consider a flaw (advantage). I think I”m different.
- I think you are a very gentle person. Am I wrong?
- Your photo of the sea (in the city, but with trees in the background, etc.) gave me some interesting thoughts.
- I think you are an extraordinary person. Tell us about your interests.
- I know your secret.
- Today on the street I saw a beautiful girl. Was it you?
- Actually, I”m not an expert in networking, but when I came across your page, I saw something interesting.
- I think you are very interesting. Am I right?
- You have an attractive smile. Do you practice in front of a mirror?
- It seems you”ve had many different lives. Which events do you find most interesting?
- I think everyone in the world has seen “.” I got a lot of impressions from it. Do you have any?
- Ladies, take part in our social survey. What qualities do you value most in men?
- They say casual dating is dangerous. What do you think?
- Your photos can make men take action. What inspires you?
Have you already understood the principle? You can come up with the rest of the questions yourself.
A few additional tips:
- Don”t answer the opposite question directly and in detail. Keep the suspense alive.
- If she”s interested in you, be interested in her. Tell her about your interests, achievements, and views. And ask about them. This way, you can maintain interest. Use your humor, knowledge, and skills.
- If you have any questions, don”t hesitate to contact us. In other words, it”s not a one-word answer.
- Anyone who is interested in a girl, her life, and her problems will be satisfied. In this case, it”s somewhat intriguing. The girl has a well-developed imagination; she fantasizes and remembers you.
- Sincerely praise them.
- Don”t be rude or insult her, as unworthy and insecure people do.
- Write correctly.
- Don”t push. Pause to stimulate dialogue.
- Use emojis, but don”t overload your message.
- Don”t try. Be yourself and remember the rules of communication, and everything will be fine.
- If this doesn”t help, walk away. If a problem arises, she”ll contact you, but don”t waste time, even if it”s not yours.
- It”s important to ask interesting questions of your correspondent, but even more important is that you yourself are interested in her goals, an important profession, and a desire to move forward. Girls communicate with such people without interesting questions. Alex Leslie — Chat Rules 2020
Chat Rules for Girls
