Selection on the Internet: stages, advantages and disadvantages
Online dating is cyber dating. The information age is in full swing, and people do not shy away from the Internet, they surf sites that appear on the go, at work, on the subway, on the way to work and home, in line, during breaks, lunch. Some people have moved their personal lives to the Internet. Most everyday conversations with spouses, parents, and even authorities have been transferred online, and communication has become almost entirely computerized.
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It came to dating. There are couples who actually got together as a result of online dating, and there are a lot of them. But you don’t have to look online for pure love of life. Goals can be completely different. From long-term relationships to one-night stands, from freedom to non-binding meetings, to arranged marriage.
Pros and cons of online flirting
Advantages of online pickup
- As a rule, acquaintances on the Internet are “targets”, in other words, girls sitting on sites and forums have already logged in for this purpose, but street pick-up artists do not always “reach the goal”, however, experienced pipers, even indifferent to girls, can do something to intrigue, get acquainted and convince.
- You decide for yourself who to hit on. Since on the site, in addition to photographs of beauties, their personal data (hobbies, individual parameters, good/bad traits in them, as well as sophisticated partners, dreams, plans, images of future guys, etc.), such “screening” filters out uninteresting people and actually wastes time. There is no need.
- This is a kind of training platform for those who are honing their seduction skills, have never approached a girl first and have never met anyone.
- Online communication takes place in absentia. This means that there is no need to monitor behavior or appearance, but, of course, you need to follow your word.
- A calm and familiar atmosphere, minimal discomfort, a favorite chair, familiar walls — all this helps to be confident.
Read also: Rules for online dating: for men and women
Ah, the great global network! How many opportunities have opened up for humanity as we have developed? Now, with the help of the Internet, we can even.
The following disadvantages can be noted:
- Inaccuracies in information — the photographs sent do not always correspond to reality, and other data cannot be verified before a personal meeting.
- The risk of getting lost in the crowd — when logging into the system, it is not obvious which person is hiding behind it. You should always reveal yourself.
- Girls are always more beautiful than boys. And beautiful girls are very pregnant from excessive attention, especially in the first days after registering on the site.
Pickup stages on the Internet
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- An image is an opportunity to be noticed by him more than once. If there is no picture in the brain, thoughts like “ugly, shy and will soon be in trouble with the law” arise (and girls still play girls). The appearance should be representative, but a passport photograph will not do. A barbecue in the river with swim boots won”t do either. Together with a stupid person or ex-girlfriend (mother), they squat in dark glasses near the colored Rada. Key points are professional studio work, thoughtful composition, creative ideas.
- Questionnaire — set a “speaking” status (lines of songs, quotes, catchphrases), show a sense of humor in the description, indicate the real age and other parameters must also correspond to the truth. From the questionnaire, the girl should receive useful information, but not very intriguing, there is no need to say anything. Only then will online pickups show good results.
- Direct acquaintance is the main thing, to be stubborn, but not persistent and not to immediately cut from the shoulder or drag into bed. Girls don”t like it. A phrase containing a greeting and a question about your interests is enough. If you want to rock a TOP girl, you need something cooler than the usual emojis and greetings. Such chicks know their worth and send a dozen (or more) annoying and unnoticed guys every day. Plots, riddles, atypical compliments and some innocent revelation will be quite enough.
- Get her number — an important number appears on the screen. Be creative and resourceful. You should not delay this step, as you risk moving from the category of an active suitor to the category of a cheerful interlocutor.
Essentially, the man is the initiator of the relationship. The initiator policy is the default tactic. Girls always like to give in, obey, break and behave decently. This is fine. Only a real pickup artist can cope with this task, and happiness awaits him.
The following linked article explains everything you need to know about pickup training.
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