Increased erection: when desire is too much for everyone
Increased erections may be normal. Imagine a young man who plays sports, eats normally and rests. This can make traveling by bus a real pain. But it can also indicate deviance and mentality. Then the whole life of our fictional hero comes down to the constant search and instinctive satisfaction of a partner. Of course, it’s good if there are no problems with sexual function, but it is worth distinguishing between normal healthy sexual desire, situations aggravated by various drugs, and mental disorders.
One Hundred Shades of Normal
According to sexologists, it is completely normal to experience arousal when
- There is a trigger in the form of a naked, attractive body;
- There is a demonstration of a trigger in the form of television, the Internet or a work of art;
- There are subtle hidden sexual signals, for example, a certain mood, a partner”s voice, his smell, random touches, etc.;
- The objects are not part of the circle of acquaintances, but are very attractive;
- Indicates some personal fetishes.
Yes, a special love for fishnet tights or high heels and platforms that look like hell, or leather leggings, is quite a variant of the norm. And there is even a desire to follow sex. An erection is a healthy physiological phenomenon. It accompanies men with normal testosterone and SHBG levels throughout their lives. Over time, he learns to be distracted if the symptoms do not correspond to the situation. And everything happens in turn. There are no deviations yet.
When the problems are not far-fetched
Someone has an enviable sexual constitution. He wants to be anywhere, anytime. At work, instead of selling equipment, he watches pornography. He has a ton of girls on his phone, ready to meet at any time, and he can call prostitutes in his free time. At home, he has a wife. Next door, he has a landlady. And recently, he was beaten by a boxer for harassing a girl at a club. It seems like the man is built on a cube, but what”s the problem if the wife is happy, the mistress doesn”t make any claims, and no one takes the opinion of a paid woman into account? There”s only one problem: the man is interested in nothing but sex. He is always seeking or fulfilling his desires. If I actively marketed my equipment, I would have become a top manager and gotten a promotion long ago. In fact, his colleagues only make fun of him because he constantly watches videos. Oh yeah, maybe there”s even a workforce for when the boss gets tired of the incessant porn traffic. A person obsessed with sex can be someone who:
Pathological sex addicts for psychological reasons;
- Prospective psychiatric patients who are just beginning to show symptoms;
- Carriers of organic diseases;
- Steroid users who are unaware of all the side effects;
- Narcissists with a range of mental disorders.
- Sexaholism
An increased erection or simply a “long boner” is not a hallmark of sexual size. The latter cannot simply deny sex, even when it is inappropriate. Let”s say our hero is late for the train, and this happens. No, he won”t call a taxi and leave until his desires are satisfied. This doesn”t stop him, and there”s no chance of being caught with his girlfriend in a shopping mall restroom and ruining his reputation. And watching porn at work—even if there are monitors by the door so people entering the office can see the quarterly reports—is the best thing. Sexy girls can”t stop themselves. Even when his wife leaves, even when she”s tired of searching for her day in a string of friends, even when she takes the kids and gains custody of them. Neither a layoff nor an impending storm will stop him if the desire arises.
Sexualism causes serious problems associated with socialization. It is literally impossible to communicate with women. He cannot see anything other than sexual objects, even in inappropriate situations. Because of this he has a lot of problems. Sexaholics who do not know how to control themselves are in a state of drug intoxication. In most countries, such offenders are condemned because it is believed that the condition does not interfere with the person”s control over himself. A form of emotional dependence on erection. When he stops moving forward due to reasons related to age, health, or something else, such as drug use, his life begins to fall apart. These are the worst drunkards, alcoholics and drug addicts. They replace the pleasure of others in their heads. These “victims of libido” are treated by psychologists.
Cognitive therapy, i. e. acquiring life skills in a state of active addiction;
- Socialization, i. e. social behavior training;
- Search for the causes of phenomena and their elimination.
- Anything from a mother who, as a child, tied a scarf tightly around herself, to an unhappy love. Like winter snowflakes, every addict is unique.
Associated symptoms
Increased erection or priapism under the guise of CO is a symptom of schizophrenia, the male phase of bipolar disorder and many other diseases and conditions. The problem is that a person can become completely inadequate, while others will notice only sexual desire. And for obvious reasons, a correct assessment of the condition of such a person will not be long in coming. It”s true when a person can. Therefore, if the situation “suddenly arose” and other conditions have not changed, it is worth making sure that everything is in order, including mental health.
Erection and health
The incessant desire to have sex all the time is not always wonderful. It may be related to:
Tumors of the pituitary gland or adrenal cortex;
- High testosterone levels due to improper treatment of the disease;
- Problems with blood pressure. Yes, the notorious Viagra is a drug that increases blood pressure. If the blood vessels are normal, testosterone is normal, stimulation is present, pressure increases and the erection can become fully innervating.
- This problem is characterized by changes in well-being, which should lead to a doctor. More precisely, if an ordinary man suddenly turns into a sex machine and such a radical change occurs as making love or becoming intoxicated, it is worth thinking about a medical examination. At first glance, the symptoms are positive and indicate a normal state of health.
Problems with improving health
Unfortunately, we have no control over the market for the supplements we buy and “eat for health.” And now we are not talking about harmless drugs that increase testosterone, such as Tribulus. The fitness industry not only “dries” us out by pumping us up beautifully and pumping us up on the beach, but also relies on the appropriate appearance
Men suffer more than girls. The former go down a much more dangerous path, with the latter trying to bulk up huge body parts by eating grass and chicken breasts, simply collapsing between meals in an attempt to be as thin as possible. The man chose an excellent “rocking chair”. Two or three months have passed — where are our muscles? Qualified coaches will tell you that this is not enough time, but anyone who does coaching these days can still be found in the public domain. Patients go through several months, lose interest in everything that is not related to pumping up muscles, and find them. Natural supplements, mainly sports pits, but only for runners. To bypass doping controls in professional sports, portable players were invented. However, today they are actively sold to amateurs. Men “eat up” them and are very surprised why their whole life now consists not of trying to lift new weight, but of trying to get rid of obsessive thoughts about sex and find a partner. Therefore, all these cute pills form completely normal testosterone in the body. Elevated levels of this substance cause “sexual miracles.” Indeed, after cancellation, our hero expects the exact opposite effect.
Minor psychological disorder
This awaits everyone who was not brought up as a child, and everyone who believes in the sanctity of their unspeakable autumn sex. Such desire is accepted as a guide to truth and action. Meanwhile, deeply selfless people strive to please others. Good for today:
Young and now narcissists almost undergo plastic surgery;
- Sexy, and here lies a whole legend about a magnificent erection;
- Do you think it is necessary to mention the rich and loans?
- In fact, it”s always nerve-wracking. This is not a physiological law, but a forced person who has long followed the formula “because you need to succeed in society.” Such comrades do not have an erection at all, and they can chew pills for years for their “provocation”. They are not particularly gifted and do not abuse their testosterone. All this taken together is not a reason to laugh at another new acquaintance. These are signs that it is time for a person to become a psychologist.
Sexologist S. Beridzhanin claims that if there is a problem with any form of construction, then at least a short person needs to consult a cardiologist. These are all pressure changes, and they can be more dangerous than any dysfunction.
Imaginary hero of great sex
Luckily, everyone says that most people don”t apply. They simply prefer the valley because of feminization and the image of a holy woman. Yes, in our society it is fashionable to be young, rich, sexy and without problems. So they tell grand lightsaber sagas about themselves. Such people have few problems, except for very low self-esteem. Yes, however, if everything is organized according to this standard, a man does not need to make up songs, himself and stories about his erection and tell them to everyone, including friends, girls and third parties whom he accidentally met in the train compartment. They usually have success trying to practice this or talk about other things. This is due to the fact that discussing your achievements in bed is not a very common activity.
When a girl is involved
Some completely normal men are “heroes” in the eyes of themselves and public opinion. They are created by girls. Whether the reason is love or inexperience, or both, the most ordinary night of one, two or three sets can turn into a real feat. And now the woman herself is happy, and all her friends know it. After a while, the man notices that everyone, from deans and philosophy professors to grocery store clerks, is smiling at him meaningfully. Of course, here everyone decides for himself whether such reputational risks are necessary and whether it is worth starting a conversation with a girl. Moreover, in her opinion, it does not fall within the basic demonstration of dignity.
The Edge of Normality
By the way, sexology does not describe normal sexual constitution in terms of “number of approaches or repetitions.” It is believed that sexually mature men get an erection when they see an arousing object. And when they are satisfied, they don”t experience it. How long the period of satisfaction lasts and how long it takes to resume sexual activity is normal and is not mentioned in textbooks.
Usually only deviations are reported. In some ways, dysfunction cannot be confused with anything else. If an erection does not occur in response to stimulation, it appears immediately. However, not all such cases are problematic. In some cases, alcohol or sedatives may be more important than the actual problem.
Conclusion
In general, we are talking about a subjective phenomenon: symptoms of a person”s erectile dysfunction. If it interferes with your life, it”s not normal. Here we need different tools, ranging from the ability to focus on other things to the mundane everyday “already have a girlfriend.” Due to the sudden change in the sexual giant, it is necessary to make sure that nothing is accepted “for sport”. If this is accepted, you need to learn to control yourself, since increased stress on the body will only worsen the situation. If this is not the case, it is worth undergoing a routine medical examination to ensure that there is no organic disorder. Well, if the reason for the suddenly “discovered sexuality” lies precisely in changes in your personal life that are not associated with long-term abstinence, then a psychologist will not hurt.
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