“Harder!” or Why Do We Like Rough Sex?
He entered her and pinned her against the wall. Like it or not, many members of both sexes truly enjoy rough sex. Gentle friction and long foreplay somehow soften the intensity of passion. Your partner (or partners) seems to be trying to prolong the pleasure and “reinvent the wheel,” but instead of enjoying yourself, you start thinking about the quality of the ceiling repair. So why do we need a “punch” with virtually no foreplay to reach peak pleasure? Why do you like rough sex? The reasons can be very varied.
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Male Conquerors
Quite rough sex is a clear form of dominance. A man does not ask a woman for it, he does not buy it. He takes it like a trophy, like a conqueror. I agree, there is a certain natural spontaneity in this, a flavor of many years of traveling through unknown countries. Currently, human physical fitness is not valued as much as centuries of hard work and endless wars of conquest using primitive, mostly cutting and piercing weapons. Nowadays, thanks to the ability to think, predict and analyze, representatives of the stronger sex develop more intelligence than biceps. The body also conveys attractive feelings, for example, physical superiority over beautiful women, which can be realized at least in bed.
Therefore, men really love rough sex, similar to role-playing strong, victorious knights who do not allow any resistance. There is another interesting point: men are not interested in rough sex. As a rule, a fairly rough and intense blow causes a corresponding reaction. What do physicists say about this? Are the acting and opposing forces equal? Thus, the “softness of the caviar” allows a woman to easily “melt” in the arms of her partner. However, with intensive use, it acquires such tone (and, by the way, the vaginal muscles too). After all, the reaction to pressure is immediate, even if the pain is slight. There is another option. Men want to be “broken” and raped. There is no need to put pressure on anyone. He doesn’t have any business at all. Thus he became a victim of sexual desire. How nice it would be if you weren’t the one pestering someone (arranging flowers, gifts, a birthday for your mother), but someone was quietly taking you away.
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Why Do Girls Like Rough Sex?
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- Firstly, because religious and social norms often force women to be more reserved and pretend that they do not want this sex at all. If a beautiful girl approaches ten available couples and offers to have sex with them the same way she does, without payment or obligation, at least nine will agree. If a good guy does the same and approaches a girl, seven will refuse. even if at the same time they really want it. Thus, the more ethical a woman is, the more she dreams of being raped.
Of course, this is more of an erotic fantasy than a real desire. And she wants her to be a maniac, not a sick and dirty madman, not a famous actor playing a pirate role. But the main thing here is psychology. Violent behavior removes the responsibility for enjoying it. Therefore, rough sex in the form of intense play is suitable for removing all psychological barriers.
- Secondly, the more important and responsible “male” position a woman occupies in everyday life, the more she wants to give up this social role and feel subordinate and weak. Many psychologists encountered this phenomenon during consultations. And you “relax” and “sour” in front of anyone, even in front of your loved one (after all, tomorrow he can use this against you, divide property or demand silence), and at least sex makes you feel small and vulnerable.
- Thirdly, on the contrary, there are options. The woman acts as a “cat of prey.” She purrs to her victims and does whatever she wants to them – roughly but pleasantly. This restoration against tyranny is better than all cavils. The father’s cries that “the man in the house is always the boss” asserts a very pleasant self – his own assertion as the dominant woman. And, for example, in the kingdom of Hienas there is complete patriarchy.
- Fourthly, various sacrifices. He who hits, loves,” the grandmother raised the little girl. Then the girl gets used to the fact that some veiled versions of violence are the norm. But not when it is “too good to be true.” Thus, very rough sex in the heads of such young women can resemble a tribute.
So what does all this mean?
If both partners prefer this form of play, that’s great. If you are both equally dedicated to your work, why hold yourself back? Rough sex is passion without conventions, imposing “brakes” and complexes. This is the ability to enjoy life and breathe deeply. Dream and get it. So discuss your addiction with your partner and don’t waste time if he suddenly unsubscribes and says “oh, have mercy.”
