How to Fight Properly: 10 Effective Tips
Even those who seem idealistic in their relationships don’t run away from it. However, it’s not necessary to relegate them to the category of scandal on a universal scale. A few simple rules will help you cope with your own negative feelings and make the most of the next conflict with your partner. Moreover, over time, they will become less and less frequent.
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Learning to Control the Situation
Follow the following recommendations.
How to Fight Properly in the Family? Satya Das. Moscow. April 28, 2017
- Don’t put it off. If you have complaints about your partner, express them now. Don’t bottle up your dissatisfaction until it escalates into a major “boom.” Prepare for an argument in advance. If you feel an argument is inevitable, put your grievances down on paper. This way, a constructive dialogue emerges, not just an exchange of shame.
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be a good listener. Now, confront your partner, even if you want to express everything you think. Conflict should also take the form of dialogue.
- Discuss one issue at a time. Don’t jump from topic to topic and use the perfect opportunity to accuse your partner of every mortal sin.
- Don’t resort to shame. Sometimes I really want to tell my partner tenderly that I’m not a good person, that I’m a good person, that I’m a good person, that I’m a good person, that I’m a good person, that I’m a good person. But that means you’ve stopped arguing.
- No comparisons. If you compare your partner to someone else, as an example, you’re heavily dependent on your loved one’s self-esteem. You make peace, but the bitterness remains.
- Resolve the problem. Yelling and venting your anger is healthy. However, you need to reach a logical conclusion and find common ground.
- There are no witnesses. You can persistently sort things out until you’re alone.
- You know how to apologize. If one of you was wrong, you need to pull yourself together and say the awkward word “sorry.” There’s absolutely nothing difficult about it.
- Calmly assess the cause of the argument. Arguments often arise unexpectedly. Perhaps you need to cool off a bit?
- And remember: everyone is different. Your views on the same thing may not 100% coincide with your partner’s. But there’s no need to bicker about it. You can discuss everything calmly, thereby strengthening your relationship and trust in each other. Ten tips on how to argue effectively in family conflicts! Psychology for smart people.
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