How can guys understand why girls don”t appreciate being treated well?
Relationships between boys and girls are very complex stories with elements of lies, intrigue, passion, selfishness and pure emotions. They are not very easy to build. Often in modern society there are young people who are very attractive and educated, but, unfortunately, lonely. Some men don”t understand why girls don”t value compassion and kindness. All girls are so ungrateful, are they really girls? Analysis.
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The girls got greedy
Perhaps this has to do with statistics. In our country it has long been known that for every 10 girls there are 9 boys. However, such a situation was observed in the first decades after the Great Patriotic War. If we look at a 2018 Rosstat study, the sex ratio is approximately 1, 000 men to 960 women. In other words, there are more men now.
Based on this, some gentlemen are more or less attractive to girls. She reluctantly accepts the advances of the unlikely candidate and turns her nose up. Such a girl knows her worth well, but does not appreciate care and kindness. And she keeps a man next to him “just in case.”
Patriarchal foundations
We should also not ignore the fact that in families in the post-Soviet space, relationships between parents are often built on patriarchal principles, in which men are given comprehensive power over wives, legal property and economic income. And a girl’s destiny is to enjoy the status of a married woman and serve and obey her husband in everything.
The young man adopts the behavioral model of his parents and transfers it to the society of his modern peers. Then he experiences shock, simply because he cannot understand why girls do not fall into ecstasy and why they do not appreciate care and tenderness just because he showed signs of attention. To build a patriarchal model of relationships, a man needs a beautiful, hardworking, submissive, but stupid girl. Where can you find such a person, if not Chris Hemsworth himself.
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Beats means he loves
Usually, there are unusual circumstances when a man displays physical aggression toward a girl. The man sincerely believes that the girl provoked him with her ambiguous behavior. There”s a stereotype that if a girl drinks, whether with friends or at a party, and wears a miniskirt, it automatically means she “doesn”t care” if someone approaches her. If she suddenly begins to resist, which is guaranteed not to, the man may hit her or sexually assault her. Then he tries to make amends and hopes he can gently persuade the girl not to go further, fearing the consequences but not understanding why she doesn”t accept his kindness. Yes, that”s unnecessary. Rude behavior or careless words can damage the sensitive emotional tissue of a sensitive girl. And why don”t girls appreciate caring and kindness? Why don”t girls appreciate being treated well? #shorts
Who would have known
Who would have known
We are so different
We are so different
Soul Seller
Selling soul
And, of course, the question arises, why then do girls not appreciate care and tenderness? When they love, they appreciate everything. And they themselves show care and tenderness. And without love, care does not bring joy. Maybe, after all, if your good attitude is not appreciated, the relationship should be ended?
Why don”t girls appreciate guys” good attitude? poll of girls. feminine logic
