Men are afraid of smart and beautiful women. Why?
“If a man doubts how a woman feels about him, he will act 100 times fatter!” (Author unknown)
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There are many reasons why men are afraid of smart and beautiful women. Almost every reason answers the question: why and why not?
Why?
What can you see in popular Hollywood films? Powerful men with bulging muscles throw equally powerful men in different directions, handle unfamiliar and complex equipment in a playful manner and put forward the “smartest” scientific hypotheses. The same thing happens in literature. It is not interesting to write and read about ordinary people, so here, too, a strong man (gentleman) in all respects meets and marries an attractive and intelligent girl (according to “The Little Mistress of the Big House,” Jack London), and no one else has a chance to convince her. Stereotypes are imposed, and these stereotypes are firmly rooted in the subconscious. Especially after the first break, when girls are airy but ordinary creatures who easily adapt to reality, in the minds of men the template stands firmly on crooked, hairy legs.
- Fear of the female mind.
“Don”t be afraid of smart women, when love comes, your head turns off.” (Author unknown)
The worst thing is when a woman laughs contemptuously at advances. Fear of plunging into oneself and into a woman’s eyes. Yes, this also happens, but rarely. Wise women are more likely to be able to handle the situation skillfully and without embarrassing the man. Many men are afraid of smart and beautiful women, believing that they are used to communicating with many gentlemen in order to satisfy their rather large material needs. True or not, the stereotype works. Then gentlemen will be able to look at beautiful women only from afar and protect their skinny wallets. This only matters to 24% of women.
“Men tend to ignore what is valuable and embrace what is available” (Author unknown)
Many men do not start fights, believing that they will definitely lose, fearing that they will not be able to compete for the attention of an intelligent and attractive woman. About beauty: according to a survey of more than 160, 000 respondents in the post-Soviet space (2010-2011), only 39% of men care about the external beauty of women (48% for women). In other words, not everything is as sad as the gentlemen think. Not all women are business-minded, and not all women appreciate a man”s appearance. If a woman feels like behind a wall behind her husband, success is guaranteed.
- Fear of being controlled
Self-care is an integral part of beauty, so, as a rule, beautiful and smart women also take good care of themselves. These three elements indicate the success of the chosen one and indirectly indicate the strong character of women.
Men are afraid of women”s dominance in the family and relationships, but to no avail — they will still be under the thumb! You don”t have to be beautiful and smart to do this.
- Fear of overwork.
“Until my wife brings me out of this state, my body will remain in a state of rest.” Hugh Lawson
Read also: Is it true that men are smarter than women? The debate about differences in intelligence the debate about which is wiser has been going on for a very long time. For centuries, sages, thinkers and scientists have tried to proclaim theirs in one way or another.
“If a woman is beautiful and smart, then the demands are too high and you need to work harder — that’s what men think. It’s easy to remain lonely! Or limit yourself to light flirting.
- “Can beautiful, smart women become good housewives?”
Men only want sex, we are told. No, they are hungry too.” (Author unknown)
Another thing men fear in relationships with beautiful and intelligent women. Courting such women as a housewife is somehow incompatible; this grooming is incompatible. Eating out requires a fatter wallet. The same applies to hiring a “housekeeper.” Therefore, men suffer from doubts and worries. It is believed that men are the stronger sex. This applies not only to muscles but also to professional activity. If a man is not a gigolo, then the higher income of his weaker half provokes a negative reaction. Minor, because he is a man! And if the difference in career status in the woman”s favor is more than a few steps, an acquaintance will say: “Here is the husband of that successful beauty.” Of course, a beautiful woman has more opportunities to change husbands simply because a stranger constantly pays attention to her. You can”t put a “chastity belt” on him. Many men now work long hours from home—business trips, shifts, field seasons. And all this time, women deprived of their husbands” attention must contend with strong hormones from being surrounded by so many men. Research shows that 84% of men experience jealousy (and even more—86%). These are men, and I suspect they know from experience that change is the hardest thing, and then it gets easier and easier. In addition to the question of why men are afraid of beautiful, intelligent women, we can ask—why are they afraid?
Why are they afraid?
“Most men have stopped pursuing beautiful women, but they definitely choose attractive women.” (Author unknown).
The main reason is laziness and reluctance to offer the best in the professional field. All women deserve admiration and respect, but for some reason they are considered smart, beautiful and worthy of praise. Therefore, since you are dating or living with them, you have to work much harder than the average Amborican. Many contestants need to at least dress stylishly and learn how to earn more — find a more lucrative job. If you are smarter, you know more, so educate yourself and follow the smart ones. Wives have no time to study economics — the answer is obvious. All this applies to any relationship with any woman — smart and beautiful. And in the “normal” world, where wives go, they can plunge into the world of beer, football, box football and fishing. As a result, most men do not approach wise and beautiful women — they understand this with their spinal cord, where it is troublesome for them to match and it is so pleasant to lie on the sofa, and not with their heads.
When are men not afraid of beautiful and smart women?
There are only two such age intervals: the first is from 0 to 7 years, when the beautiful and smart are not yet interested; the second — after 80 years, when they are no longer interested; and the third — after 50 years, when beautiful and smart people are no longer interested. And only in Qatar, one of the smallest countries in the world, located on the Arabian Peninsula, are they not afraid of such women. Here, at the most reproductive age, from 25 to 45 years, there are almost five men per woman. They accept their men for what they give them and don”t turn their noses up at beautiful or smart women. Beautiful and intelligent women find that infantile and lazy loud-mouthed men push them into the arms of proud or rich men, and there are not enough of them for all the beautiful people. And they are beautiful, smart and successful, preparing meals for the lonely and childless. But it”s not that bad. Foreign agents with powerful torsos and square jaws, wandering around our country in droves with huge cameras and miniatures around their necks — instead of buttons. Having finished their spying, they inevitably bring back all their smart beauties, snow-covered trees with palm trees (not Alaska!). They take them to the beach and give them to families with many children on yachts. This article can be completed with an appeal from Lyudmila Shcherbskaya to men. “Men are not women. There are many of us.” Read more about why men are afraid of women in the article at the link.
