Music for intimacy: why you need it and which one to choose
Music has firmly entered our lives. It accompanies film frames, envelops them and affects our emotions. She performs in shopping centers. Depending on the store”s requirements, the performance can be energetic and edgy or melodic and soothing.
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Music is an integral part of any holiday or party, be it a gathering around the fire or a magnificent wedding for 300 people. To the music, people sweat in simulators and draw circles around the stadium. We fall in love, kiss and have sex while listening to music. That”s why we need sexy music.
Do you need music in the bedroom?
Please note that some couples use accompaniment not out of love for the art, but for the purpose of intrigue. Of course, the boom of post-hardcore speakers can drown out a lot of things. However, do not underestimate the audibility in the average apartment. Your flatmates (and downstairs) can tell you a lot about your temperament, as well as your taste in music.
Loud music is by no means a panacea for couples who are forced to share an apartment with modest people or strangers. Ultimately, music can merge with the sounds of love. The combination is not bad, unless you are a timid person. Therefore, it is recommended to use music not as a cover, but to warm up the atmosphere for your own pleasure.
Will your partner like erotic music playing on the bedroom wall? Only your partner can answer this question. Some people get a thrill from the silence, when the only sounds are the creaking of the bed and the breathing of lovers, while others become depressed from the silence and play their favorite track in advance when they “smell something fried.”
However, it is better to find out the person”s musical tastes in advance. Some people are turned on by raps about bitches and crack, others by romantic ballads or melodic songs by Ed Sheeran, and others don’t recognize anything other than Enigma.
If for some reason an “individual approach” is not possible, you should pay attention to universal melodies that affect the brain and emotions of people in a certain way.
Almost every platform has ready-made “hot” playlists. Words can”t describe it, but some songs are sexy even if you don”t understand the language of the song. Weekenders are leaders all over the world — it is to these songs that lovers prefer to indulge in passion. Tone of voice, melody, rhythm, smooth transition — the musicians know perfectly well how to convey sensuality and desire through song.
Why does music affect us so much?
Each of us has favorite compositions that take us into space. Like before an important event, inspiration, happiness, joyful excitement — sometimes music gives pleasure that can rival sex. How to use it?
Experts in the field of neuroscience presented some interesting data. Music can cause the same sensations as drugs. Interesting.
Thus, it is a special two-step process in the brain. While waiting for your favorite piece of music to play, your brain is filled with dopamine.
The second stage, which is also the final stage, acts like heroin or morphine through opioid receptors.
In other words, listening to your favorite artist”s album is like spending the night in the arms of opiates.
Music and sex
- A recent study highlighted the fact that you should either laugh or cry — many Airpods owners don”t take them out of their ears during sex. Unfortunately, the researchers did not ask the subjects whether they actually had headphones in their ears. We believe this is how lovers listen to podcasts on sexual prowess or look for a job.
P. S. Of course, these assumptions are of a playful nature.
P. P. S. I want to believe.
- The issue of musical accompaniment should be approached wisely. Many people advise choosing a melody in an unfamiliar language. It is advisable not to be distracted from the process and not to immerse yourself in sympathy for young rappers who have experienced the difficulties of life, or girls suffering from strife.
- Of course, classical music is classic (sorry for the tautology), but not everyone can appreciate such melodies. Most lovers choose works by Wagner, Beethoven and Stravinsky. In addition, Beethoven is more suitable for affectionate couples, but it is better to opt for Wagner, which inflates significant energy and sexual activity.
- For BDSM sex, accompanied by rich whips and handcuffs, the track is quite suitable. Take a closer look at the music of Marilyn Manson. Tainted Love works as both a song and a music video for warming up.
- If sex is casual and spontaneous, the song choice can ruin the mood. Play whatever comes naturally—for example, popular tracks with the right rhythm—or create a special playlist for such joys.
- For a first time (usually with two partners or one partner), choose a familiar track filled with comfortable transitions (if any). Music for sex should help both partners relax and break through the tension on this important night.
Read also: Not in the mood for sex: barriers to quality intimacy in women
Tell me honestly, dear reader: what do you prefer—great food or great sex? A recent survey in the United States surveyed 3 people.
Music unites and undresses
Research shows that couples who listen to their favorite artists together and prefer more than three hours of solo music a week enjoy each other”s company. There”s nothing better than a Spotify-filled sex playlist—67% of people say their sex life is more consistent and better when they listen to music in their partner”s arms, rather than huddled under the covers with headphones.
Scientifically proven!
Scientific rule!
Now, where there”s a surge of hormones, there”s also all sorts of comforting nonsense, have you noticed?
Where can you find it?
Where can I get it?
- If you trust your friends” musical tastes, ask them what they prefer. Unfussy people will gravitate toward the faint of heart, then toss in a few tracks. These are the people who aren”t easily embarrassed, and they”ll respect you too much to join in on your romantic evening.
- Pay attention to the most popular tracks during this period—melodious tracks with sexual undertones, either in the lyrics or the beats, will be the most successful.
- Play The Weeknd”s album. It”s no wonder you see this name in most music and sex surveys.
- Watch your favorite erotic films and download the soundtrack. If both you and your partner love this movie, the scenes that come to mind will excite you even more and give you some ideas for foreplay.
- Sexiest Performers
- This is according to a study conducted some time ago by the medical company Kegel8.
Sexiest Performers
Legends
Sexiest songs
Legends
Great song, great video — both are literally filled with eroticism and sensuality. “Porn for your ears” is how the TimeOut website describes the track, placing Chris Isaac”s work in first place in the top songs for sex.
- You behaved disgustingly and made me dream about you.”
The whole world was on fire, no one could save me except you.”
You may not know English, but after watching the video you will understand its essence — it turned out to be quite bold.
I want to make you wet.”
Prince Sexy MF
A legendary song from a legendary artist. Indeed, after reading the title, I heard the chorus of this song in my head. If for some reason you missed this track, I advise you to fill in the gaps in your musical education as soon as possible.
- Tell me what you”re eating and I”ll cook it.”
Lil Wayne.
Rap, electronica, auto-tune and clean lines come together to give the world a very hot track. This is one of those songs that can lift your spirits even if you don”t know the artist”s language.
- “She licks me like a lollipop.”
After trying it, I was speechless.”
How to listen to music with the screen off / YouTube music and videos in the background
Call me if you want to bleed.
Depeche Mode.
- Your sun is rising — My Kingdom is at hand.”
“I feel you, every move you make.”
“This is the morning of our love, this is the dawn of our love.”
The clip is filled with beautiful women dancing around chairs, (literally) setting everything on fire and shaking their hair furiously. The clips can cause erotic rage in any woman. The melody and lyrics make you feel sexier than any aphrodisiac.
“Baby, can”t you see how these clothes highlight my figure?”
“Baby, please unbutton my clothes.”
Britney Spears.
Sexual nuances? Hmmm, quite a sexy text! The lyrics are peppered with Britney”s playful giggles, making it even hotter. Britney knows her stuff and this track takes pride of place at the top of our list.
- “I know you can”t resist, so don”t resist.”
I know your mom told you to stop, but today your life is going to change.
“You”ve never experienced anything like this before. I know you”ll love it.”
Britney Spears.
Favorite technique — as if you accidentally overheard a conversation that was included in the lyrics of the song. The first line sets the tone for the entire track. This is a song about sex, about sex and about sex.
- “I know you can”t resist, so don”t resist.”
“I miss you, I want to dance with you.”
George Michael.
Even if you think you don”t know this song, chances are you don”t. You”ve probably heard either the original or one of the many remixes and covers (fans of heavier music will appreciate Seether”s version of this song). “Careless Whisper” is the translation of the song”s title. Intriguing, isn”t it?
- “I feel so insecure when I take your hand and lead you to the dance floor.”
I will never dance again the way I danced with you.”
Marilyn Manson
This song has already been mentioned above as a great track in a BDSM game. And we will not go back on our words. The song and video are still beautiful, crazy and vicious.
- I once ran to you, but now I run from you and your wicked love. I gave you everything a man can give. Take my tears, but that”s not all.”
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