So what can transsexuals teach me? This!
It”s hard to be surprised by anything in our world anymore. Even gender reassignment doesn”t provoke the same violent reactions it did 50 years ago. Misconceptions and accusations—yes, but no surprises. People who are happy with their gender and don”t want to change anything about it usually perceive transsexuals as withdrawn and lost.
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Once part of Stalin”s world, at least the majority of the population. But to no avail. After all, people who have lived in two skins at once share incredible life experiences and can teach us a lot.
Changes within men”s bodies
Men who considered their original faces to be female report the changes they experienced after their gender transition. They noted at least two important changes:
- The desire for sex diminishes somewhat. One ex-man stated, “Literally. My libido is my driving force in all aspects. And if I couldn”t have sex, I masturbated. I did a lot.” But now that I”m a woman, I still enjoy sex, but I think about it less, masturbate less.”
It”s amazing. Not only has your outer shell changed, but your worldview has changed too. It”s incredibly cool—it”s like a new way of being.
Changes affecting women
The opposite change happens when you remove women (now men) from the picture. Several years ago, the New York Times interviewed a former woman who is one of the most publicly known transsexuals. She is the daughter (now son) of the world-famous singer and actress Cher. He commented on the changes that have occurred in him since his gender transition, saying:
- My interest in sex has increased. Now the need for pleasure from lovemaking is rapidly growing, and now he wants it much more often.
- I”m not interested in long conversations. When I was a girl, I loved long conversations with my girlfriends. As a man, I don”t feel happy in long and tedious conversations. I discovered that my Jen (his girlfriend) can chat for hours. I can”t believe things used to be like this.”
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In the late 1940s, when Alfred Kinsey conducted the first scientific study of American sexuality, he discovered three very strange facts in comparison.
Whether it is good or bad is not worth judging. Just physiology.
Nothing personal, just hormones
Many women face such a problem as increased male libido. Of course, this does not apply to all representatives of the stronger sex. Indeed, research shows that in a third of couples, women are more sexually voracious than men. However, two-thirds of couples with more sexually active partners still rely on men.
Well, there you have it! Russian fairy tales—cartoons—fairy tales for children
The problem is that many women don”t understand this. Why do they want sex so badly? As the experience of transsexuals shows, this depends on the intake of certain hormones. Women have more estrogen. Reduces libido. Men have more testosterone. On the contrary, this hormone increases desire. Therefore, women, understand that your man is not a pervert. It”s all about physiology.
Meanwhile, many men complain that women talk too much and criticize their boyfriends for being inattentive. Of course, not all women talk incessantly, but we are talking about the majority. In her book The Female Brain, Luann Brizendine, director of the Women”s Mood and Hormone Clinic at the University of California, San Francisco, states that women speak on average 20, 000 words a day, while men speak only 7, 000 words a day. And men speak only 7, 000 words a day. Other researchers dispute these figures, but the point remains the same. Women are talkative by nature, and this should also be tolerated.
As the experience of transsexuals shows, the desire for verbal self-expression is mainly hormonal in nature. Transsexuals who were once female are now taking estrogen-lowering drugs and testosterone supplements. The experience of transsexuals helps them understand that men are not perverts and women are not polarizing bastards. It”s all about hormones and there”s nothing you can do about it.
How many transsexuals are there among us?
If you trace the history of human development, you will see that more and more people naturally challenge and adapt to their gender. Who would have thought, but they began to talk about gender reassignment back in the Paleolithic era, albeit in a slightly different form. People talked about sexual adventures between women and women and men, claiming that they were in the “wrong” body.
They saw nothing wrong with homosexuality because they considered themselves heterosexual. However, the real gender change dates back to 1931, when the first operation was performed by a German surgeon. Since then, a number of such operations have become increasingly common.
