Where do yesterday”s childhood friends go?

As a child, we are constantly surrounded by friends, and even the student years are impossible without them. Studying, sharing homework, noisy parties. Friendship gives us a closer look, giving us the opportunity to mentally feel the people close to us. However, over time, friends begin to move away from each other. What”s happening?

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• How do you understand that a friendship has come to an end? [psych2go in Russian] #Elstudio [ZEBR_TAG_/li>

• Well, firstly, a person is constantly developing, he has guidelines and passions. And the situation leaves traces. Let”s say you got a job at a reputable company that requires a strict dress code. Punctuality and balanced behavior are encouraged. The people you surround yourself with equal money. You yourself don’t notice how you get used to the plan and expect from yourself that you will not be kept waiting without good reason.

And your girlfriend is a freelance artist and is not at all 40 minutes late. It has always been this way. But when you continually achieve success in an atmosphere that values different times, it starts to stick to you from the inside. But, accordingly, for your statements you can only get s-shaming and even be called “mom”.

• Another option is that you get married. Yes, before this you spent the whole day with your girlfriend, and she could easily stay with you until the morning. But now, besides her, you have to show up and spend time with whoever you want in your life. And you will have no regrets!

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There must be a change in the hierarchy of important people. Otherwise there will be neither family nor maternal instinct. Friends are less important and the right people need to understand that. But if a friend does not want to leave your good home and offends you, if you want to spend time with your loved one, this is a bad sign! Either she has too low self-esteem and is afraid of being “abandoned,” or she unconsciously deeply envies you and wants to take your place.

Alena Apina and Lolita — a song about female friendship (official video)

Therefore, while active development passes you by as a professional and as a wife (mother), you will find that your friends are becoming fewer and fewer. There is nothing more to say. The fact is that you also chose a different life. I don”t want to see the other person because friendship turns into relationship clarity.

• However, things are no better with friends who do not give you the opportunity to leave them. After all, they are constantly in trouble. They didn”t happen in real life. At the same time, they only receive reciprocal compensation. When talking about themselves, they always seem to find reasons for this. And your personal efforts don”t matter. Because you can always remember your parents, your capital, the innate biological rhythms of your body that initiate communication or, worst of all, allow you to wake up easier in the morning. And now your friendship is already based on your feelings of guilt instead of mutual pleasure from communication. But this is exactly what you want to get rid of.

By the way, the transfer of communication to the virtual sphere often causes a change in the form of friendship and a decrease in real intensity.

However, not everything is so sad. Childhood friends disappear for a reason, they disappear to make room for someone new to us. And it”s best if the people you choose and your children become your true friends.

How do you know when a friendship is over? [psych2go in Russian] #elstudio voiced by @nesly fly