Dating for money — pros and cons!
Many women decide to meet someone for money. You can talk a lot about relationships and money — and I can help you with that. And today such questions are not a secret for many. But what are the pros and cons of such rendezvous?
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Extremely positive points
Women start dating for money and highlight the following positive aspects of such situations:
- Previously, there was talk of financial support. In addition, it is obvious to everyone and allows a woman to feel her own financial security. If this is the goal of the relationship, then you should not find out about it.
- It”s a wonderful romantic feeling, but freedom from unnecessary things. For many women, especially those who have already experienced breakups, this is a significant plus. And, as they say, she simply takes off her rose-colored glasses and begins to look at life more impartially, let’s say, from the position of an accountant.
- Growth and development in the career field. Agree, today it is difficult to imagine fast and successful career growth without the right recommendations and support from above. Yes, and your project or business, no matter how successful and winning it may be, is unlikely to start without an initial injection of capital.
What disadvantages will you have to face?
Meeting for money does not always bring only pleasure. After all, there is another side to the coin — the shortcomings that one has to face in reality.
- First is the lack of personal freedom. If a man pays for a woman, he wants to possess her completely and completely. To put it simply, a woman simply must fulfill the demands and desires of a man and simply obey. If it is very rude, the woman simply sells herself and moves to the level of a kept woman.
- There is risk in life. There is no guarantee that you can easily end such a relationship at any time. And especially if a man has invested money in you, in an apartment and a car designed for your mind, clothes, diamonds, a stylist, a hairdresser, etc. If you decide to break up, a man can threaten and sabotage your life.
- There is no stability in relationships. Today a man can be with you and after a while he will feel young and much cheaper. Therefore, as a rule, such relationships last only a few years. Yes, and there is always a high probability that you risk spending your best years with him and ending up with him at zero.
- You may miss out on true love and frivolity. By building relationships with people on a material basis, you can waste time and miss your true love. And over time, your relationship will simply cease to exist — the risk of remaining alone, with your fears and difficulties, is great.
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In the first couple, the relationship between a man and a woman is based on love. Couples in love are inspired by walks under the moonlight and watching films on the front lines.
And in the end, meeting for money is condemned in society. Therefore, it is worth preparing for the fact that not only the grandmothers on the bench will be to blame — in many countries they can throw stones at you for this. Are such relationships worth the money, because if so, then this is a whole art.
Don”t ask a man for money — you”re digging a hole for yourself
As many psychologists note, not asking for money from your man, boyfriend or breadwinner means digging a hole for yourself. And asking men for money, especially men in intimate relationships, is regularly done without a twinge of conscience.
Considering that such begging is shameful, many women do not do it — this is due to the lack of proper upbringing on the part of mothers and grandmothers. Often mothers and grandmothers said — all men. and cannot beg them for snow in winter. But if a woman is in an intimate relationship with a man, no matter how often it happens, this already gives her the right to certain important content.
How to do it right? There is practically no universal phrase or program here — a lot depends on the type of person. If you are in a relationship with a cheapskate, you should not ask him for money. He just won”t give it. Therefore, you should not contact him. You won”t get anything from him.
However, if a man is normal and correct, he himself knows when and how much to give to a woman. And even if a woman asks him for money, it flatters him and increases his status and importance even in his own eyes. The main thing is to do this softly, from the position of a cunning fox sister, and not heavily in your presence. For example, buy me a fur coat, and you will have the most beautiful girl in the area, and possibly in the city.
The only advice in this case is to take into account the psychological type of the chosen one — what he likes in a woman. He likes girls — include children and ask for new toys, for example boots, he likes sexy ones — include vamp women. And if your man is not stingy, but rather thrifty, he will naturally ask why you need a fifth or another pair. I’ll answer honestly — well, I really want to, because I don’t have one that beautiful yet.
The main thing is to do it carefully and not humiliate yourself. As psychologists say, if a man has a stash, he will definitely buy what a woman wants. However, if he receives a refusal without explaining the reason, this simply serves as a signal to the woman — this is how it will be in the future and you should not count on a man’s help.
And remember, dear ladies, if he is sick or simply not feeling well, if he is hungry and in a bad mood, if he has problems at work, you should not ask for money. In this case, there is a high chance that he will just be polite or not reject you too much.
