How I changed: nine real stories
In life everything is much juicier than in the TV series.
Is cheating bad?
Deception and betrayal are things that cannot be dealt with in two ways.
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This is bad, that”s all!
But is it really that simple?
When we talk about betrayal in relationships, we immediately put everyone involved in this obscene behavior on the list of the worst people on earth.
But as things change, it is worth considering specific circumstances.
And you no longer know who is labeled a “victim” and who is labeled a “villain.”
Stories of infidelity are always incredibly rare. And they generate good box office revenue for outdoor publications and television programs.
The popular site Reddit asked local traitors to talk about their lives — and the results were very successful. This turned out to be a very interesting read.
Of course, no one can vouch for the authenticity of these stories before you.
But you should definitely check them out.
Reluctant mistress
I was a mistress. It was an old acquaintance from school.
We met from time to time.
He officially met another girl, Kelly.
When we finally separated, he married her.
A year has passed since our breakup. I was back in town for the summer break and ran into him at my summer job.
He told me a sob story about how Kelly wanted a divorce and wanted to take the children away. It was stupid and I believed him. We exchanged numbers and began to correspond daily. He invited me to his “house” and showed me documents related to the divorce. Eventually, our relationship took on a character. This went on for several weeks.
One day I pounced on earrings that I had forgotten about the day before. My best friend from school opened the door. I asked Li Guy at home. His friends were surprised: why? It turned out that the man actually took care of the man”s house. The best friend also told me that this man and his wife were in the process of buying a house and that their marriage was doing well.
I stood by my opinion with anger and disgust. The next day I met Kelly at work. I asked her what her plans were for the evening and if we could meet.
When we saw each other later, I told her everything. She was confused and furious. Kelly gave me their home address and told me to come the next day unannounced.
I did so. When he saw me, he turned white as a sheet. I tried to get rid of myself, but Kelly showed up. It all ended in screaming and a fight. They divorced.
We no longer speak to either Kelly or Gay. And every time I remember this story, I want to thoroughly wash my soul. “Twice” — Nutty Photo.
Colleague and ultrasound image
Then I met my girlfriend of five years. I reconnected with an old acquaintance—we”d talked in our teens. I”d always liked her. She lived a few states away, so I thought nothing would happen anyway.
It turned out her parents lived close to me, and she visited them often.
Like old times, we decided to have dinner and catch up. We both got drunk, got a hotel room, and ended up having a little fun. This happened several times over the following months until I received a text from her.
It was an ultrasound photo. Our baby.
I was about to come out to my girlfriend because I didn”t have a father, and I didn”t want my child to go through that.
About a month later, she lost the baby, and we stopped communicating.
Because of this, I experienced intense feelings of guilt and anxiety. I”ll never go back.” — RedBombX
Because of her, he believed in love at first sight
I was young—nineteen years old. I”d been dating a girl for a year. My parents decided it was time for me to start paying rent. I found a roommate and rented an apartment.
One day, I met her in my office. She made my heart leap. She made me believe that love at first sight really does exist.
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You”ve probably thought about this at one time or another. You”ve probably heard plenty of colorful stories about friends. Or “50 Shades of Grey”—that”s about.
A few weeks later, she moved out of her house and started living across from me. We started dating. After we slept together, I broke up with my girlfriend. My new girlfriend and I had honest conversations and wanted to be together.
A month later, she moved in with me. That was 17 years ago. Now she”s sleeping with me. Upstairs with our daughter.
Forbidden love
I was in a relationship with a man who didn”t communicate with my ex-wife. She found out about it and contacted me.
I found out that he had done this before. Many times.
I found out that they had not separated and were not thinking about divorce at all — they were Muslims.
They did not have close emotional connections, they did not sleep in the same bed. But be that as it may, they were officially together.
I felt like crap. I fell very much in love with this man.
And his wife was simply wonderful. She”s a wonderful person.
I felt like crap for doing this to her.
As far as I know they are still together.” — mixxvixen
Cheating led to an open relationship
He deceived me and nothing worked out between us. I decided to go the same way. After some time, I decided to switch to an open relationship.
Things got a lot better after that,” says the remote user.
Girl”s close friend
“There seems to be no justification for my actions. I”m 18 years old and I was dating a girl for three months. I became very close to one of her friends.
I found out the terrible secret of my crash
The reason I cheated on her for so long isn”t actually because they were friends for so long. I didn”t want to lose their friendship because of me.
I also didn”t want my new girlfriend to look like “best friend turned into a guy-beating whore.”
The situation was difficult, we were very young and did not know how to understand everything.
Flirting with a co-worker went too far
I was the third person in a relationship that lasted about two years. She was married.
I”m married now. There was no happy ending for me.
Former work colleague, we hung out a few times, watched TV/movies, smoked and drank, but nothing happened for a long time. I was attracted to her emotionally and physically. But we never crossed the line.
One day she got drunk at a party. I was her companion and decided to stay with her. We lay down on the free bed.
Honestly, I craved intimacy, connection with someone. And I wanted her not to get sick in her sleep. I didn”t do anything, and neither did she. Nothing happened that night.
A week or so later we hung out and she said she liked the way I rubbed my beard against her and then asked me to do it again. After a few days this progressed to more intimate hugging, rubbing and groping, and finally I kissed her. It was amazing.
Kissing turned into oral sex, and one night she wanted sex. At first she refused (honestly), but sex still happened. Then again and again.
She explained that at the beginning of our relationship she felt distant from her husband. He wanted children, so he put pressure on her. And in general (according to her) it was a goat. And I was different.
It all ended recently. She constantly emphasized that she was trying to distance herself from me. I sent everything and gave up.
There was a small fight. She asked if I wanted to leave. I said I don”t know. Then she left me. “other_guy123.
Romance at work
I am 40 years old, I have been married for over 10 years and I have two children. Our marriage made me very unhappy. We barely had sex and our connection seemed to disappear completely. We fought often and I always had to apologize and compromise.
At work I met a woman 15 years younger than me. We started flirting and it turned into an intense emotional affair that lasted about a month. I fell deeply in love with her and was so unhappy that I decided that I really needed to divorce my wife. I told my wife about the other woman and said I wanted a divorce.
She begged me to stay and solve our problems. I agreed to stay and give our relationship a chance. Let”s see what changes over a certain period of three months. It was very difficult, but we managed to achieve success. We”re still together” — a huge emotional shock.
Concert
Several years ago I met a wonderful person. Let”s call him “Person A”. I fell in love with him. He was so sweet and gentle. We kissed and slept with him once, but it didn”t go any further because he started a relationship with another girl. I was in a lot of pain.
Fast forward a few years. I”ve been living in this terrible relationship for a year and a half now. Let”s call him M***k.
He is a pathological liar, and whenever I do something he doesn”t like, he yells at me and threatens to leave. I have panic attacks.
And here I am at the concert. I turn around and see guy A. He”s dancing, laughing and looking amazing. He dances, laughs and looks great. I haven”t seen him for many years. My heart skips a beat. I approach him and we talk for several hours. I told him that I was dating a stupid guy and that I wanted to stop.
He kissed me goodbye. And everything went well.
I started dating guy A and continued dating my M***** for about a week. I plucked up my courage and left him.
Since then I”ve been dating guy A, but I don”t remember the past anymore” — tsbae.
