Is it possible to buy a girl”s true love with money?
Recently I have seen many different advertisements on the Internet, such as “Giving love without intimacy”, “Buying love for money”, “Looking for a girl for love”, etc. Of course, there is humor in such advertising. This is due to the fact that each of them involves sexual relations with a person.
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But some people really want to love. Many people, escaping loneliness, are ready to spend a lot of money to have someone friendly and caring nearby. And the world is structured in such a way that many girls, in pursuit of personal happiness, are ready to give “love.” But does it really exist and is it possible to buy a girl’s love with money? To understand this, it is necessary to understand the psychology of the male and female sides in this matter.
Why do men resort to love for money?
This is not about prostitution, but about why some men try to buy a woman”s love with money. There are many possible reasons, but in most cases it is based on psychological ideas. Men can be guided by the following reasons.
“I”m not good enough (eg old age, looks, gender). So the only thing I can do is give her an expensive gift to somehow attract her.” Reason: lack of self-confidence.
“I achieved everything on my own, so I can have everything I want, including her.” Reason: delusions of grandeur and excessive confidence in oneself and money.
– “I have to make sure that my girlfriend has the best because I want everyone to envy me.” Reason: great dependence on the opinions of others and the desire to arouse envy.
“I don”t believe in selfless love. Because everything can be bought.” Reason: perhaps this has been the parents’ way of life since childhood, and the child is accustomed to the fact that he has to pay for everything.
In addition to these reasons, arbitrary reasons may be considered. Of course, it is possible that some men really give expensive gifts not for their own benefit, but to make a woman happy. However, according to psychologists, in most cases, people are selfish by nature and will not do anything if they are not interested in it.
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I asked this question to my friends, and to my surprise, in every case the answer was no. Perhaps this is due to the fact that they have all been around for a long time.
Why do girls agree to sell themselves?
As for girls, of course, there are those who are ready to date, live with men or go to meetings with them for money. As is the case with men, psychological factors play a large role. Women may be motivated by the following reasons.
If he has money, he can be competitive in a man”s world and be a good life partner who will feed me and our children.” Reason: instinctive search for a life partner. In ancient times, the one who brought more prey was considered the best, now — the one who earns more. Women choose men who have a better chance of winning as a result of natural selection, because they depend on men for their biological characteristics.
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“I can”t find true love, but at least I find someone who is willing to give me something.” Reason: perhaps, after a certain painful relationship, psychological trauma, then the girl is not able to experience real emotions and begins to live with an indifferent person, but at least she can satisfy her material needs.
“I have no money, and he is my best option for meeting my material needs.” Reason: difficult financial situation. Indeed, many girls are specifically looking for a wealthy man to improve their standard of living or get rid of debts.
Of course, the reasons may be different, but the result is the same — when a girl does not have material needs for what she can offer herself.
Why true love is not for sale
Money and love are very closely related to each other, as already explained in one example, when a girl, on a subconscious and instinctive level, chooses a wealthy man who is a “competitive man” who can provide for her family. But if we talk about love, a real emotion that everyone can experience, then it cannot be bought with money.
Imagine that love is a mosaic consisting of many elements: emotions, comfort, intellectual compatibility, outlook on life, good sex, affection, etc. Money may also be included in this list, but if so, then it is one puzzle in the whole mosaic and, accordingly, an unfinished picture.
Today there is one precise definition of love: love is love that is not sold, but given freely. This is something that cannot be bought and cannot be obtained for free. This proves the popular wisdom that you have to pay for everything. But if we talk about true love, then it is not sold for money, but it can be bought for attention, care, affection, kindness, devotion, fidelity and honesty. When true love reigns, money becomes only a pleasant addition, and not the basis of the relationship.
