Kept girls — two sides of the coin
My social media profile is full of photos of luxury resorts. Branded clothing, expensive jewelry and even more expensive cars are the constant attributes of these girls. They look perfect in every photo. Still, a lot of cosmetic procedures, healthy and proper nutrition and fitness certainly bring results, after all! Dolce Vita, not so much!
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In addition, they do not have rich parents or well-paid jobs. And in the same society there are columns about personal life. The network shows that they are usually “single” or, at the very least, “have friends”, but this mysterious “friend” is nowhere to be seen in the photo. If the page does not belong to a famous actress (model, athlete, blogger, etc.), it can be argued that, with a high degree of probability, this is the profile of a female keeper.
Who are kept women?
These are young girls who are completely supported by a man (usually married) who “pays” for these intimate relationships. On the one hand, this is prostitution, on the other hand, it is a little like an ordinary love affair of a man “on the side.” However, both containers are very different from both categories. Prostitutes sell themselves to anyone who can pay. They have many partners, and most sexual encounters are one-time.
Mentors are all a little different. The partner is permanent and there is only one. As a rule, he carefully monitors that others do not appear on the horizon. Otherwise, all relationships end instantly. Moreover, in some cases, between the keeper and his sponsor there is not only a purely sexual connection, but also emotional contact. This cannot be called love, but girls can be very pleasant companions for men and interesting companions on vacation or at entertainment events. Of course, intimacy is the cornerstone of such a relationship in the first place.
A kept woman has less emotional connection with her partner and a much smaller range of common interests (or no one at all). When a child is born together, a person and his lover may experience deep feelings, strong emotional experiences, and in some cases, a connection between joint parenting and the economy. In relations with the custodian, all this is excluded. All she needs to do for her sponsor is to always look perfect, be ready for an intimate date and fully satisfy all the sexual desires of men.
Why do girls become kept women?
Of course, the first and main reason is obvious: money. And not only money, money matters a lot (especially for young unemployed people). Moreover, from the Guardian”s point of view, this path to money is not so difficult. Careful monitoring of your figure and appearance is enough to satisfy a man in bed. In some cases, you can still carry on the conversation and applaud the behavior.
The main cult of modern society is success in life, and in most cases this means material success and wealth. Only the rich can afford expensive holidays, luxury cars and other luxurious attributes of life. At the same time, the cult of material success is embedded everywhere — on the covers of glossy magazines, in numerous television programs, on the pages of Internet portals. All this can be seen in the example of young girls from low- or middle-income families who seem to desperately dream of such a sweet and carefree life. They see the shortest path to successful marketing and profiting from their key resources — beauty and youth. And, of course, there will always be buyers for such “products”.
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How are girls going to get married? The female sex soon seems to be born with this idea. She hasn’t had time to scream into the delivery room yet, but I can already see her in.
But money is not the only desire of kept women. More far-sighted and rational girls see in such relationships an opportunity to get out of the provincial backwoods forever, settle in the capital or other large cities, get a good education and successfully realize themselves in life. For them, the relationship with the sponsor is a kind of starting point for the future.
Some women become women simply because of their character and worldview. They don”t want to have a family and don”t need anyone”s love and care. They don”t need close people. Their worldview is extremely cynical and self-centered. A type of cat that walks on its own. And of course, she believes that she deserves only the best. Such girls are convinced that they will use men only to satisfy their high material needs.
Sometimes women keep them not for the sake of striving for a beautiful life, but because of very difficult life situations. For example, a girl’s closest relative may be seriously ill, and his treatment requires a large amount of money, which the family does not have. For these girls, becoming a tamed woman is a necessary measure.
Finally, in many cases, among kept women you can find girls in early childhood who do not want and cannot solve their financial problems themselves. They are used to having someone else do it for them.
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The other side of the coin
Although some people believe that the life of a domesticated girl is wonderful and carefree, this is often not the case. Sponsors can be very demanding. And girls often look like birds in a golden cage.
First of all, any intimate relationship with anyone other than her benefactor, who is in a comatose state, is excluded. Children, joint or not, are out of the question. The sponsor should make sure that the girl should always be ready for this if he expresses a desire to call and meet. Thus, she cannot go anywhere for a long time without warning the man, she cannot afford to relax a little, and her life schedule must always be coordinated with the sponsor’s schedule and always adapt to it.
Many of these relationships depend on the character, personality and moral principles of the person. For many, the woman they support is just a doll who behaves as they see fit. For them, girls are just an opportunity to satisfy their sexual desires (often very perverted ones, which cannot be realized with wives or permanent mistresses).
In fact, the girl is very lonely. As a rule, she has no real friends and has to hide her relationship with her sponsor. She will not be able to experience sincere feelings and love with any other man in her life.
Finally, the keeper must keep a very low profile and control her behavior in the presence of a male sponsor. She cannot interfere with his emotions, express dissatisfaction with anything, or simply be in a bad mood around him.
Of course, it is not possible to remain in Keeper status all your life. For the sponsor, the girl is valuable, but she is young, fresh and carefully takes care of herself. And youth and freshness, as you know, tend to fade very quickly.
This can be the path of the guardian or a more traditional path, each girl decides for herself. I would like to hope that she will never regret her choice.
