Problems of civil marriage in modern times. The illusion of family
Civil unions are relationships legalized through the registry office. Today, civil marriage is mistakenly called simple cohabitation. For various reasons, people come together and live without stamps in their passports. Some — because of the lack of money for the wedding, others — because they are not sure of their feelings and are not responsible enough to provide for their family, and still others — so that the stamp in their passport does not affect their love. On the legal side, there are a number of problems associated with a civil marriage when a couple separates after several years of marriage.
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The illusion of family
Now it is impossible to surprise a couple by living together; the second couple lives without wedding celebrations. And there are serious shortcomings here. Firstly, lack of responsibility for family and relationships. Secondly, for a man it is an illusion of freedom, for a woman it is an illusion of family. On a subconscious level, the couple feels free, and no one owes each other anything. In such situations, the woman suffers the most, because the daily fear of losing her partner overwhelms her entire being.
Often children are born while living together. Without a stamp in her passport, a young woman must take into account the wishes of her lover, whether he wants offspring or not. When cohabiting, one of the partners has the right to abandon children if continuation of the family occurs in a legal marriage. Since it is a joyful relationship, no one can make any claims.
The financial aspect of people living together has no legal effect. Nobody owes anyone anything, and the money is spent at their own discretion.
Children born from such relationships take the place of victims. They completely lack the concept of family, which negatively affects their future relationships with the opposite sex. In addition, they join the list of non-fluid substances.
Problems when breaking up
When people who have lived together for several years decide to separate, a number of troubles await them.
- Complicated process of dividing property. If in a legal marriage everything is unconditionally divided in half, you will need to live together and prove your right to own the property. To do this, you will need to provide receipts, witnesses and other evidence. This requires a lot of time and nerves.
- If one of the cohabitants dies, it is difficult for the other party to prove ownership of the property. According to the law, a magistrate can last several years and is often unsuccessful because all property has passed to the next of kin on the maternal side.
- When children appear during cohabitation, it is difficult to obtain child support during separation. In a legal marriage, the father is automatically financially responsible, and cohabitation requires documentary proof of paternity.
Read also: Types of modern relationships between men and girls in marriage and outside marriage
Modern relationships between men and women cannot be explained in a few words. Today, European couples have so many different types of relationships.
In addition to legal issues, separation also negatively affects the moral aspect. Some men refuse to acknowledge their children. In this case, the woman demands establishment of paternity and child support through the court. And some women, on the contrary, do not allow their former partners to communicate with their children. Then the father is forced to resort to legal proceedings and insist on meetings with the children. Such lawsuits and civil marriage issues require a lot of time and nerves.
Cons of cohabitation
The dangers of civil marriage
Living together without registering a marriage, a woman does not have the right to demand fidelity and financial support from her man. For the stronger sex, cohabitation is just a family game. When everyday life replaces romance, spouses in a de facto marriage become preoccupied with other passions.
How to push a man to get married
After several years of living together, you can hint to your wife about marriage. Psychologists recommend doing several things for this.
- Show him photos of girls in wedding dresses more often.
- Accept invitations to other people”s weddings.
- Tell him that you dreamed of a quick marriage.
- Causes jealousy. The main thing is not to overdo it.
- Take out a mortgage together.
- Watch a wedding film together.
- Ask him directly in front of you if he wants to get married.
It is strictly forbidden to try to secretly conceive a child from your chosen one, thereby forcing him into marriage. The news of conception confuses a man, and reactions may be the opposite.
In our next article, we will discuss the phenomenon of guest marriages and their benefits.
