What do men who give expensive gifts want?
Men who give expensive gifts are the ultimate dream for many women, who simply can”t imagine any other way to appreciate their presence with their chosen one. In reality, expensive gifts don”t always serve as a sign of appreciation from the stronger sex. What should you do to avoid misjudging yourself and make the right decision regarding the gift you bring?
Contents of the article:
Who are you, the gift-giver?
The character and social status of the person giving an expensive gift are the first things to consider:
- No matter how attractive a gift from a stranger, especially a successful man, in most cases it”s not about affection, but rather about how mediocre it is to demonstrate the financial ability to “buy” temporary intimacy. Unfortunately, 99 times out of 100, this intimacy is very short-lived and is needed only to maintain the status of a “successful man.”
- In such cases, when an expensive gift is given by a stranger and is essentially unremarkable, it”s highly likely that the giver is genuinely sympathetic and is most likely a direct hint at starting a family.
Look for the reason.
It”s worth noting that some men tend to give companionship literally from the very first days of a relationship. However, unfortunately, this genuine concern often conceals psychological trauma suffered in early childhood. This personality type is most common among women seeking long-term sexual partners and is the main cause of dysfunctional situations in the family circle. The reason is simple. Such people sooner or later “fade,” mentally and physically, resulting in the “caring husband” becoming a “pure alcoholic.”
Therefore, one should not overdo it and take such initiatives to the point of absurdity. It is much better to try to find the true cause of the superanesthesia, directly or indirectly learn details of the person”s past life, and prevent negative reincarnations in a timely manner.
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Or maybe it”s a matter of behavior?
Or maybe it”s a matter of behavior?
A slightly less harmless variation of the previous situation can be identified, where men who give expensive gifts derive pleasure from simply satisfying the needs of others. In literature, this form of behavior is called a “messianic complex,” and its cause is dysfunction, some knowledge of the chosen one”s childhood, or behavior similar to that of an offended person. The unpleasant aspect of this variant is that the messiah ceases his activities as soon as he realizes he no longer needs his help. Do this—you”ll receive a gift from a man. What kind of women do men give gifts to?
On the difference in perspectives
Most people seem to forget that they”ve seen aspects of the relationship. However, this gives rise to all sorts of mistakes. For example, a woman may perceive a man as giving her expensive things, and a man as giving her only high-quality things. Again, they want to show their loved ones that they are cared for.
On the difference in perspectives
An attempt to summarize what has been said
Works on the psychology of women have always exceeded the volume of similar publications on men, but this does not mean that from now on the stronger sex will have an easier time understanding them. Everyone imagines a book written by an author in a foreign language, remembering that translating such a work, despite all the knowledge and cleverness, is incredibly difficult, and in some cases simply impossible.
An attempt to summarize what has been said.
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