Don’t back down or give up: how to talk to anyone
Imagine this: you see the man of your dreams somewhere. Just yesterday, you imagined his height, weight, eye color, and even the shape of his ears! His fingers don’t have dangerous golden edges. This means you have a chance! The criminal code prohibits asking for nothing, holding your hand, and dragging you along. What should you do?
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Until recently, a young man had a chance, the girl recalled with a sigh. Today, these relics of the past are left behind and can be taken into account in advice to representatives of the gender gender. Down with prejudice!
Now this ideal will look back and leave your vision forever, you cannot allow this! How can I help? One way or another, you must speak, but how? What are you asking?
Fight! And then you improvise along the way.
Could you tell me what time it is?
The good old question has never failed generations of grandparents, fathers and mothers. The experience of our ancestors helps! Even if you have a watch blinking on your wrist or a smartphone in your hand. Suddenly you Do you suspect that it’s all a lie, and you need to check—which one exactly? Yes, that’s not the problem. The main thing is that you found a pretext. Moreover, how lucky you were, or how you allowed this to develop, more on that later.
Could you tell me how to get to the library?
Yes, yes, people still go there! This question is probably better than asking how to get to the nearest bar. After all, what do you have to lose? If he doesn’t know, you can start a conversation about where to put a sign on the street, and if he does, ask about his favorite book. One question has a lot of scope for conversation.
Once upon a time, in ancient times, you could ask where the telephone was, and the bravest ones could even ask for a call for two kopecks, can you imagine?
Oh, what a dog!
If you have the dog of your dreams, this is usually a great conversation starter, and also for a long-term acquaintance!
You can resist even the most arrogant dog person if their canine compa… The comments are made from the heart. Don’t fall into banality, improvise!
- “Oh, what a dog,” not “Noble beast.” And it’s truly a joy to watch!
- “What breed is he? Not: ‘Is he a Greenland Terrier?'” And again, praise, huge eyes.
- “Does he bite? Not: ‘What a terrible sight!'” And again. Well, you get the idea.
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Also, the question about names. “A dog, of course!” And again, improvisation! You already said that this is the main thing. Even if you were indifferent to dogs, the time has come to become an avid dog person! You could even say that they’ve always dreamed of such a dog, but it’s so difficult to take on such a responsibility because you want the dog to be happy! You’ve already proven that you’re following this responsible approach. You’re on the right path.
The main thing is to be yourself.
The first question is asked. What next? You’ve already said your piece, and that’s a lot. It’s not so important to hear the answer as to sense the tone. They want to get rid of you, or you want to intrigue the other person.
Even if they only respond with politeness, the chance to win remains. And if they smile at the limits of your dreams and communicate clearly, you’re almost there; the main thing is not to screw up.
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Has your dream, accordingly, become boring and turned away? Of course, you’re clearly being stitched up, but you easily understand that you’ve strategically won yourself over incorrectly. Go to WA-BANK.
What does this mean? It’s simple. Be open and straightforward about the fact that you’re talking about someone who’s been dreaming about you their whole life, and yesterday you only saw what you dreamed. The circumstances were different, there were carriages painted on black horses, ball gowns, and crystal slippers. It’s more complicated with girls; they shouldn’t mention the prince and the white horse; it’s better to keep quiet about the Porsche, just in case.
After all, what have you got to lose? You might still be interested, or you might be abandoned completely, that’s all. At least you’ll know they did their best.
Act according to the circumstances!
Contacts will be established. The main thing now is not to let the dream disappear without a trace. Imagination. Somehow it turns out to be original, but it’s normal to just say your names and ask them to name the names of your interlocutors.
If you can seduce people as if you were drinking coffee at the nearest cafe, great. No, don’t be afraid. But now you must not go astray. Leave your phone number and ask for your dream number in return. Do you want to call? We need hints! Try to arrange a meeting. Ask where you can see them.
Fortune loves adventurers!
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