Why you might not want a serious relationship
Human society is evolving rapidly. And while in ancient times, men began exclusively with permanent companions, like hunters, they would roast huge meat from the hunt, waiting for it in caves (many modern men actually take women home for this purpose).
Contents of the article:
- A world called Business
- It”s non-binding
- Personal freedom
- No financial investment
- No responsibility
- Canceled the trip to the registry office
- Which gender prefers open relationships
- Signs that a relationship isn”t serious
- Spontaneous dating
- Avoiding meeting relatives or friends
- Lack of plans
- Lack of shared living arrangements
- Lack of status
- Ending a date
Then society evolved, and its representatives began talking about the Grave Commission and love for fidelity. Then, discreet relationships came back into fashion, fully confirming the scientific theory of the spiral development of the Universe. It”s enough to recall the honors and pages of many royal ladies-in-waiting. But do people today need casual relationships? Who prefers casual relationships?
A world called Business
The frantic pace of modern life simply leaves no time for casual relationships. Romantic relationships, love—business “sharks” have no time for all of this. Moreover, this applies to both men and women.
After all, at first glance, this is precisely the essence of it. How much time is spent on such basic feelings as love? However, it turns out that love requires a certain amount of time. Romantic relationships presuppose dates, dinners and lunches in general, as well as bouquets of flowers (and those also need to be purchased). This doesn”t take into account simple communication. At first glance, it may seem that a phone call doesn”t take much time. In fact, it”s quite the opposite. Even if you haven”t spoken to your partner for a long time, a phone ringing at an inopportune time can “scare” you away from important thoughts. And ending a romantic conversation over the phone is unlikely.
Here”s the solution: start dating without a serious relationship. Then they can end the same phone conversation briefly, without the obligatory “I”m busy.” If all the necessary emphasis in the relationship is placed correctly, then the other person simply has no right to be offended. After all, it was supposed to be a serious relationship.
It”s non-committal.
It”s non-binding
That”s why some people reject them because they”re simply afraid to take responsibility and don”t want to care about others, and they don”t know who or how. In both cases, this scenario offers obvious advantages.
Independence
- No material costs
- No responsibility
- Don”t be afraid to call
- Personal freedom
Personal freedom
In any case, you should listen to your regular partner. Therefore, you need to not only coordinate your actions, but also communicate them.
At a minimum, you should be prepared to answer questions like “Where have you been, why are you late, when will you be back?” (at a minimum). Many people don”t like this in serious relationships.
Lack of Financial Investment
No financial investment
All of these are simpler and completely non-committal. Does your partner dislike walking in the park without a bouquet of flowers in hand? No problem, because you can find women who enjoy such walks.
No Responsibility
No responsibility
Here, it”s everyone for themselves. And if your partner doesn”t call, don”t worry. Maybe they”re busy, maybe they forgot, maybe they just don”t want to talk. After all, the main thing in an open relationship is that no one owes anyone anything.
The registry office visit is canceled.
Canceled the trip to the registry office
In some cases, when a young man grows up next to an authoritarian and arrogant mother, he simply cannot follow her instructions and build a serious relationship just because the mother does not approve of it. It is only in romantic melodramas that a man who has slammed the door “lives in a hut” with his beloved. Unfortunately, in life everything often happens completely differently.
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But this is the story of a young man. Adult, mature men do not want to go to the registry office for completely different reasons. Some of them are afraid that women will “sharpen their nails” just because of their condition. Others are womanizers to the core and do not want to start a serious relationship just because they are not tied hand and foot.
These men love to be in a “go wherever you want” situation.
Which gender prefers open relationships?
Which gender prefers open relationships
For representatives of the fairer sex the situation is somewhat different. Being essentially the keeper of the hearth, she is on an unconscious level looking for a man who will become her only life partner.
Of course, the modern world has made its own adjustments, and many women lead an independent lifestyle, completely forgetting about their own nature and deliberately refusing a number of potties, such as socks and vacuum cleaners. However, fortunately, such women are in the minority.
Signs that a relationship is not serious
Signs that a relationship isn”t serious
But without this, it is completely useless for such a relationship to eventually develop into marriage. Indeed, there are some signs that a trip to the registry office does not need to be planned. All of the above applies equally to men and women. Thus, the signs of a volatile relationship are:
Spontaneous dates
- Spontaneous dating
- Lack of planning
- Cohabitation
- No status
- Forced Dating Stopping — Sex
- Spontaneous dates
Spontaneous dating
I don”t want a relationship! Is this normal?
Avoiding meeting family or friends
Avoiding meeting relatives or friends
In the end, it turns out that instead of exposing their choice to friends, partners simply hide their relationship. In this case, there are two options. Firstly, he (she) does not take the relationship seriously. Secondly, he (she) is embarrassed by his (her) partner. Again, you need to understand and figure out which of these options is worse.
But in any case, such “hide and seek” clearly demonstrates that the couple”s relationship owes nothing to anyone (no matter how painful it may be for one partner). Yes, exactly. The most alarming thing is that in most cases, only one partner seeks a no-strings-attached relationship. Unfortunately, cases where independence applies to both partners are very rare.
Similarly, if a partner not only refuses to introduce a woman to his relatives but is categorically against meeting her family in person, this also indicates resistance to starting a serious relationship. In that case, why should he be hypocritical? He already knows this relationship is short-lived. Why burden it with unnecessary acquaintances in this case? Instead of a cup of tea and bread with grandma and grandpa, there are more pleasant activities. For example, a cozy hotel room.
Lack of Plans
Lack of plans
Don”t confuse the shared plans for the future expressed by respectable, wealthy men with the naive talk of fledgling youths ready to dream of everything at once (everything, by the way).
Lack of shared living space
Lack of shared living arrangements
And it”s not a matter of where the couple lives—his, hers, or a rented apartment. The key components of the passphrase are the same. After all, they want to fall asleep and wake up in the same bed with their beloved man (or woman), to be close all the time, to be cared for and cherished. If such desires don”t arise, it”s logical to assume the relationship is not serious.
Lack of status
Lack of status
End of the Date
Ending a date
Of course, this is not a necessary indicator, and it is quite possible that both partners are looking for intimacy, but there is an alarming note to it, and it is still worth considering.
Putting this whole puzzle together, you can draw accurate conclusions about how serious the couple’s relationship is. And it all depends on the partners themselves. Free flight is suitable for someone, but they need to leave the relationship in search of true love.
The man does not hold and does not let go. What will such a relationship lead to?
