Bad sex? Don”t look for someone to blame, just try again
Unfortunately, sometimes sex doesn”t help. This may be due to external factors, a partner or a person in charge.
In the first case, a second attempt should be made on more favorable terms. If the fault lies with the partner and this was the couple”s first intimate relationship, he probably has no opportunity to improve. However, blaming yourself for negative sexual experiences can create a complex and fear of developing new intimate relationships. Repeated negative sexual experiences, as a rule, can force a person out of the sexual sphere of life for a long time.
Researchers from the United States conducted an anonymous online survey of 820 men and 753 women. Some respondents had problems with sex, including difficulty achieving orgasm. The survey helped clarify differences between men and women with and without sexual problems, and between men and women who tend to be responsible for bad sex.
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Sex is a source of physical and emotional health. There is no doubt about it. There is no doubt that intimacy is positive and makes the day more enjoyable. But.
According to the study, those who have already had bad sex are more likely to attribute repeated negative relationships to themselves. Lovers who previously had no problems with their sex life blamed their partner or unrelated factors. Those who had problems with sexual functioning, regardless of gender, blamed themselves for the lack of intimacy.
Women are more likely than men to have positive relationship outcomes with their partners. The weaker sex tends to attribute negative results to themselves, but readily blames their partner for possible failures.
Men often blame external circumstances that did not allow them to be at their best, or the fact that the woman was bedridden or not very hot. As you can see, everyone tends to blame not their loved ones, but clumsy lovers, uncomfortable beds, too bright moonlight, unfavorable placement of stars, etc.
