Threesome — psychological deviation or pleasant variety?

“How about we have sex three times?” — A fairly typical proposal that one of the partners receives in a fairly long relationship (in most cases the proposal comes from a man). What could be a problem for an emancipated lover? However, some scientists and psychologists suggest that this is a way to “hide” one’s fears and possible sexual deviations.
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For example, this issue was studied by professor, sexologist and sex therapist Alexander Moiseevich Polev (Moscow Institute of Psychoanalysis). He believes such proposals may be the result of several issues, including dissatisfaction with a partner or relationship, sexual trauma (or (issues deeply rooted in childhood).
In addition, some experts argue that this may be a manifestation of homosexual tendencies. This happens because one of the partners cannot admit it to himself and therefore invites his “friend Anatoly” or the girl calls him “Masha’s friend”. And during sex, these three actually fulfill homosexual desires.
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Psychotherapists say that you need to start worrying and look for hidden subtext, but the signs that a person is not healthy are not always obvious. You should analyze the relationship, monitor the quality and quantity of sex and, if possible, replace the three sexes with a variety of sexual toys if the third person is really superfluous.






