Deepthroat — How to Please a Man
Simple fellatio is an easy way to give a man intense and unforgettable pleasure. A special technique called “Irrumatio” makes him experience pleasure until he screams. The key is to learn the basic techniques and best positions for deepthroat beforehand. Also, don”t hesitate to use your imagination and try new and interesting “tricks” as you go.
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What is “deepthroat”?
Deep throating, or the special “deep throat” technique, is a variation of oral sex for men. During this process, the woman not only inserts the penis into her mouth but also tries to push it further and deeper. As a result, the penis ends up in her throat.
In adult films, actresses easily perform this task. However, in practice, their tongues and throats are treated with anesthetics with a “numbing” effect before filming. Therefore, one should not attempt to easily insert the penis deep into the throat in one motion.
The technique should be mastered slowly and gradually. Of course, you can also consider the advice of experienced sex instructors.
How to suppress nausea during deepthroat?
If the tongue and throat are not treated with special products (not recommended for oral sex at home), attempts to insert the penis as deeply as possible into the mouth will likely lead to nausea. And possibly even vomiting. Proper preparation can help manage nausea. In this case, it”s preferable to organize training sessions using a soft, flexible latex dildo rather than a penis. Also, use a lubricant suitable for oral play.
What you”ll need for training:
Sit comfortably and stretch your neck;
- Tilt your head back slightly;
- Put your tongue out as far as possible;
- Take a deep breath;
- Begin inserting the dildo (a toothbrush handle or other appropriately shaped object can be used instead);
- Place the chosen device in your mouth and slowly move it toward the back of your throat;
- Wait for the gag reflex and consciously try to suppress it;
- Start breathing through your nose, simultaneously relaxing your throat and concentrating on this process;
- Try holding the dildo motionless on the back of your throat for about 10 seconds.
- In the above position, the throat should be as open as possible. After this, the penis is inserted painlessly. Training should be continued until the lump in the throat sensation is under control.
Gradually the gag reflex weakens. Especially if you train regularly — two to three times a week.
How to breathe during deep blowjob?
How to breathe during deepthroat?
When attempting deep sucking for the first time, a man must choose a rhythm for both penetration and withdrawal of the penis. He must act so that the girl can breathe comfortably and calmly through her nose. Finding the right rhythm the first time is very difficult. Therefore, training is necessary here too.
How much easier the breathing process will be depends on the size of his cock and your mouth. When he removes his penis, you may only be able to breathe for a few seconds.
Then you can try intermittent deep sucking. For example, stop the process every 10 seconds to take a breath. Of course, this is not an ideal option, but in some cases it turns out to be the only suitable one for a girl.
Where to start?
Where to begin?
For example, ask him if he has had an orgasm during a blowjob, how he feels during the deepthroat technique, and if he would like to try it. Also, does he care about how his partner helps himself and what he thinks about contraception during oral sex.
Additionally, it is worth discussing your preferred position for fellatio. Some men love it when their legs tense up in the process and try to stand up. Others cannot reach orgasm until they lie down or sit comfortably.
Preparation for the process
Preparing for the process
To prepare for a blowjob, you don’t need to put on a latex sexy suit and perform a striptease show in front of it every time. However, try to tune in to a fun process and mutual pleasure and “infect” it with the appropriate mood.
If you feel sexy and confident, the mood around you will only improve. Background music that matches your mood can be very helpful. Choose songs that make you feel beautiful, erotic, attractive and passionate.
Ask about his wishes again.
- If the initial conversation turns out to be more “dry” and certainly very informative, then the conversation immediately before the blowjob can be part of the foreplay. For example, say something like: “I”m sorry, I”m sorry, I”m sorry, I”m sorry, I”m sorry. How can I help you?” Then just watch how his eyes light up and the desire becomes clearly visible.
Reduce the voltage level.
- If you both take the process seriously and constantly worry about how successful the deepthroat blowjob will be, it can only lead to a lot of tension and arousal. Don”t deprive yourself of pleasure.
Make the process easy. Laugh when something funny happens, tell jokes, have fun and play in bed before you start work.
Stock up on pillows.
- Comfort in the process is no less important than pleasure from it. So feel free to use a neck pillow if necessary. Alternatively, take a break.
While you are relaxing, discuss your actions. Tell him what he especially liked.
Plus, you can give him some nice compliments during the break. For example, “You are so delicious”, “I love it when you enter my mouth as deep as you can.”
Don”t skip the lubrication.
- At first glance, it may seem that just a mouthful of saliva is enough for lubrication, but this is not true. Saliva dries quickly, and the lubricant remains on the skin for a long time, making every movement more comfortable and enjoyable.
Lubrication is especially important during deep fellatio. This makes it easier for the penis to pass into the throat.
You can choose lubricants with a pleasant aroma. For example, fruit, berry, caramel or chocolate.
Don”t ignore his body.
- Don”t try to focus only on the penis during deep fellatio. In addition, you can stroke his stomach, buttocks and thighs, caress his testicles and groin. All this will increase his pleasure.
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Not all men can achieve orgasm from fellatio. This is completely normal and has nothing to do with oral sex skills.
If you give him deep throat for a long time and he still doesn”t cum, suggest he switch to regular sex. And don”t take it personally.
Use sex toys during the process.
- This time, not for his pleasure, but for your own. By inserting a small vibrator and carefully manipulating it during deep fellatio, you and your partner can experience orgasm together.
How to give deep throat properly?
How to give deepthroat correctly?
For deep throating, you will need:
Correctly lubricate his penis with lubricant on all sides. It”s advisable to choose a lube specifically for oral sex with a pleasant taste and aroma. If the lube “smells” to you, it will increase your gag reflex and complicate the entire process.
- Find a comfortable position with your head tilted back.
- Relax as much as possible, open your mouth, and stick out your tongue.
- When your mouth and throat form a single line, begin swallowing the penis.
- Continue until you feel a lump in your throat.
- Begin gently moving the penis, alternately withdrawing and then plunging back into your throat.
- Maintain the chosen comfortable technique until the man climaxes, or until you move on to a different type of caress.
- When first inserting the penis into the throat, it”s important to move as slowly as possible. This process can, of course, be stopped. During this time, you should support the penis with your tongue and apply pressure with increasing force.
Try to pull the penis out of your mouth when you stop. Otherwise, it significantly complicates and prolongs the process.
5 Best Positions for Deepthroat
5 best positions for deepthroat
There are five positions that are ideal for deep throating. All of them are very simple to perform, but require preparation and practice.
You seat your man comfortably on the couch and position yourself next to him. You lower your head onto his penis and attempt to deep throat him.
In this position, the penis enters your throat sideways. You can also control the entire process yourself.
Lie down on the bed, resting your feet on the pillows and tucking your head in. It should be perpendicular to your body.
The man approaches the bed standing or kneeling, depending on the height of the furniture. He then inserts his penis into your mouth and throat.
This position will be most comfortable for you. However, the man retains complete control of the situation.
Get comfortable on the couch and relax completely. Kneel on the floor, pushing against the couch.
Bend your head over the penis and insert it into your mouth. You can move your arms as you do so.
Sit on the floor on your buttocks, resting your hands on your hands. He stands above you so that his testicles and penis are on your face. He then lowers his penis and gently inserts it into your throat.
Keep your composure; you”ll need this later. You need to maintain control of your position to avoid falling.
This is very energy-consuming in both positions. However, the sensations are interesting.
Move to the appropriate surface. You”re happy because you can comfortably lift your head and use your hands.
He stands on top, supporting himself with his palms and elbows. He brings his penis to your face and slowly begins to enter, first into your mouth and then into your throat.
In this position, he”s in control, but you can also slow down or speed up his movements. To do this, place your hands on his hips.
Advanced Deepthroat Techniques
Advanced deepthroat techniques
A simple secret that will drive any man crazy.
If he lowers himself onto you and inserts his penis into your mouth and throat, try licking his balls while he”s doing so. However, you should do this while he”s frozen and motionless.
For example, ask him to stop for a few seconds, press his tongue against your throat, insert it, and begin licking. Remember, the most important thing is to breathe. And, in general, do everything carefully and slowly.
From this position, the tip of your tongue has access to the most sensitive area of this test circle. The sensations your partner will experience will be completely new and unusual for him. This will speed up the approach of orgasm and generally make his pleasure more intense.
This is another simple and powerful throat fellatio technique. If you want to become a real oral sex queen, give it a try. Then watch your man”s reaction to your actions.
First, relax your throat and gradually begin to insert your penis. When the man is completely inside, mumble or hum a song.
Any repertoire is allowed. The main thing is to create vibration in the throat. In this case, the person should stop and stop moving forward and backward for a while.
It may not be possible to repeat this technique from the very beginning. However, after a few practices, you will definitely master it.
Not during the throat sucking itself, you can hum and sing, but when the man is already cumming, the sperm will start shooting and flowing down his throat. This greatly enhances his orgasm.
This technique is complex and difficult to repeat, but it”s worth it. First of all, you need to understand how the throat contracts. Usually, when suffocating, the muscles work in this way. For example, if a large hard object gets into your throat.
Typically, this technique will make you feel uncomfortable. However, for men it gives incredible sensations.
Before starting the technique, practice controlling your throat spasms. First, silicone toys for adults. Then you can move on to training with the penis already in your mouth.
If actively mastering the technique does not control the throat spasm, do not try. When the gag reflex is triggered, you may accidentally bite a person hard. And instead of cheerful joy, an ambulance awaits him.
During a deep oral blowjob, your hands are completely free. And they should be used to enhance male pleasure.
You can place your palms on his stomach or thighs. Then you can control the speed of his movements, the depth of penetration. Alternatively, simply stroke different parts of the body.
However, there are more interesting options for what to do with your hands during throat sucking. For example, use your nails to gently scratch your chest, stomach, or buttocks. Of course, this does not leave bloody wounds on the skin, but simply teases and enhances the sensations!
You can squeeze his buttocks with your hands. Alternatively, insert one (or two) fingers into the anus. This technique helps massage the prostate while sucking your partner”s penis. The main thing is to first clearly understand where it is and correctly determine its location.
Another area that you can caress with your hand is the testicles. It can be stroked, caressed, gently withdrawn or rubbed during fellatio. Some men enjoy light scratching in this area.
The main thing is to pay as much attention to the testicles as possible. Remember that this is one of the most sensitive areas of his body. Therefore, at the first request, stop any impact on the testicles and do it immediately.
A man”s groin is sensitive to touch. This is the area between the testicles and the anus. You can stroke it, caress it, or rub it gently.
It is very rare for men to ejaculate down their partner”s throat. However, everyone who has tried it notes that the sensations during the process are incredible.
This is not an easy technique and requires practice. First of all, you will never taste semen. It is immediately expelled into the pharynx, bypassing the corresponding receptors on the tongue.
The process should always be as relaxed as possible. And don”t tense your tongue or throat.
When your partner begins to finish, make a quick swallowing movement. For example, the more presentations in 10 seconds, the better. And don’t forget to breathe through your nose so that normal, comfortable breathing is not interrupted.
How can I help him cum faster?
How to help him cum faster?
But if you really want to help him feel pleasure, try:
Do not hold back moans and other sounds. All this smacking and squelching greatly excites a man and helps him reach the finish line faster;
- Look into his eyes from time to time, if the position allows. Passionate glances will demonstrate to him that the process excites you too. And this is very important for every man;
- Act immediately with your tongue, lips, hands. The more of his erogenous zones you use in the process, the faster and brighter he will cum;
- Use accessories to enhance the experience. For example, an anal plug for him or a miniature vibrator for caressing the testicles, anus and perineum.
- What to do if you still feel nauseous?
What to do if he still feels nauseous?
Training doesn”t reduce it at all. The pharynx remains hypersensitive to the most minor stimuli.
It is usually assumed that during classical fellatio the girl already has an overactive gag reflex. He can”t handle it either.
However, the worst solution is to ignore his body”s signals and use painkiller sprays, for example. These drugs can quickly destroy normal body functions. And permanently remove the girl’s gag, which is dangerous to life and health.
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