If you get aroused, but don’t come: is it harmful or not?
I like to talk with sexologists, gynecologists and ordinary people about the female orgasm, especially about the difficulty of its occurrence. At the same time, the topic of male orgasm or ejaculation is touched upon in passing. For example, people always run out, some too quickly. However, in real life everything is somewhat different from the situations described on forums and blogs on this topic. If a person is excited but does not follow through, it is harmful or dangerous, it depends on the specific situation and the frequency of such situations. Therefore, this issue needs to be resolved.
Contents of the article:
The meaning of excitement
Sexual arousal can be called a state of readiness of the body for sexual intercourse. At the same time, physiology is activated (increased muscle tone, rapid breathing, increased blood flow), as well as human behavior (voice, vision, thought processes). This condition may be caused by the following factors:
- Affectionate touches from the object of adoration.
- Thoughts of erotic content.
- Visual information affecting the brain centers (a vulgar picture, a frivolously dressed girl/guy, etc.).
- And even smells, tastes, or other associations that disturb the imagination.
The effectiveness of the factors depends on the person’s mood, sexual satisfaction and fatigue. With strong and prolonged arousal in a man, pre-ejaculation begins to noticeably be released from the urethra — a viscous liquid that prepares the urethra for the passage of sperm and acts as a natural lubrication and entry of the penis from the microrole of the vagina. If the pre-planting process has begun, it is best to complete the intimate matter.
Problems from lack of orgasm
People argue that it is harmful if a man is aroused but not disinhibited. Forget about the fact that young men may experience a surge of sexual arousal. Situations when a man sees a very beautiful woman on the way home and experiences a rush of blood in the pelvis are not dangerous. If a young man experiences lust regularly, without intercourse or self-gratification, this is normal, but only if sexual release inevitably occurs in the next few days.
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An entirely different problem is when a man is brought to extreme arousal (through touching, oral sex, etc.) but does not ejaculate. “Disappointment” alone doesn”t cause complications, but if such situations occur regularly, the whole picture becomes dangerous.
- Semen stagnation can cause various inflammations in the reproductive system.
- Stagnation observed in the prostate gland can sooner or later lead to prostatitis.
- Prostatitis can make a man impotent.
- Some men may experience testicular pain if they do not ejaculate.
Remember psychology. Anticipated, irreversible release contributes to aggression and irritability. Indifference (sadness, melancholy—they didn”t let it end) can also occur.
During sex
Abstinence from ejaculation: is it harmful or not?
Furthermore, it is worth considering for those who enjoy prolonged intercourse. If the partner has control over his body and can prolong sex as long as the woman needs, it is not only safer but also helps the relationship. The main thing is to satisfy your partner and then experience orgasm yourself by ejaculating. Incidentally, it is very intense and abundant. It is a completely different matter for lovers of techniques that can be enjoyed without ejaculation, for example, the Path Love. Proponents of such methods claim that preserving sperm prevents depletion and maintains health. However, doctors have a different opinion: this practice can cause prostatitis and other inflammations already mentioned.
addictive
There is another danger for men who are aroused but have not climaxed. This can be harmful, as regular sex and masturbation without ejaculation can lead to addiction. The body will become accustomed to the lack of climax. And this causes emotional exhaustion and depression.
In any case, “Our motto is invincible. We arouse, but we do not give” should not be practiced, unless, of course, the goal is to force a disappointed man to see other beauties and relieve tension. With his own hand.
Getting aroused and not cumming // what is dangerous?
