Should a girl give a blow job and why?
Once again, with an offended expression on your face, you sit in the middle of the bed, expecting the girl to take the initiative and give you a blow job. You beg and beg, and eventually insistently demand oral sex. But is this behavior right? Should he overcome this? This article discusses this in more detail.
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Why is oral sex important for a man?
As a rule, it seems impossible to unravel the mystery. Many experts have wrestled with this question, but have yet to find a definitive answer. It is believed that men rely on oral sex for stimulation and frequent masturbation of any oral area in the intimate area. However, the latter question is still debated. So what is it that makes your head spin so sweetly? Is fellatio really an addiction to a man?
Numerous studies have been conducted on this topic. In most cases, the results boil down to the fact that women themselves want to please men.
And they quickly become accustomed to the good things. Men have become conditioned to believe that this happens all the time. And even when they change partners, they crave verbal affection. Besides, normal love with.
The next thing I want to talk about is pornography. Everyone admits to watching it. And sometimes very often. By observing a man”s reaction to a blowjob, the viewer automatically anticipates the same effect and demands professional performance from their partner.
Only in some cases does the situation stop at discussing fellatio with the woman; in others, the man forces her. Over time, the craving for fellatio turns into paranoia.
But there is another side to the coin. As we all know, expressions of love—sex, massage, kissing, gentle hugs—are all ways to express your feelings and become closer to your partner. Fellatio is no exception. Men, like their partners, want to see desire and love, trust and devotion. They also want to feel an intimate connection. And often, they can experience precisely this through fellatio. Evening grooming, cooking, and hot tea no longer count. Intimacy.
However, there is another theory about fellatio addiction. We ourselves don’t understand how to lower our partner’s head during intimacy and ask him to kiss us in the same area. It turns out to be automatic. Same with fellatio. A man “automatically” asks his partner to please him in this way. He knows that after fellatio there will be a certain position, toy or caress. Often this is part of some kind of sexual system.
Therefore, dear woman, we understand that this pushes your man at first. And we only increase the stigma. Look at yourself. Perhaps you depend on it too. And fellatio, I repeat, is no exception. According to statistics, about 60% of women are addicted to penile love. It excites, energizes and truly enhances intimacy.
What lies behind the refusal of oral sex?
Now I don’t hang up the phone when talking to men who are pathologically sexually addicted. Their reactions are obvious, but the results are unpredictable. I would live normally. What does refusing fellatio entail?
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Girls give blowjobs for various reasons. Some get a real buzz from what is happening, from the moans of pleasure and from the knowledge that their partner is.
Reluctance to give a person oral pleasure can manifest itself in different ways, as well as refusal of intimate intercourse. Namely::
- Treason;
- Banal disgust;
- Fatigue;
- Inability, inexperience;
- Disgust towards the partner;
- Dissatisfaction with your partner”s body.
It”s important to discuss your feelings about fellatio with your partner before sex to avoid unintended consequences. It is better to take the initiative into your own hands and fulfill your own promises.
What should you do if you are not yet ready for oral sex, but your partner is actively hinting at oral sex? Let”s discuss some switching options.
- Manual masturbation with tongue caresses of the peri-inguinal zone: hips, abdomen, waist.
- Combining massage techniques with masturbation.
- Offer to try a new position, toy.
- A pre-prepared intimate gift.
- Using a blindfold will allow you to redirect caresses to another area of the body.
- Nipple caress and manual masturbation.
How often should a boyfriend or husband give a blow job?
A woman”s perspective
What do women themselves think about the necessity of oral sex? We conducted a survey, and here”s what “Fair Sex” revealed.
- “I really enjoy giving my man oral pleasure. I enjoy watching his reaction and knowing that only I can give him such great pleasure. I think a girl should give her boyfriend oral sex. After all, that”s what really turns us on.”
- “I don”t strive to give oral sex. Only if a guy asks for it. I”m not disgusted, but I”m not a fan. I don”t think it should be part of any sexual duties.”
- “Yes, it definitely should. Men perform cunnilingus on us. Why shouldn”t we please them too?”
Is that a comprehensive answer? I think fellatio, like cunnilingus, is a matter of preference. It”s the same as with food. Now eat an avocado. It”s especially good for women. But not everyone eats it, and some don”t even want to think about it. So, power? That”s a bad idea.
But let”s get back to oral sex. Not everyone likes it. In fact, some people don”t really like it. They find the experience unpleasant, and they don”t think it”s right to force a girl to perform such acts. So the conclusion is clear. Yes, there”s no need to ask questions.
A man”s perspective
So, the girls have expressed their opinions, now let”s hear everyone”s opinions.
- “I think the girl should decide. This is a really serious step in a relationship, and when affection is begged or forced, nothing good comes of it.”
- “This question should be asked of the girls. We enjoy it. They should decide for themselves whether to do it or not. But we always enjoy experiencing intense sensations.”
- “I think she should. Everyone has responsibilities in a relationship. And sex is no exception. My wife and I have clearly defined boundaries in bed, and oral sex is within those boundaries.”
- “The question isn”t whether a girl should give oral sex, but whether she wants to please a man.” Agree, if we don”t want something, we do it poorly. I don”t really want someone to bite my dick off in a fit of anger.”
- I don”t think women are obligated to give men oral sex. We don”t always want to perform cunnilingus on them, either. So what”s the point of demanding anything supernatural from them?
- “You have to understand that girls are not sex slaves. All delicate matters are negotiable.”
This is the answer we were given. And we sinned through our dependence. Yes, there”s no tyranny here. Everything depends on mutual consent. I think combining the male and female responses can shed light on our question. After all, despite the opinions of psychologists and sexologists, the final say remains with the partner. Keep in mind temperament, preferences, sex education, and even religious beliefs. This often becomes a stumbling block.
