Where to start doing cunnilingus?
Cunnilingus is a technical term for oral sex on the female genitals. The word is derived from the Latin cunnus, meaning “female pubis,” and lingua, meaning “tongue.” The name suggests that even in ancient times, people appreciated these special pleasures. The only question that remains is how to begin properly. This article discusses this in more detail.
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How to properly start giving cunnilingus
Before deciding where it’s best to perform oral sex—in bed, on the kitchen table, or on the floor—it’s important to be clear. Good cunnilingus is based on individual sensations and preferences. Even if you’re new to oral sex, learn some helpful tips on how to give your girlfriend unforgettable pleasure.
Practice in Advance
Yes, exactly. Beginners and those who simply haven’t received the passionate feedback they’re looking for should practice.
You can do this without a partner. Go to your favorite bakery and treat yourself to a vanilla-filled layer cake. Then, bite a hole in the pastry and lick all the way through: using circular, sucking, fast and slow motions.
This practical experience really helps. Often, the tongue can be too taxing on the vagina due to lack of skill and loss of coordination.
Use_your_fingers
To orally stimulate the clitoris, place one hand horizontally on your pubic bone with the tip of your thumb just above the clitoris.
Press your thumb and gently pull upward to expose the clitoris to the tongue. The slight tension will enhance the sensation of the ring. Alternatively, place both fingers on the clitoris and gently pull upward and outward to further expose the clitoral area.
Don’t_forget_about_foreplay
Cunnilingus can be part of foreplay or perform its own release. Either way, it deserves a little foreplay. Begin by kissing the pubic area and inner thighs before engaging in oral stimulation of the genitals. Incorporate massage. This heightens desire and, of course, improves circulation to the vulva, making cunnilingus even more sensual and passionate.
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Comfort is the key to success
First and foremost, cunnilingus will bring pleasure to your partner. But don’t forget your own pleasure. Make sure you’re both in a comfortable position. Adjust your body, technique, and tempo. Use adult toys. Most importantly, pay attention to the movements that give your partner the most pleasure.
Creative-creative
Get creative and surprise your partner. Hold ice or a bracelet with large beads attached. Start with foreplay and continue with intense, sensual lovemaking. For an added touch, you can play erotic music to illuminate the scene.
Use a blindfold
Following with your eyes minimizes external stimuli and focuses the girl’s attention on the pleasure. Furthermore, this technique relaxes both her and you. The fear of staring stupidly into the background is nonsensical.
Best Techniques
The key to good cunnilingus lies in teasing. The best oral orgasms are achieved by increasing sexual tension and incorporating finger play at the right time. It’s also important that the cunnilingus position be equally comfortable for both partners. We’ve compiled six of the most popular positions you should have in your repertoire:
- Foreplay: Your partner lies on their back with their legs straight and closed. You lie across their legs and caress their clitoris with your tongue and fingers, applying pressure to the pubic area.
- Lying: Your partner lies on their left or right side, their lower legs straight, and their upper legs bent toward you and raised. You lie between their legs and lie down.
- Seated: Your partner sits comfortably with their legs apart on a chair or table. You kneel in front of them.
- Standing: Your partner leans against a wall, and you kneel in front of them. Your partner places one leg on your shoulder or spreads her legs wide.
- Doggy lingus”: the woman gets on all fours, arches her back, and opens her vulva.
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