Oral sex — how to give your partner unreal pleasure
Oral sex can serve as foreplay or as a targeted way to bring your partner to orgasm. In any case, it enriches the sexual repertoire. However, for oral sex to turn into real pleasure, you need to learn the correct technique and, above all, get to know your partner’s body. After all, it is very annoying to deprive him of pleasure by making inconvenient or painful mistakes.
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Our article will remind you a little about male and female pleasure zones and the best ways to take your partner to seventh heaven.
Tips for her
A good blowjob is not only about deft verbal acrobatics, but also meticulous attention to detail. Here”s what you need to do to make your partner”s heart shine.
- Make eye contact.
First of all, eye contact is incredibly erotic. Secondly, it shows your confidence and thirdly, it increases the intimacy quotient.
Make as much eye contact as possible to create a connection that will leave a lasting impression long after the “job” is completed.
- Find a comfortable position
Yes, it should be comfortable not only for him, but also for you. The more comfortable you are sitting or lying, the higher your endurance will be. If he is kneeling, place a pillow under his knees to avoid pain.
- Get them wet.
Don”t be afraid to spit on the penis during fellatio or use edible lubricant, as “dry” oral sex is definitely not enjoyable. If your mouth gets dry, you can also place a glass of water next to your bed and drink some.
- Have fun.
Show your partner that you enjoy giving him pleasure. Be active, moan and smack your lips as you go. This will help him feel more relaxed and excited.
- Hold his head.
The glans is the most sensitive part of the penis, so it needs to be given more attention. The rapid circular movements of the tongue are especially pleasant.
- Licking from top to bottom
To be honest, fellatio can be quite a challenge. It is necessary to monitor the position of the teeth, use various suction techniques, fight the gag reflex and constantly move the head. At some point, you may need to rest your mouth. Then just turn on the language. Start licking the penis from the head to the testicles. Then start at the scrotum and lick down the shaft, working your way back in the opposite direction.
Use the “tea bag” technique to “bring to a boil.” Gently grab the testicles with your hand, lick them, play with your tongue and put them in your mouth.
The key to good fellatio is to use your hand as an extension of your mouth. In this way, the pleasure is distributed throughout the penis and it is possible to breathe from time to time without interrupting sexual contact completely.
Grasp the head of the penis with your lips and make an “O” shape around the shaft with your fingers, moving them up and down in unison.
- Combination of three things
Stimulate the entire penis. Suck the head of the penis, move it along the shaft with one hand, and caress the testicles with the other. An unforgettable experience is guaranteed.
The general rule is to start slow and deliberate, speed up, and then slow down again. Spontaneous changes in rhythm and tempo slow down the moment of “climax” and allow you to enjoy the moment longer. It also gives you a short break if you”re tired. Overall, it”s a win-win.
When the prostate gland is in its zone, stroking the perineum and light pressure intensify the sensations. If your partner requires more intense pleasure, insert your fingers into the anus and stimulate the prostate from the inside.
During oral sex, both of you are doing important work. You give him pleasure, and he responds with an orgasm to your every action. Therefore, do not forget to pay attention to his reactions.
- Dirty talk.
Yes, your mouth is busy. But when you have a free minute, tell your partner something hotter and increase the intensity of passions in the bedroom.
- Play with temperature.
Pull your partner along with you, enjoying the new sensations. Before performing oral sex, hold a few ice cubes in your mouth. Then return to stimulation with a cup of hot tea. Not only does it give him goosebumps, but it also gives him a completely different kind of excitement than regular minerals.
Read also: How to give an unforgettable oral orgasm to a girl?
Dear men! If you opened this article, let me say a big thank you on behalf of all the women out there. Your desire to please a woman is.
- Don”t stop.
Some people experience increased sensitivity after orgasm and may experience another orgasm. Test this with your partner: After climax, continue stimulation, but do it more slowly and with less energy.
- Use your breath.
Hot breath is a great way to enhance sensations. Therefore, before you begin oral sex, find your partner”s sensitive area.
- Where should he end up?
Fellatio is an incredible pleasure for a man, but it should remain a comfortable experience for you too. If you don”t like the taste of semen or don”t want your partner to cum on your breasts, discuss all acceptable ending options in advance.
Tips for him
If you think that for good cunnilingus it is enough to skillfully move your tongue, this is not so. Since it can be difficult for women to experience orgasm, it is worth doing a preliminary warm-up before starting oral stimulation.
Breasts and nipples are extremely sensitive. They instantly respond to any touch, so stroke, pinch, lick and excite your partner.
- Love s inner thighs
As you begin to go down, bite or lick your inner thighs. This increases the anticipation. Also, do not explore it with your mouth, hands, or other parts of the body, such as the neck, stomach, or buttocks.
Pass your hands through the panties, along with the labia and clitoris. So when you”re ready to prepare her for more anticipation and get serious, move her underwear to the side.
While wearing underwear, run your tongue up and down your partner”s intimate area or use hot breath to warm the area.
- Move to the clitoris.
Take your time here. Start slowly and carefully, first licking the entire area around the clitoris with your tongue, then lightly touching it. This way you will create pleasant sensations in this area and tease the woman a little.
- Alternative movements.
How to give your partner unforgettable pleasure? secrets of oral sex [love point]
Cunnilingus is associated with licking, but is also comfortable with sucking. There is a slight “sucking” on the clitoris, which manifests itself during licking movements.
- Draw 8.
Do you move your tongue up and to the left or to the right? Add a little variety and draw a number 8 or an infinity sign on your clitoris.
- Be consistent.
If your partner likes what you”re doing, don”t change the movement and rhythm naturally. Constantly switching technique or speed can throw you off your path to orgasm.
- Alphabetical order
Based on the name, it becomes obvious what you need to do — write the alphabet in the language. This is actually a cool technique — you can write the letters of the alphabet in your language. This is because each letter has its own sentence and therefore a special feel.
- And don”t forget about your lips!
And now we are not talking about those on the face. The labia majora and minora are also sensitive, so don”t neglect stimulating this intimate area. Kiss, lick or lightly bite them.
To properly expose the clitoris, the labia must be pursed. Then the space will open on all sides, and the sensations from touch will become more intense.
- Breastfeeding.
As mentioned, breasts are so sensitive that some women can get an orgasm just from playing with their nipples. So, lovingly care for her breasts with your free hand.
Try to enter it during oral sex. Insert one or two fingers into the vagina and use a curling motion to lightly stroke the G-spot. Don”t forget to lick the clitoris.
The vagina can be penetrated with both the tongue and fingers. It”s not as stimulating as, say, clitoral licking, but it”s worth a try. Don”t get carried away by penetration alone.
Before starting anal play, it is always necessary to obtain the consent of your partner, since not everyone is ready for such a step. If the green light is given, you can stroke the anus with your hand or tongue, or even insert a finger.
- Use toys.
Adult toys can be used to diversify your sex life with a partner or alone. This opens up endless possibilities such as vibrators, anal jams and nipple clamps. Choose one that you both like.
Find a movie that you both like. Turn it on and get started. You might learn some new tricks and tips.
- Try the Kivin method
Typically, during cunnilingus, the woman lies on her back, and her partner lies parallel to her body between her legs. The Kivin method means that the man”s head is perpendicular to his partner”s body. This position includes a new angle, more stimulation of the vulva and the ability to reach the most sensitive spots.
A woman shouldn”t be the only one showing her pleasure. You should also show her what you are doing. Even a long MMMM works here.
- Compliment her.
Don”t tell her how attractive she is or how much you like her tastes. This way she will know that you are having a good time too.
Do cunnilingus and blindfold her. The absence of vision makes other organs more sensitive and sensations more pleasant. Tighten her labia, lick her clitoris and lovingly care for her perineum. By the way, you can enjoy concentrating by turning off the lights in the room or closing the curtains.
No one knows how to read the thoughts (and everyday life) of their partner during sex, so there is nothing easier than finding out personally from him what he likes and what he doesn’t. You can discuss your desires both during oral sex and before and after them.
