Unprotected sex, or why do guys want sex without a condom?
Few girls can say “let”s do better next time” when a man offers his girlfriend passionate unprotected sex. Of course, everything depends on the principles of all women, but they often abandon their rules in order to please men.
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However, many are convinced that they can have sex without protection if their sexual partners bring a doctor”s note. However, in this case, girls begin to take birth control pills, which can lead to a deterioration in her health.
Why are so many men so hostile to condoms?
For many men, the reason for hostility towards condoms is quite understandable. This is contraception itself. The items were created primarily as a means of protection against sexually transmitted diseases. They are in some way a barrier between men and women. Thus, men may perceive condoms as a bad thing that can dull the experience of sex.
As a result, sexual intercourse no longer seems so primitive. Hostility towards them may also arise due to age. For example, at a young age, this can be explained by fear, because men are reluctant to use condoms simply because of the possibility of an expected loss of sensitivity. They are not confident in the duration of their erection and are afraid of appearing in a bad light in front of a woman.
They especially fear the moment a woman puts on a condom because they don”t trust her body. In addition, all this is individual and depends on how a man treats himself, his woman and his genitals.
What should women do if their sexual partner does not want to use contraception?
A woman must show her partner how much she values and values him, that she listens to him and in no way wants to offend him. She can calmly explain that a condom is just the most protective and relaxing means for having sex. Under no circumstances should a woman call her sexual partner a scream.
Everything should be done with foreplay in mind, so women should be offered condoms and helped with their application, as if they were part of a role-playing game. All of this is important for many men, because sexuality is a subtle and complex thing. Women shouldn”t assume that their men, their husbands, are intimate devices.
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Poll on the topic: “Sex without protection”
Journalists conducted a sociological survey, asking random women about contraceptives, or more specifically, whether they use them in their sex lives.
The first group of women stated that they would not have sex without a condom with an unfamiliar, untested partner.
The second group was embarrassed to answer questions related to contraception. These women had sex regardless of whether their partner used a condom or not.
The third group of women were very hesitant about this issue. They agree to unprotected sex. That is, they consent only if the partner states that they will check their health, bring the results of a medical examination, and discuss contraception and find ways to protect themselves from unwanted pregnancy.
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Experts believe that women already engage in unprotected sex with strangers. This is explained by the fact that it is easier to discuss intimate topics and gain confidence if you are in a committed relationship with a loved one. This person is receptive, treats you with respect, and is attentive.
However, there are different situations when a woman, for whatever reason, agrees to unprotected sex.
One example is moments of casual passion, when love takes hold of both partners. The study also found that many women are shy or reluctant to answer questions about sex. More accurately, they feel awkward talking about intimate topics and rarely raise the topic of contraception because they can”t express what they enjoy about sex.
Furthermore, there are gentle, submissive women who are eager to please their man (they want to give him pleasure) and who would risk their health by forgoing contraception. This type of woman considers herself ideal because she cares about her partner”s feelings and desires.
From all of the above, we can conclude that some men are really uncomfortable using condoms, but they should always listen to the opinions of their partners and strictly adhere to the principle of protection.
Nowadays, it is completely normal to suggest that partners get examined and tested for various types of sexually transmitted infections. Finally, women can take care of themselves, buy condoms and provide them to their partners.
However, the following article linked shows why men don”t want to have sex.
