White dance or how women choose men for sex
The first sad statistic. According to psychologists, only 5% of women in the post-Soviet space choose their partners. The rest wait until they make their choice. Fortunately, these 5% exist, and the matter is not limited to the post-Soviet space.
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How do women choose men for sex? What are the main criteria?
It is difficult to give a definite answer to the question about men, but when it comes to women, the number of answers is off the charts.
We can only try to systematize the reasons that explain men”s choice in favor of sex.
Male appearance
Scientists at the University of Pennsylvania say that when women choose men for sex, they pay attention to physical appearance rather than status or personality.
Psychologists in other countries agree with this conclusion.
- Subconscious commanders.
The long evolutionary path has changed our subconscious stereotypes, and they still apply to this day. However, they have lost their relevance.
For example, women subconsciously value men as fathers of their children. Therefore he must be healthy. And nothing says health more than a blooming appearance.
And the sexiest look is broad shoulders and narrow hips, which indicates a high level of testosterone and, accordingly, sexual activity.
- Do you like blondes?
After conducting a study, scientists from Bruner University concluded that 37% of women are attracted to brunettes, 29% to dark buttons, 16% to blondes and 2% to redheads.
- Love at first sight
However, sexual attraction can flare up quickly, although it can hardly be called love. Psychologists from the University of Pennsylvania conducted a number of studies and found that on a subconscious level, women read information about testosterone levels from the faces of candidates. Also, the general attraction that doesn”t cause any particular appeal is the whole face. However, a sexy phone call requires the chin and lips. Ugly lips and a developed strong-willed chin are signs that everything is in order with testosterone.
It”s not just appearance that attracts
If a woman doesn”t like the way he smells, it doesn”t make him any more attractive, even if he”s a billionaire living in a pool with the most expensive toilet water.
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Couples who have just started dating are usually influenced by hormones. Crazy passion, people rarely leave each other and can make love.
This is justified both by personality traits and by the presence of pheromones—volatile substances that arouse.
Another study shows that over 60% of women are attracted to a man”s voice. It should be low and gentle. This voice is also called “velvet.”
Personal female motives
- Quality.
These women, who analyzes them? Psychologists say they may engage in sexual relationships simply because they consider their partner a good person. Emotional intimacy is more important to them than physical intimacy.
And sometimes sex comes after affection, which men often exploit.
And again, it”s a long evolutionary process that has led women to become accustomed to submission. If she dominates emotionally, mentally, or physically, this reduces sexual desire for a partner to zero. If he feels dominant, he chooses him.
Typically, a girl suffers from this complex (an unconscious attraction to her father) in childhood. However, if the family is less prosperous, the problem remains, but it”s hidden. Consequently, women prefer to give themselves to men much older than themselves. And when choosing a partner, they primarily pay attention to age.
Social motives
- Status in Society
Oddly enough, there”s also genetics. On a subconscious level, a woman needs a man who can provide mammoths for her and her children. Today, the higher the social status, the bigger the share.
And a man must be popular. This also stems from deep within—women always choose the best man. And if many want him, then he”s the best. Incidentally, this is illustrated by the case of a man being taken away from his friends. We need someone else, who needs someone else.
- We live by Hollywood standards.
You should ask the movie screen about how women have chosen men over the years. Once fame takes hold of an actor, he becomes a sex symbol. And all the little people who look like him are gaining popularity among women.
- Breaking Free of Stereotypes
Stereotypes hinder a free life. Women have found ways to combat this. According to researchers, more than 50% of women wouldn”t mind sleeping with a stranger. And more than 30% act out their fantasies. Women are attracted by novelty and a keen sense of the forbidden. The most surprising thing is that about 40% of couples stay in their relationships.
British scientists conducted a study that showed that women find men”s wit very, very sexy.
And one more observation. Above is how women choose men for sex. But the choice has already been postponed. Women chased men. Does sex happen? It turns out not! It all depends on how a man kisses. 66% of women refuse to go to bed after a bad kiss.
And, of course, not butterflies, but dopamine, adrenaline, vasopressin and oxytocin appear in the stomach of bitten butterflies, causing sexual pleasure. Thus, the choice is, of course, important, but not final.
