How to raise women on dating sites
The main goal of dating sites is to help singles find their soulmate. However, very often there are people who use them for their own selfish purposes. And, oddly enough, it is the experienced scammers — the women who have become their victims — who dream of finding happiness. Due to their inexperience and naivety, when they first register on one of the dating sites, they do not even suspect how it will ultimately turn out.
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How scammers deceive their victims and how girls can avoid disappointment — read on this resource.
Who is at risk
Please note that not all girls fall into a cleverly organized network of “psychologists without love” who sit on sites for easy money, and not for love. Below is a list of people who definitely fall into the so-called risk zone:
- Girls who dream of marrying a foreigner.
- Girls whose nervous system is weakened, as well as those who have recently experienced severe stress or psychological shock;
- Women with adult children and possibly grandchildren who want to relive the most powerful emotions on earth.
- Housewives immersed in everyday life and craving intense romantic adventures.
What should you immediately be wary of?
Indeed, at the very beginning of any communication with a potential scammer, you can (and should!) give a warning. Details.
- Fake photos. It is almost impossible to meet a scammer who openly shows his face online. Such gentlemen prefer to post photographs of little-known actors, athletes and models on their profiles. In addition, particularly astute people will try to use unusual photographs to avoid accidentally recognizing familiar features.
- Excessive politeness. These men are amazingly bold and shower every new message with compliments to let their guard down and please themselves. However, as you know, women love to listen. In other words, women are using the right tactics.
- Avoid answering. Often, even to the simplest questions, for example, about family or work, a marriage swindler prefers to remain silent or quickly moves the conversation in another direction.
- His page is unique. This means that the survey is only posted on this site and not on any other social network.
- Template text. Each new message from him reminds me too much of the previous one. Moreover, from the first day I met him, it became clear that he is a fraudster who likes to use cute nicknames “bunny, baby, baby” in his vocabulary.
- Forever online. Pay attention to how much time your boyfriend spends in virtual reality. A businessman at work is unlikely to be on a dating site for several days in a row. But scammers are easy! After all, this activity is his main source of income.
- Declaration of love. You barely know each other, and the young man openly declares his love for you.
So, you recently registered on one of the most popular dating sites. You filled out the “about me” section as honestly as possible, added your best photo and sat down at the monitor in anticipation of romance. In the first few hours, people are blown away by the pressure of gentlemen wanting to know everything about you. And this is where the fun begins. Namely, they appear — the thief of women”s hearts combined with the thief of bank accounts.
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Tell me the code
Often this simple phrase does not raise doubts in an unsuspecting girl. Especially if pronounced after a short introduction. The scheme is simple. You have met an attractive and charming man. Literally from the very first message, he charmed you and gave you magical compliments. Then the young man begins to insistently repeat that a real person is depicted in words that he never uttered at all. So he decides to give you a small gift. Yes, yes, a cute trinket in the form of a new smartphone or branded perfume. Yes, of course, now. But no luck, his gadget freezes, and the system asks for a payment confirmation code. “But it’s just a code sent to your number. The gift has already been paid for, baby,” he repeats, dictating his precious number through the fog.
Junior lieutenant, young boy
It”s no secret that most women have a soft spot for military men. And, of course, the bad guys on dating sites know it. According to a well-established trope, a man begins his story with a tale of his difficult life in a “hot” place. He tells of his lack of devoted and loving companions to inspire him to new achievements. Of course, while you”re online, serving real officers is paramount. And perhaps you”ve heard so much about the harsh conditions in the field that you”re willing to brighten the difficult life of a promising soldier. How? Yes, it”s very simple. After all, you want everything at a lower price.
Unhappy widower
Favorite schemes used on compassionate girls. An unfortunate man who buried his beloved wife and left behind a beautiful daughter (two brats). Like it or not, the maternal instinct is strong. Especially considering that, according to legend, the widower”s children suffer from chronic illnesses. When you start transferring impressive sums of money for the treatment of your potential spouse”s imaginary child, there”s no time to blink. After all, girls love to help, and online scammers love to take advantage of that.
Dear photos
After talking for a while and getting to know your interlocutor better (or so you think), you decide to spice things up with some hot pictures. Whether this was done under pressure from your beloved or purely on your own initiative, there can only be one result. Once your photo ends up in the possession of this newly minted and, until recently, bold gentleman, the situation changes dramatically. Worst-case scenario for you. And now you”re forced to pay a significant sum of money to keep your reputation clean and unblemished.
So close and so far
Oh, foreigners who drive a good half of the female population crazy. Girls in love will not go if they are going to marry an Arab sheikh or a Nigerian prince. But remember that the heirs to the throne are unlikely to seek their destiny on ordinary dating sites. And you can even successfully communicate with naive girls in Ulupinsk. But marriage swindlers — easily! What they are really after is hidden behind fake photos. And of course, fortunately for you, one of them dreams of meeting you, does not sleep, does not eat, throwing away government concerns. Yes, and the family is unhappy with their son’s choice and even decided to deprive the poor lover of a week’s salary only for educational purposes. But if you really want to organize a long-awaited meeting, you can easily pay for a plane ticket. No, of course, he offers everything with interest. Later. But you”re looking forward to this conference, aren”t you?
All of the above stories begin and end the same. The ubiquitous girls plunge into the pool with their heads in the sand, seriously believing in the intentions of their next boyfriend. Then they pay the price, both morally and financially. And this does not mean that dating sites and their users should be viewed as universal evil and avoided at all costs. Remember that sometimes it is more useful to listen to the voice of common sense than to the frantic cries of hungry souls.
