What are the reasons for golden shower love in BDSM and how to do it correctly?
To be submissive, I stop “testing my masters,” punishing and humiliating them. All of these goals can be achieved with one simple action. In sexual practice, this action is called “golden shower.” In traditional relationships, it is used to create variety in sex life. Golden shower in BDSM is a much more complex action and has not only sexual, but also psychological implications (read about what golden shower is in a separate article).
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No need to wrinkle your nose
Urination, sexual arousal from the taste of urine, its smell, or the pleasure of watching the sensations when your partner empties your body — this is how “golden shower” is described in scientific literature. Doctors came up with a special term “uro”. The term is made up of two Greek words meaning “urine” and “desire”. In traditional medicine, this behavior is considered a form of sexual perversion.
On the contrary, one of the areas of alternative medicine recommends this behavior and is called urine therapy. Of course, none of the proponents talk about the pleasure of applying urine to areas of the body or drinking this “golden” liquid internally. But, logically speaking, no one in their right mind would repeat the unpleasant procedure with enviable patience and would not even recommend it to friends and acquaintances.
Thus, they try to treat internal and external ailments, ranging from stomach ulcers to deep wounds. Thus, if this behavior is not enjoyable, there is an opportunity to improve your health and appearance.
For those who are convinced that they do not like the smell or taste of urine, there is the opinion of G.-P. Malakhov. He is convinced that when properly processed, this liquid begins to smell like expensive perfume and has a pleasant, light taste. Thus, if you practice long enough and persistently, you can significantly save perfume and eau de toilette.
“Golden Shower” — therapy for childhood traumas?
Psychotherapists do not ignore this hobby. Yelling can have a beneficial effect on those who were humiliated as children. Followers of Jungian theory explain this simply — one of the first mentions of “golden shower” goes back to the myth of Zeus and Danaus.
Danai was carved by his underground father in a copper tower. Zeus, known for his unyielding lust and special thirst for earthly women, was able to enter the underground prison in the form of a shower of gold. From this unusual sexual act Perseus was born, who became a hero.
There are many manifestations of this myth in the form of metagoes, which often attract people prone to sadomasochism.
- Underground prisons — the desire to hide one’s femininity and the direction of sexuality towards the sadomasochistic path.
- The source of the formation of a sadomasochistic personality is a cold mother. In mythology, Danae is an architectural image of the gorgon jellyfish.
- The Gorgon Medusa is able to defeat Perseus, the son of Xau and Danae.
The logic is simple and obvious. The practice of “golden shower” in sexual overtones helps to overcome sadomasochistic aspirations and direct the personality towards traditional sexuality. There have been no scientific studies to support this theory.
Partners who practice golden showers attempt to replicate Zeus”s focus on fertilization or to cure sadomasochistic tendencies. These questions remain open.
The end justifies the means: why do we need golden showers in BDSM?
In BDSM practice, “golden shower” is needed for one purpose. It should bring joy to both partners.
One enjoys when he orders, humiliates and punishes, while the other “gets a thrill” from the fact that he endures all this. Therefore, like all methods of influence in such relationships, it must be acceptable to both partners.
Humiliation and punishment with the help of “golden shower” is a fairly common theme in pornographic videos, but in practice, each partner agrees in advance to such influence. Therefore, unless the dominant orders feigning resistance, the submissive should not resist.
However, the importance of symbolism in partnerships should not be ruled out. In the animal world, the act of urination serves as a sign of possession, dominance and submission. Therefore, the “golden shower” of BDSM in couples can be a powerful practice for strengthening a developed relationship.
Serious preparation and the right attitude
It is important to make very careful preparations for urine games, since service on the “dark side of the force” cannot be rushed.
Of course, the entire responsibility for proper preparation must begin with the psychological attitude on which the dominant shoulder rests. Even the most obedient slave cannot be stopped by the “golden” streams in motion. Firstly, it is important to carry out the “preparatory” work in a calm environment. You must voice your wishes and consent to such behavior.
Read also: Rules of conduct BDSM or tough love
First of all, the rules of behavior in BDSM are not created to be broken. This is by no means an empty formality, but clearly defined boundaries.
After consent is obtained, it is time to prepare urine. As the same chief urinotherapist of the country, “lower” it, advises G. P. Malakhova, it is not absolutely necessary to obtain a floral aroma. Preparation includes proper nutrition and avoidance of physical activity. For about a week, it is better to exclude protein-rich foods from the menu and stop drinking coffee and strong alcohol.
An hour before the expected eruption of the “golden shower”, you can drink juice (preferably pineapple) and eat watermelon. If the rain is real rain and not nasty frost, there should be as many watermelons as possible. If you can eat it whole and wait until the right moment, you are guaranteed an unforgettable flow that even Zeus would not wish for.
Not only the urine, but also the “fertile soil” that he irrigates must be prepared. If obedient, then it is better to start small if this is your first experience.
It is better to spend the first session in the bathroom. Initially the lower sessions should discharge themselves. If all goes well, the dominant may urinate on a small part of the body first, such as in line with the arm. Bathrooms are not recommended as a place for first experience.
Water, lots of water, straight from the tap. If something goes wrong, you can quickly remove marks from your body and try another time. Otherwise, unexpected reactions may occur. At best, at worst, a slight panic may arise — the slave begins to tear into pieces, and then there can be no talk of pleasure. And if all this happens in a dream or in other rooms, then urine, like vomit, must be removed.
If the experience of irrigating a small part of the body goes smoothly, you can move on to oral sex (without washing the genitals, otherwise you”ll experience a unique combination of pineapple juice and watermelon). Larger parts of the body. Therefore, it”s customary to gradually bathe in streams of “golden showers.” Even if an obedient person doesn”t learn to enjoy the process, they have the opportunity to test the theory of the therapeutic and cosmetic properties of their own urine.
There was a golden shower (poll of girls)
If “golden showers” must be performed, it”s important to prevent overstimulation in men. After all, if the penis is very erect, it will be difficult for him to urinate.
In women, the ability to empty the bladder is not affected by the level of arousal (some “golden shower” fans even believe that their partner”s involuntary urination during climax indicates a 100% chance of orgasm). However, beautiful women face different challenges. Swallowing urine so that it reaches precisely targeted parts of the body requires practice and the ability to use your hands.
Once the “golden shower” practice becomes habitual, the game can be moved to sleep or “dark rooms.” Of course, you need to be prepared here. You also need to follow certain rules.
Start by ensuring the integrity of carpets, mattresses, and other surfaces in the room where you plan to engage in this “wet activity.” Ideally, the room should be carpetless. In extreme cases, you should avoid covering the mattresses with oilcloth or absorbent pads.
If you don”t want to ruin the box”s preparation, nothing prevents you from choosing another area for experimentation. In this regard, bodies of water are very good and offer the opportunity to take a dip during or after the “golden shower.” Forests and parks are suitable locations for experimentation, but there is always the risk that a vigilant citizen might intervene at the most critical moments or call the police to apprehend the “perverted maniac.” It”s best not to use public pools for this practice. Their owners promise fines for such behavior. It”s very difficult to prove that a person is motivated by water, and reagents for detecting urine in water are very expensive and not used in Russia. However, the situation is changing, and there”s always the possibility that anything hidden under the water could become the property of a swimmer.
“Golden showers” can become a regular ritual. It can remind the couple to be discreet in their choice of location, or it can be a piquant addition to the session. One important rule to follow is to never, under any circumstances, be a surprise. You must be the most truthful forecaster and report golden fallout in advance. The point is that you must be aware of what the top one is trying to do with it.
Security control
Security control
Urine is sterile only in people who live in empty isolation from other people and the outside world. Therefore, before starting any experiments, it is necessary to pay attention to the safety and health of subordinates. To do this, it is necessary to undergo some tests to determine whether the dominant is a carrier of a disease that can be transmitted through urine. Even if under normal circumstances a condom is used to make a golden shower, it must be removed. This means that the level of protection against infection decreases rapidly.
Drinking or sprinkling with the urine of an infected person can lead to dangerous hepatitis B disease. It is especially dangerous if the disease is asymptomatic for a long time.
Cytomegalovirus can be transmitted through urine if the urine gets into the mouth or nose of an infected person. This virus can cause complications if the bottom is infected with the flu, and a carrier of the HIV virus or an AIDS patient causes blindness and many other diseases in people.
Urine is easily contagious for genital herpes. The risk of infection does not depend on whether the disease is in the acute stage. Lovers who indulge in “golden showers” can also expect chlamydia and Ho”s disease if the partner whose urine is used is a carrier of this disease.
Attempts to detect HIV in the urine of infected people have been unsuccessful, but it is known that HIV can be detected and transmitted through vaginal secretions of blood, semen and white blood cells. In theory, there is no risk since leukemia cells, semen and vaginal secretions can pass into the urine and therefore cause infection. Some drugs and medications can enter the lower body when ingested through urine. It is worth remembering this and regularly undergoing drug tests at work, due to the nature of the profession, rather than taking risks by getting behind the wheel of a car. Information on how to remove medications from the body can be obtained from your doctor or from the instructions.
If Nizhny”s task involves the use of internal urine, it is important to warn about the dangers of using old urine. Relying on this method of humiliation and punishment and practicing it for a long time can be very dangerous. This action can lead to serious diseases of the kidneys, liver and gastrointestinal tract. It is important to respect the principles of obedience and not indulge in too much golden wetness, even if the submissive loves the taste of the master”s urine.
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