Swing in Russia or features of the local mentality

Sasha Gendelsman, one of the veterans of the Russian swing movement, argues that the formation of swinging did not begin with the collapse of the Soviet Union. Swinging existed even during the time of Brezhnev. And a careful study of Russian folklore reveals hints of an exchange of partners. But even he agrees that the movement in Russia has its own unique features that distinguish it from the European community.

Contents of the article:

• Citizens of “unfriendly” countries living in Russia – their feelings
• Collective intimacy at swingers parties – with whom, how and why?

thanks to special websites, couples found each other. And in many large towns there are swing clubs. Often you can choose regular restaurants and cafes for dates or first meetings. This may seem like an interesting game at first since the couple doesn’t know each other. Also apply for special marks for the date. For example, everyone wears a black hat with a large brim.

However, the already mentioned features themselves begin to appear from this point. Indeed, the trend towards swinging in the West and Europe is rooted in absolutely equal rights for married couples. In other words, they strive to diversify the sex life of husband and wife. We are not like that. As Gendelsman noted, in 90% of cases the man personally agrees to the meeting.

He is the initiator of the swing. As a rule, women are not burning with obvious desire, but only give in, agreeing to it. Why? Firstly, she is afraid of losing her husband. Secondly, the swing community consists of fairly advanced and self-sufficient people, and the wife is inconsistent and does not want to seem “rural”. This is what these women face.

As psychologist Lev Sheglov says, swing sex dating cannot cause internal tension if the woman’s mind retains a template, a picture of the relationship and the intimacy of the sexual process.

Enjoying the spontaneous process of exchanging significant people, a person has great internal relaxation, there is no possessive attitude in him. This is neither good nor bad. This is a psychological phenomenon of personality development. Therefore, when you decide to take up swinging, do not forget about this.

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with baptism and the formation of the Orthodox Church, Russian customs and way of life underwent a number of changes. This was especially true for the attitude towards the first sexual ones.

Citizens of “unfriendly” countries living in Russia – their feelings, thoughts and fears / editors

Shcheglov is wary of working with people who practice and practice swinging. Nowadays it is easy to follow the possibilities of fashion trends. Sometimes, however, even the initiators regret such an experience. He reminds that swinging is not only a reason for the men themselves to acquire new sexual partners, but also to give their own wife the opportunity to receive rave reviews.

This is open sex in your life, with another man in front of you, or at least with your consent. Thus, many men come to see Leos. They complain that they themselves proposed this form of relationship and that all of them seem to suit them. But now his relationship with his wife has moved to a different plane. Be that as it may, a feeling of deception settled in my soul. Honestly, it seems like everything happened.

Therefore, it is worth noting once again that swinging will never save a couple from divorce. If the relationship is “broken,” the exchange will only expose more problems. This happens because it forces partners to think about their interactions from the outside. In addition, our woman still feels a constant need for care from her partner. And when she sees that men can give this to others, a strong internal protest may arise, leading to a break in the relationship.

However, for a couple consisting of almost identical and self-confident people who are first and foremost friends, the swing gives an unforgettable impression and depth of relationship. This is his essence.

Returning to Gendelsman’s statement that swinging should be a highlight and style of your life and build a couple’s interaction with another couple. People rock as a unit, as a family. This is why choosing a partner is often so careful.

Both psychologists and supporters of swing come to one conclusion – you should not chase the modalities of relationships that proceed in a similar way. If you want this not only (one person), and if you are ready with the need for your family union, then go for swinging. It should also be remembered that only equal rights for a couple allow both people to enjoy the exchange process. Get joy and save your family.

Collective intimacy at swingers parties – with whom, how and why?