“Spontaneous desire” — Different types of sexual desire

If you are very hungry, it seems that you will eat anything. And sometimes, even well-fed people can be attracted by very appetizing desserts. Alison George, a world-renowned scientist, seriously spoke about the fact that every person has his own type of sexual attraction.

Contents of the article:

• A very powerful mantra for sexual attraction (om krum lingaya)
• People who had sex with a relative tell their story

A very powerful mantra for sexual attraction (om krum lingaya)

So what”s the matter? If sex is a motivation for behavior, then desire must be as spontaneous as hunger. When it comes to sexual people, this creates an internal attraction and is called “spontaneous desire.” However, there is another way to experience desire, which is called “desire in response to stimulation.” This is when your partner stands up and starts kissing your neck and you say, “Oh yeah, sex is a good idea.”

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The lack of spontaneous desire for sex can be an incomprehensible phenomenon for some, while for others its presence seems “uncontrollable.” For approximately 70 percent of men and 10-20 percent of women, the basis of attraction is spontaneous thirst. Recently, a drug called flibanserin was submitted to the US Food and Drug Administration. It is specifically designed to create spontaneous desire. Its creators sincerely believe that this is the only normal way to experience desire. However, Alison sincerely disagrees with such stereotypes. Spontaneous desire is not a necessary phenomenon of sexual pleasure. What”s more important: that people crave sex, or that they enjoy sex? People who do not experience spontaneous desire often approach the process more thoughtfully and are willing to work for their partner. So why treat them?