Men who were detained spoke about their lives
Yes, this also happens. Sometimes a woman can take on the role of “breadwinner” in a couple. In this article you will find stories of such couples.
Contents of the article:
Diaries of gigolos
- Dreams, not life.
“I was a model myself for a few years, then changed a bit and moved into management (and modeling). That”s how I met Lily. It was at a high fashion show and I met her backstage. She was tall, beautifully dressed and really stood out. We talked to her, there was sympathy. I got the impression that she was a sweet but assertive girl.
After several dates, she invited me to her home. I knew she was rich, but nothing more! When I saw her huge mansion, I was shocked. Only then did I realize how great her wealth was. She was involved in the business that her parents started. This was their home.
Lily told me that she married the man she loved during her university years. But he soon started gambling and sleeping with random women, so she divorced him. They had a prenuptial agreement and everything went well. Since then, Lily has stopped looking for a serious relationship.
And one day she said: “I’m not looking for a relationship with someone I’m not proud of. And I need a husband whom I could be proud of at social events. Could you be that kind of person?” This question took me by surprise. She added that I have access to a lot of money and I can do whatever I want as long as I don”t ruin her reputation. And I always need to look good. And of course I will sign the contract. I asked for time to think about it.
My family was middle class and I never had money problems in my life. I also had a good job, but the prospect of making a lot of money for literally nothing was very attractive. Lily was a good person and I liked her. I didn”t mind the thought of spending the rest of my life with her. After much thought, I agreed to her proposal, and everything began to work out.
I met her parents and they liked me. A few months later we got married. This was four years ago.
I moved into her mansion and bought myself everything I wanted. But after a few months, shopping began to get boring. I also got tired of messing around all day and decided to improve my cooking skills.
I started taking lessons from a chef. Thanks to him, I got acquainted with different cuisines of the world. And I started filling my days with food. Lily and I became very good friends. When I came home, she would tell me about her day. I learned a lot about business from her. Sometimes we went to parties. It”s fun too.
Then the coronavirus pandemic happened, Lily spent more time at home with me, and we. fell in love with each other. We always laugh at the fact that we fell in love only after marriage. Now we are practically inseparable. I cook exotic dishes for her all day long, she buys me expensive gifts and arranges luxurious trips for me. We recently found out that she is pregnant.
I never could have imagined that what has happened in my life over the past few years would happen in my life. I still don”t believe it. My life is a dream.”
- I hate working.
We have been living like this for 15 years and we have no children. I met my wife while she was in law school. After a few years, it became clear that there was no point in working for me. In a month and a half she earned as much as I earned in a year. And in general, I hate working. I like to go to bed late and wake up late, and I don”t like living according to a schedule.
For this reason I don”t feel masculine. I also didn’t have any special ambitions. I worked just to have food and a roof over my head.
I am the happiest person on earth and I have a wonderful life. My wife is the best woman in the world. Sometimes she takes me with her to various social events. I look like an ordinary person in a suit.
I cook, clean (sometimes) and do other things my mom did. My wife and I get along well and enjoy each other”s company. Everything suits me.”
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When I was unemployed, I depended on women to live for me. This time I didn”t like it, I just didn”t want to. It”s not for me.”
“I”m unemployed most of the year. I work as a school photographer several times a year, taking photos for sports teams and graduation ceremonies. Most of the time I do chores or play video games.
When the children were younger they were fussier, but now they go to school. My wife works for an insurance company and makes quite a lot of money.”
- It doesn”t scare me.
My girlfriend and I have been together for six years. She”s a designer. She is very talented and is becoming more and more famous in this field. She always jokes and teases that soon she will be able to feed me and I won’t have to work. Honestly, I don”t have any problem with this. This prospect does not frighten me.”
- She knew what she wanted.
I was about twenty, and she was fifteen years older than me. Okay. I just came out of a long and very toxic relationship where I was not treated very well. And this woman was very kind and supported me in every possible way.
Our relationship developed easily and naturally. At first it was just sex, but gradually we became friends.
I cooked for her and cleaned her house. And she took me on dates to places I would never go alone. She also bought me clothes and small things. I was so happy.
She had just gotten divorced, was in good shape and knew what she wanted. She approached me at the bar. Now our relationship is over, but we parted on good terms.
We see each other from time to time, but we don”t have sex.”
I had a woman like this for a while. She was already over fifty, but her figure and body were perfectly proportioned. With her, I was able to go to places I never dreamed of (and to $1, 000-a-night hotels). We got along well and I helped her regain her interest in sex (her words).
Why did it all end, you ask? Because her life itself was very tired. There were always problems of some kind: contracts, real estate, new cars, old cars, antique cars, yachts.
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I once went to an event with her and I was very embarrassed,” she said. It was clear that those present seemed to want nothing to do with her. They talked to her because they had to talk. All her wealth was inherited from her parents. As far as I can tell, she did not play sports in her daily life, but considered herself successful and accomplished.
There were other reasons for the breakup. Among them was an unhealthy relationship with his daughter. At university she went to parties with friends. She had no life experience or sense of humor. She didn”t understand sarcasm at all — I guess it was because everyone around her always agreed with her. In short, it was tedious and very boring.
I realized that this format did not suit me, and ended the relationship. Now I myself have achieved success in life and met a woman my age. I really have something to talk to her about. And by talking, I don’t mean complaining about everyday problems.”
- Both sides of the coin.
“My wife earns ten times more than me. The positives: we have a great relationship, we are friends and we have a lot of free time.
Negative points: She has a lot of stress at work and I have to throw myself at her and support her. And when people in our family find out that I”m not me, they seem to question us.”
I was 25. She was over 40. She was very beautiful, but she wanted a relationship with me, not sex. Her life was falling apart, and she needed company, a man to support her.
I helped her solve problems, cook, clean the house and deal with stress. In exchange, I could use her car for free and live in her house. She was ready to buy me something, but I almost asked what.
Overall it was a positive experience, but I soon got bored with it all. I wanted to have my own home and have a successful career. I did a good job and we parted ways.
Sometimes we communicate with her. She is doing well, she found the right man and gave birth to a child. Her life has become much more harmonious and I am very happy with her.”
- “I didn”t want a serious relationship.
Everything was fine, but only at first. Then she wanted a serious relationship, but I was not ready for it. At that time I was almost a child — I was only 22 years old. She was 37 years old, divorced and had two children, ages 6 and 10.
Thanks to her, I had a new phone, laptop and wardrobe. She gave me pocket money every week and paid my bills.
That was 11 years ago, and I still think about her sometimes. I feel sorry for her — she”s a good person.”
I was 24 at the time and thought it was a great relationship. Now I am already 30, and I understand that this woman was mentally unstable and cruel.
She constantly got me drunk, and then we had sex, so it didn’t really matter to me. She flew me to New York to be +1 at the wedding and paid for all the hotel and bar trips. Then, for some reason, she got scared and kicked me out of the room. I stayed on the street.
Our entire relationship revolved around me passing out and getting drunk before sex. Have I learned a lesson from all this? Of course, after her I had relationships with girls who were kind, sweet and purposeful. My family and my friends loved them. But I ruined my relationships with both a reckless drunk and a promiscuous drug user. Then he broke off my relationship with “Mom” again.
