Calls from an ex-girlfriend: how to react to this?
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Spare parts are always painful. It doesn’t matter how old you are, what your job is, or your constellation sign, the end of a relationship is associated with the most painful memories. Also, for the first time, you can”t break the connection, and random meetings, phone calls and messages get a little nerve-wracking. No matter how long the relationship lasts, these random intersections cause a lot of emotions.
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A phone call is a phone call. Without thinking any more, you answer and hear your ex-girlfriend”s voice on the other end. There are many memories associated with her, and perhaps there is a hint of regret that she left him. How can I lead myself? Have fun without her suspecting that I was miserable without her? Does it seem sad that she thinks I can”t cope without her? In a word, it is not clear how to react to this.
Faced with a similar situation, some guys want to seduce their ex-girlfriends. Others are kept at a distance and the need for further communication is emphasized. Others are friendly and happy to hear such familiar voices. Each person”s reaction is individual. This often reflects how the relationship ended.
For simplicity, let”s assume that you are single. Suppose you did not love or communicate with your previous age. Therefore, a telephone/chance meeting is surprising. This avoids other moral dilemmas regarding fidelity and honesty with your current girlfriend.
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There are different ways to react and reasons why you get a call from your ex/ex-girlfriend. Below are generalized situations.
She broke up with you
Sounds more comfortable than “she left you.” The woman who broke your heart calls you. So why is she calling? A woman spends most of her time with a kind person, at least with someone with whom she is somehow connected. A phone call can express common politeness and a desire to find out how you are doing.
In fact, it”s often precisely the rejection of a woman that causes pain. Therefore, if you”re being dumped, you”re most likely a terrible person (pardon the rudeness). If a woman is determined to end a relationship, a man will never be able to influence it. To ease the emotional pain, she will try in every way possible to reassure herself that she made the right decision.
Read also: Ghost Girl or How to Be Better Than Your Ex
Every girl wants to be unique to her loved one. Typically, this is true. But the fairer sex isn”t quite so sure.
A woman may regret what she did, frantically take out her phone and make a call, and she may not have the strength to fight her emotions. So, if your previous partner dumped you, if she dumped you, the conclusion is obvious: she regrets it and wants to come back, or wants to reassure herself that she did the right thing.
How do you react? If you have even a shred of pride (especially if she dumped you for another man), politely tell her you”re busy and call her without agreeing to meet again. This will tell her that her call is unnecessary and that her presence in his new life is inappropriate.
You broke up with her
You”re calling or meeting with an ex-girlfriend you dumped. So why is she calling? Simply put, she”s still in love and either wants to be with you or wants to remind you of the treasures you missed out on. Particularly devious girls call after they”ve found a replacement for their ex-boyfriend, and then angrily tell you what a lousy lover he was.
Why does your ex-girlfriend remind you of herself?
If you don”t feel anything for a girl, at least the fact that she called, and it took courage, is enough. Lovingly tell her you missed something (even if it wasn”t true). Don”t burn bridges. That could lead to regret.
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It was mutual
You get a call or run into your ex-girlfriend, but this time you both have come to the conclusion to end the relationship. Presumably, you parted on good terms. So again, the burning question is: why did she call? Perhaps it was a friendly phone call from someone who cares about you. Don”t interpret this as anything more.
How should you respond? Just as if you were the other person you were communicating with. Remember that you once respected her together as a friend. Be polite, tell her what”s new in your life and ask her what”s going on. Even if you have a girlfriend (or wife), take the time to talk to her. Girlfriends are just as important as friends. Sometimes a former friend can play this role.
No matter the breakup, no matter who calls first, he remains sweet. Were you once the happiest person, did you say the nicest things to her? Remain the right person in any situation.
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