Who hurts more during a divorce?
It is generally accepted that women are much more likely than men to want to get married. It seems that women need to stay “married” until they lose their nerve. However, according to recent studies, young women are more eager to leave relationships that do not suit them than to get married. And no one, no one can stop them. Why?
Whether they like it or not, women are emotional beings. They want to be wives because there is a fire in their hearts. Men go through phases where they think about it three times. Thus, as soon as a woman burns out, or (even worse) they drink away death elsewhere, they are ready to suddenly change their time of life and status. Men hold back logic and begin to believe that it is more profitable for them. Thus, men more often lead additional “exits” than make a decision to destroy the existing family.
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Divorce. Horribly offensive language. Many people are afraid of it, try to avoid it, add a lot of strength and maintain the illusion of well-being. And all this.
The famous psychologist Abraham Maslow expressed his opinion on this matter. He argued that during a divorce, a man feels that his property has been “taken away.” Women, on the other hand, begin to feel that they have been “let go”, even despite having a bunch of children. This is why many former fathers of families still try to control and determine the rules of life of their former spouses (and mainly through financial pressure).
According to Russian sociologists, in the second case of divorce, the man regretted it within a year and is ready to return his wife. Divorced men remarry on average three years later than their previous wives.
In a nutshell, it is so painful for representatives of the stronger sex to experience a break in the formula that they unconsciously begin to restore the old one. Through your children. Does not paying child support and not wanting to be involved in your children”s lives simply mean “how can you leave me”?
