Sexual arousal in men: how does it manifest itself and what causes it?
Male sexual arousal is a complex process. It includes the processing of external information (what the stronger sex sees and hears), psychological preparation for sex, expectations of pleasure, and the physiological response of the body. How this process occurs in men and how to speed up arousal is useful for all women to know.
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Where does it all begin?
At the onset of arousal, a wide range of sensory stimuli is present. The smell of a girl, her kiss and touch, external data (especially if she is naked) stimulate centers in the brain that send signals to the genitals through the nervous system.
Hormones are involved in this process. Dr. John Bancroft, an American sexologist and the fourth director of the Kinsey Institute for Sexual Research, claims that the degree of male arousal depends on the level of testosterone in the blood. This conclusion was made as a result of a study published in the article “Endocrinology of sexual arousal” in the Journal of Endocrinology.
As a result, an erection occurs. This is the filling of the corpus cavernosum of the penis with blood. The muscles contract to prevent venous outflow, the penis becomes harder (on average three to four times), and pulsation is felt. Often these reactions occur within seconds of sexual stimulation. Interestingly, during foreplay, an erection may weaken and then strengthen again — this is absolutely normal.
A study of 20, 000 men was published in the British Journal of Urology International. Their genitals were measured. Men from all over the world took part in it. The results showed that the average penis size at rest was 9. 16 cm and when erect it was 13. 12 cm.
There are three types of erections. One of them — nocturnal (spontaneous) — occurs without sexual overtones. The other two are related to male sexual arousal.
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Psychogenic (or psychological) — occurs against the background of central excitation in the brain. Nerve impulses are transmitted to the spinal cord and along the nerves to the reproductive system.
Reflex — occurs when touching the penis. Because this organ has many nerve endings and its skin is very sensitive, even light contact can cause irritation and blood flow to the penis.
In addition to an erection, a man’s pulse quickens, his breathing quickens and his blood pressure rises (as does the female half of the population). The scrotum may thicken and harden, and the testicles may rise. The upper body is slightly red. A lubricating fluid is released, facilitating the passage of sperm through the canal.
What turns men on?
Boys going through puberty
- Head, neck and chest.
- Abdomen (especially lower body) and back.
Foreplay almost always begins with a kiss. A passionate kiss from a girl can already cause an erection and put a man in the right mood. There are many nerve endings in the lips, he feels the sexuality of his partner and anticipates future sex. The occipital region at this moment can be stroked with your hand. This area is also very sensitive. Many men like their earlobes to be kissed as well, but this is something to watch out for as some people don”t like the process.
The lower abdomen is the best area for lovemaking (from the navel, etc.) before oral sex. The back is suitable for erotic massage. By the way, this can be done not only with your hands, but also with your lips, hair and bare chest.
In the genital area, everything is obvious — movement in this area is welcomed and causes sexual arousal in men. You should be wary of sudden movements. Men may fear for maintaining their dignity. Blowjob, manual technique — all this is enhanced by the desire of the partner. The nearby area includes the inner thighs.
Representatives of the stronger sex get excited very quickly. However, it takes more time (from several hours to days) to break out of binge drinking and complete recovery than for women. This is due to the fact that the process requires a lot of effort from the woman. Therefore, repeated sexual arousal does not occur quickly in all men, and this needs to be understood and treated.
