8 male complexes that lead to problems in sex
Popular publications talk a lot about how the female complex, shyness and self-flagellation prevent couples from enjoying sex. Isn”t it time to pay attention to male complexes that cause problems in sex?
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Othello complex
Of course, this is inherent in women, but in men the Othello complex occurs on average 20% more often. Many experts are now inclined to believe that crazy je is not just a “small defect”, but a symptom of a mental disorder. It is known that many alcoholics, schizophrenics and psychopaths have many deep je.
How to distinguish an adequate reaction to a partner’s ambiguous behavior from a pathological one? There are many signs:
- The man has other “oddities”
As mentioned above, unhealthy jealousy often manifests itself against the background of other mental disorders. In addition to inadequate sexual behavior, otero men often exhibit other oddities in behavior.
- He gives you a swing
As the illness worsens, the man loses control over himself, but his life becomes even less prestigious. And during periods of remission, he can behave calmly, avoiding conflicts and ignoring unpleasant episodic episodes.
- His fantasy knows no bounds
If there is no real reason for je, he makes one up. If his partner really cheated on him once, he covers her up with several more misdeeds.
Even if there is nothing to worry about, Othello paints a terrible picture of a terrible betrayal in his head and allows himself to be carried away. He becomes aggressive. A man with enviable patience will look for evidence confirming his speculations. If there is no communication with other people on the phone, he will move on. Has she decided to change her wardrobe, lose weight and change? Yes!!! It”s about attracting men!
A declaration of love and exemplary behavior of an ideal woman cannot help in work. Ideally, men should turn to experts, and women should weigh the pros and cons and decide whether to wear a sheepskin coat. An out of control deep man can drive his partner crazy and then drive himself to depression and suicide.
Dysmorphophobia (Quasimodo complex)
This is one of the inferiority complexes. If a man hears something offensive from a woman, he can suddenly develop in just a few days a complex of imaginary ugliness that can completely consume a man and make him think that no one needs him.
They say that Dostoevsky himself knew this directly. Dissatisfaction with his own appearance consumed him so much that in one of his social events he even lost consciousness when he tried to imagine himself as a beautiful stranger.
Psychologists believe that such complexes weaken during adolescence. Complexes can be buried in the subconscious, careless words or sharp jokes. Ultimately, lack of confidence in your own attractiveness can lead to erection problems.
It”s easier to relax with a regular partner at Casimodo. However, this partner must be very patient and willing to put up with his male complex.
Read also: 21 female complexes that lead to problems in sex
Some women seek one-night stands to promote overall intimacy, but others find that short encounters only deepen things.
Orest complex
When Orestes was 10 years old, his father Agamemnon was killed by Orestes” mother Clytemnastia and her lover. Orestes was filled with a thirst for the restoration of Veins. In the end, he killed his mother.
This is a particular manifestation of the Oedipus complex. The son feels attracted to his mother and perceives his father as a competitor. As he grows up, he begins to feel guilty and ashamed for his desires and shifts all responsibility to his mother. And then the woman grows up.
A man with an Orestes complex further condemns a woman to all kinds of evil and accentuates his hatred of the female sex. Only qualified specialists can help men in this case.
Narcissistic disorder
At first glance, this man seems attractive and confident, but emptiness and feelings of inferiority lie behind the great rapper. The narcissist must constantly test his exceptionality.
The admiration of others makes him as necessary as air. However, he does not like to admire the successes of others. He does not want to know anything about his own shortcomings, but persistently looks for them in others. And he has a persistent allergy to criticism.
He constantly violates other people”s boundaries and, as a rule, perceives people as a means to achieve his goals. It is impossible to have a healthy relationship with him. And a woman should be free, have healthy self-esteem, respect her personal boundaries and not be with him at all. Yes, she doesn”t need it.
Narcissists can change in relationships. Therefore, the flags indicate how resilient they are. But neither love, nor care, nor constant compliments will “cure” such a person. Perhaps, depending on his emotional state, the partner only tolerates humiliation.
Leontas complex
What does sex mean to a man?
Men with complexes will not calm down until they receive the results of a DNA examination. If the spouse refuses to do tests, perhaps even a deep man will take on all the responsibilities of caring for the woman. And he himself will continue to pursue his supposedly “dissolute” wife.
Oedipus complex
Probably everyone has heard of him. The title comes from an ancient Greek myth in the collection — he killed his father and married his own mother. A man with such a complex wants to get a “mother”, not a wife. He is focused on physical resemblance and finding someone who smells like his mother.
Even in adulthood, a man “holds onto his mother”s skirts.” He constantly compares his wife to his mother. He is a baby, gets offended and acts like a child. He expects encouragement and approval for normal behavior, which he considers heroic.
This description should assume that many women recognize their spouses. This appears to be the norm. But it”s scary. If a man with an Oedipus complex and his partner have children, he may begin to
Treatment of the complex is a long process. This cannot be done without a specialist.
Don Juan complex
Men with such a complex do not know how to build trusting relationships and tend to rush from one woman to another. He loves to conquer women and knows how to do it perfectly, but as soon as the goal is achieved, he quickly loses interest in his partner.
The fact is that this person is deeply wounded and lives by the principle “if you don’t want to be passed over, do it yourself.” Sex with a new partner makes the lover take care of his pride and increases his self-esteem. However, Don Juan cannot invest in long-term relationships.
Don Quixote complex
Such a man is looking for an ideal life partner, a beautiful princess. This image is far from reality. He himself idealizes her and attributes to her qualities that she does not possess. But he bows to her exactly until he is faced with harsh reality.
When his partner turns out to be an ordinary living person, far from the ideal image, Don Quixote experiences bitter disappointment. He then shifts all the blame for what happened onto his partner and punishes her for her imperfections.
Neither a relationship nor sex with such a person can be called healthy. Early childhood prevents Don Quixote from coming to terms with the fact that life does not always meet his expectations. Instead of turning his attitude towards life, Don Quixote floats away into a world of fantasy.
A woman faced with a man of ill repute must accept the fact that her love cannot conquer the whole world. Life has little in common with a Disney cartoon. Only a psychologist can help a person, and only if he is ready to accept help.
