Girls” opinions on how to stop being ashamed of your body
Are there many girls in the world who are absolutely confident in their bodies? The women of Reddit are ready to share with you their secret fears and tell you what to do so that your complex stops poisoning your life.
Contents of the article:
Between us girls
- “Do you know what helped me? I started watching other women. I have always had a complex due to the fact that my stomach is not ideally flat, and there is fat in the lower part. I couldn’t calmly wear a pencil skirt, although I really wanted to. It seemed to me that in such a skirt my tummy was too obvious. I wondered how other women managed to wear such clothes.
However, once on the street, I began to study other girls as closely as myself.
It turns out that many people have the same “problem” as me, but they don’t worry about it. “Well,” I thought, “this woman calmly wears such a skirt and looks amazing at the same time.”
Then I suddenly realized that no one but me pays so much attention to my “shortcomings”. No one thinks differently about me, judging how terrible this part of my body is. People just look at me as a whole — both the body and the image — and go back to their own thoughts.
So here”s my advice — go out and look at other women. About the parts of their body that you don”t like about your own. But the main thing is not to start comparing yourself with girls and saying that they all look better than you. No. You shouldn”t start comparing yourself to other women. Think about it, do you often think very closely about strangers? Are there any girls who have the same “problems” as you that are really bad? “Learn to get used to yourself like everyone else” — justgoodenough.
- “Very vital. My friend has a similar problem. Although she has a great figure, she avoids tight skirts and generally any clothes that would somehow show off her lower tummy. I”m a little less insecure, and one day I almost forced her into one of my skirts and then took her out to hang out.
We spent the entire evening laughing, taking pictures and enjoying our time together. And she loved the way the photos looked! My friend needed a little kick.
I encourage girls to go where you feel comfortable and have fun, but at the same time wear something a little bolder than usual. Forget about what your belly looks like or anything else and have fun tonight” -has_no_name.
- “And I suddenly realized that before I was much less strict with myself. I look at old photos and see a girl who put on whatever she wanted, without worrying about anything at all. I look happy in these photos and I don”t care about anything. I tried to remember when I started getting so stressed about everything and constantly covering my stomach.
My body type is “apple”. I”m still petite and have narrow shoulders, so choosing clothes can be difficult. Sometimes I “don”t pay attention, you have a narrow waist, it”s hard to have a waist.” and I like to worry about having a pronounced waist!
As soon as I put on a longer T-shirt that covers my stomach, it starts to seem even lower than it is. Very difficult! Either way, I can”t fool anyone because I have to remind myself that people see my real growth. You just have to let this problem go.
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Sometimes when people see a photo of me in jeans, I lose enthusiasm. When I wear something that isn”t super chic, it”s all on me — I have a flat butt and skinny legs. At these moments, if I don’t look at these photographs, I don’t worry at all.
It is also very important to distance yourself from the noise that portrays certain categories of women as “positioning their bodies.” Their bodies are usually only applied to curvy women, the rest are called “sticks”, “toothpicks”, “tips”, “prepub boys”, etc. The sad thing is that all this ends up causing growth among women.
Highlighting those parts of the body that I believe increase my self-esteem. For example, I wear something that shows off my legs or arms. I immediately feel like a million dollars. Rarely do I do this to remind myself that I look cool.
I also remind myself that the people who matter to me don”t judge me by my weight, height, or how fashionable my dress is. Which usually means nothing to me (I had an evergreen sister who wanted to hold me up to her standards, so now we don”t communicate, ha!” — Gray.
- “Same thing! When you go to read threads about body image problems, and the main problem is a narrow waist and wide hips. I”m an apple, and sometimes it really helps when I learn about people with a similar body type. It reminds me that any body type can look good. And yes, I also dress to highlight my favorite body parts.
Girls, why should guys stop having complexes?
- “A strip club helped me. No kidding.
“I wasn”t very famous, but I was shocked when I saw how “normal” the bodies of the dancers in strip clubs were. No one there looked like Kim Kardashian. Tubular breasts, bellies, big hips, tall, short, etc.
And they”re all sexy—and everyone else agrees with it, because they pay for their sexuality. I think it was an incredible revelation for me. That evening, I forced myself to look at my body differently.
These women—their income depends on how they look; they feel cool in tight thongs without having a full body. So why should I worry?
It doesn”t matter what my body looks like. It can”t be changed. So there”s no point in worrying.” Turkishlady123456.
- “I once went to a strip club with my boyfriend to overcome my fear. I was afraid my boyfriend thought I (and my very small breasts) were sexy only because he”d been a virgin and had never seen a naked woman before. Basically, there was nothing to compare it to—”Of course he likes sausage—he”s never tried lobster!”
And after I found out about this, the girls at the strip club started showering me with compliments about my small breasts. Very sweet. I”ve never felt so happy with my body!” — Aspi-182.
- “Ha! I remember talking to a stripper friend. “I could never be a dancer. My body isn”t that great,” I said. And she replied, “It doesn”t matter at all. You just need to have self-confidence,”” — deleted.
- “I don”t know how it works, but big arms make you look really big, and people immediately start thinking you”re fat. My friends say it”s just that I have a lot of muscle—that”s true—but I also store excess fat in that area, so I”ll never have skinny arms.
“I love sleeveless tops and sleeves. And you know what? I wear them, wear them, and I lose my inhibitions.” Life is too short not to replace a sailor”s hands in the breath of a gentle breeze,” — Mannix.
