My husband is a girl: how forced cross-dressing saved our marriage
Whatever we call it — forced alteration, feminization, sissification, playing submissive maid — this fetish is one of the most common in the world. It doesn”t matter what country you live in. Make sure that there are many men who are already doing this or constantly fantasizing about this topic.
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History of Alexa Mart& iacute; nez
I was not enthusiastic about the idea of feminizing my husband. I have always been the dominant woman, often taking the lead in relationships before I met my future husband. Then I was not feminine enough, I made all the important decisions myself. But I had no relationship with femdom or other fetish topics, and I knew next to nothing about forced cross-dressing or feminization. I just liked being in charge, which is not uncommon in couples. Usually one of the partners is the leader, and often this is a woman. Once I decided to take control of my previous democratic marriage and forcibly feminize my husband, I started looking for guidance on the Internet and found mostly pornography. These were wild and incredible stories about the history of forced feminization and cruelty, including forcing men to take female hormones, chemicals and even surgery. Such things are unacceptable to me, clearly a sick imagination and inappropriate in a loving relationship like ours.
First steps in feminization
So I started by exploring natural approaches to feminization within specific relationships. I tried to gradually prepare my husband for the role of a modest girl. I didn”t have a mentor in those early days, so I came up with a script and of course made a few mistakes.
For many heterosexual women living in normal families, the concept of forced cross-dressing may seem ridiculous. After all, if you want someone to look and act like a woman, why not find a real woman? Now let”s analyze this statement. Who decided that biological men should act like normal men? In fact, it is nothing more than a social convention invented by some men to justify, maintain and promote their unequal status for their own interests. Later, upon reflection, I realized that I could have achieved my goals faster if I had been more determined and confident in my goals. My desire to remain in a happy loving relationship with a man who feminized, controlled and inspired me, and sometimes I was too soft. I always listened to what he wanted. This approach did not always pay off, as our marriage remained strong, despite the fact that our spouses became more and more demanding and demanding. Now I understand that I should have been with him from the very beginning. The leadership and discipline between the two of us was helpful. When we first met, he was a successful businessman working for a large company. He wasn”t a typical alpha male, but he wasn”t a pushover either. My future husband was very confident, independent, articulate and decisive. However, although he was always sensitive and often seemed to prefer the company of women, he was not averse to drunken evenings or afternoon get-togethers with his footballer friends. He remained 100% heterosexual, but. Now he is a girl who is still attracted to the female gender. After he admitted to me that he always liked strong women, he never allowed them to dominate him. Our relationship was the first relationship in which I was not the leader. Instead, we were equal partners from the very beginning. At first I liked it.
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It is natural to ask why I thought dressing was forced and therefore a threat to a good strong marriage? There is no doubt that he was the ideal partner for many women and his masculinity really attracted me. But was it completely like that, or was it something else, something deep in me and deep in him that we both saw it without understanding?
It took a lot of effort on my part to turn my husband into a girlfriend
Looking back, I certainly know that now. What turned this tall, thin, determined businessman into an obedient housewife and modest girl? Why did I rename him Alice, call him a girl and now orient him to the female gender? Why does he always insist on wearing skirts, dresses, panties and bras at home? And even when I met his resistance, why did I still do it? If I were writing a university paper on this topic, I would probably mention the destruction of artificial social rules created over time and how he freed himself from the expectations and pressures of men in our society. There is some truth to this, but whatever the underlying reason, I have come to the conclusion that he needs this experience. Indeed, he is now a much happier, submissive girl who has now forever abandoned all expectations of responsibility and masculinity.
He admitted that he now has the advantage of wearing much nicer clothes and using cosmetics
The benefits for me and for women who control themselves in this way are obvious and enormous. One of them is that women don”t want their submissive partner to put their needs first. Now I have a trusted person who does everything I want and also maintains the house like a humble housewife should. Let”s be completely honest and admit that we all want to see the body of someone we find attractive. I really find my Alice”s body very sexy. Only now her masculinity has softened.
I insist that she wear very short skirts and sheer stockings. I want to see her legs; it gives me pleasure, and I don”t want to be denied that pleasure. Her underwear is feminine and revealing. She wears a bra. To be clear, I don”t want to turn my husband into a biological woman, but I did want to transform him into a modest woman in terms of gender. This is my true story of how, under the guidance of a woman and her feminist husband, I gradually discovered the benefits of a relationship with incredible pleasure.
I believe all women have seven clear reasons to feminize their husbands:
- Forced cross-dressing makes men more tender;
The fact that we wear feminine clothing has a profound effect on our behavior. Psychologically, feminine clothing influences our behavior. Change your clothes to something feminine, and your husband will begin to behave softly and devotedly.
- Feminization ensures that your husband remains faithful;
The possibility of your man starting an evening of invention and intrigue is virtually eliminated. After all, what man would allow another woman to see his wife put lingerie on him? Even if he comes up with a weak excuse for his preference for lingerie, how will he explain a bra and smooth genitals? You eliminate the risk of him slipping up. You”re in control.
- Dressing ensures he”ll be doing housework;
You can turn her into your personal maid or simply your housekeeper. Imagine, never having to do tedious housework again unless you want to.
This frees up time for more interesting activities, like reading or socializing with friends. Of course, you also save on cleaning costs because you have free help at home.
- Sexual energy increases;
Both the wife and husband lead the dressing process. This is important because it allows both the wife and husband to be more calm and relaxed in their own home. Because, as a rule, men experience intense arousal when cross-dressing and feminization give their wives powerful tools for manipulation.
- A man learns to understand women better;
By forcing your husband or man to undergo cosmetic procedures and perform household chores, you introduce him to the reality of what it means to be a woman. He will view women differently and appreciate all their efforts.
- This makes him more attractive;
Being a straight woman doesn”t mean you want to look like a big, rough, hairy man in jeans. With each step of feminization, his appearance improves exponentially.
- Feminization reduces male aggression and bad habits.
Any aggressive tendencies he had before almost completely disappear when he transforms into a pretty girl in a short skirt and high heels. It is important to note that this type of female-led relationship is not abusive and the husband should not suffer. The relationship continues to maintain trust even when the wife is in complete control of the situation. Our journey is not yet complete and some changes need to be made in terms of Alice”s control to deepen her feminization and submission. I should note that, frankly, in many situations Alice cannot dress like a girl. For example, when she is at work, with family or friends. Perhaps this will change, but we have not reached this point yet.”
