People”s comments about the strap-on: “It was completely his idea”
If you”ve ever wondered what it would be like to “fuck” your boyfriend, don”t worry. You are not alone. Thanks to sexologists and magazine articles, most people know the pleasure that prostate massage brings. Heterosexual relationships are changing and rimming, anal sex and pointing the prostate area are no longer taboo. Even men.
Contents of the article:
- What is a strap-on and how is it used?
- Feedback from people to the question: “Who do you use a strap-on with?”
- Feedback from people to the question: “What sex toys do you use?”
- Feedback from people to the question: “Whose idea was it to use a strap-on and how did you do it
- Feedback from people to the question: “How did you prepare for the first time?”
- Feedback from people to the question: “What did you like most about this
What is a strap-on and how is it used?
A penile bun (dildo) is a toy for adults that follows the shape of a penis. Often a strap-on is attached to a special bandage in the form of a belt. They are mainly used by lesbian couples, but can also be successfully implemented in heterosexual unions.
There is nothing shocking about anal sex when a woman uses a penis muffin to please her man. Stimulation of the prostate area can give a long and very bright orgasm. How can you deprive yourself of such pleasure?
To understand how to properly use a strap-on without embarrassment, you can study the experiences of others. This article contains women”s answers to the most common questions about dildos.
Feedback from people to the question: “Who do you use a strap-on with?”
- “My boyfriend and I used a penile bun. The first time we had anal sex, we had been in a relationship for three years.” Sveta, 26 years old
- I”ve had two men who liked dildos. We both have a long and close relationship. It seems that such an experience cannot be offered to casual partners. One lover admitted that he had been waiting for a long time to talk about his preferences. He was afraid that I wouldn”t understand or that I would put him in an awkward position.” Yulia, 31 years old
- “My husband loves anal sex. We experiment together. It seems to me that you can use a penile bun with a casual lover, but there is nothing wrong with such caresses. Daria, 27 years old
- I have only used peniban once. This was my boyfriend and we were together for about six months. Ksenia, 21 years old.
- “I suggested to my husband that we try this kind of sex, and he agreed. We”ve been married for 11 years. Now we have complete trust and no secrets.” Tatyana, 37
Feedback from people to the question: “What sex toys do you use?”
- “I use regular silicone strap-ons and lubricants. When I tried a vibrating strap-on, my partner was very pleased.” Daria, 27
- “I liked the strap-on harness. You can choose any size, and it looks great on wide hips. We also played around with a small silicone dildo, and lube without it for anal sex—it”s fine.” Wright, 26
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Reviews on the question: “Whose idea was it to use a strap-on, and how did you decide to do it?”
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- “Once, after trying anal sex on me, my lover asked me what it was like to experience such sensations. He thought about it for a long time, and we decided to give it a try. It seems it was my idea after all; I gave him the idea.” Sveta, 26.
- I once told him that I had never tried myself as a woman in Penibana. I was genuinely curious about what it would be like to have a man. My man offered to test him, and I must say, I enjoyed it. I did a great job with this.” Elena, 28.
- It was entirely his idea. We talked openly about our sexual preferences, and he said he”d had a similar experience and really enjoyed it. I decided not to deny him this pleasure, and we came to an agreement. Tatyana, 37.
- “His thoughts. He said he was “a little crazy” and wanted to suggest I fuck him with a dildo.” Daria, 27.
- I don”t even know who first told me about it. We both used butt plugs, and he didn”t really have any preconceptions about anal pleasure. You know, a lot of men have that. During sex, I suggested he take it a step further and buy a strap-on. He didn”t refuse.” Yulia, 31.
- Each of us expressed this idea at different times, so it”s a general idea. I”m interested in what a man feels during penetration, what sensations he gets. Ksenia, 21.
Feedback from people to the question: “How did you prepare for the first time?”
- “We prepared a lot of lube. The dildo we started with was very small. We had used butt plugs before, but they were much larger in volume, and the man was embarrassed by the thought of him digging into the palometer. But everything went well, he chose his own comfortable pace, and I was already attuned to him.” Elena, 28 years old.
- I was completely unprepared. He brought me a strap-on as a surprise, and I did not have time to mentally and physically prepare for the process. Indeed, my lover took care of everything.” Ksenia, 21.
- “I studied all the information about anal sex that I could find on the Internet. I was 100% ready. All that”s left is to switch to Strapon, which looks the best. I”m not kidding, I need a lot of lube.” Julia, 31 years old
- “I just bought some lube. Our dildo was very small, probably like two tampons, so no special preparation was required.” Sveta, 26.
- “We had to spend a lot of time preparing mentally. Usual roles include games, finger prostate massage. In general, my preparation was to bring this into the process itself.” Daria, 27 years old.
- “The preparation was more moral. My man refused to do anything until he took a bath. This was the only way he could relax and get into the right frame of mind.” Tatyana, 37 years old.
Feedback from people to the question: “What did you like most about this process?”
- We both enjoyed the experience of anal sex as such. This helped take our relationship to a new level. I had a little more power and he began to listen to me more often. Our relationship seems to have become more trusting.” Sveta, 26.
- The main thing is that he could trust me completely.” Daria, 27 years old.
- “The whole appeal is that you can try yourself in a completely new role. Penetration isn”t about women, is it? During “vanilla” sex, you will never be able to feel the pull of dominance and power in your hands. It”s really worth feeling.” Tatyana, 37 years old
- “It was nice to be in charge and see how much pleasure you could give him.” Ksenia, 21
- “I would like to try something new, especially when it comes to toys for adults. I liked what he got, what he wanted, and it was I who was able to offer him these opportunities.” Yulia, 31 years old
- “I like to do what pleases my lover. I love seeing this kind of reaction. It”s very sexy. I also understood what anal sex is, but it’s a pity that so many people are embarrassed to try it.” Elena, 28 years old
Whatever your relationship, it is important to remember one thing — you should not be shy about your desires. There is nothing shameful in male stretching and anal sex, there is nothing homosexual here. Simple biology: there is a prostate gland, the stimulation of which causes pleasant sensations. Don”t deprive yourself of pleasure because of stupid prejudices.
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