Prostate massage for your husband for pleasure — how to give him pleasure with your fingers
Women have a clitoris — literally, an organ designed solely for pleasure. And men have a prostate gland. Not only is it designed for pleasure (it helps produce seminal fluid), but its stimulation is also very pleasurable. And if you and your partner are ready for this kind of play — you”re cool, awesome, and uninhibited, but you probably want to know more about how it”s done, how to prepare, and what the results will be.
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And you”ll find out right here!
A little theory: What is the prostate?
The prostate is a small muscular gland located 5 centimeters deep in the anus between the rectum and the penis. Only men have this area, which is why they experience more intense pleasure from anal sex than women—for them, this area is purely physiological and more sensitive. Women can also experience pleasure from anal sex, but:
- As a rule, it”s not as intense. This is due to physiological reasons: a woman”s pleasurable sensations from anal sex arise from stimulation of the vaginal walls through the muscular septum between the vagina and the anus. It”s natural that the pleasure will be less than when the erogenous zone, which is permeated with numerous nerve endings, is directly stimulated.
- A man can experience orgasm solely from prostate stimulation, but a woman can”t from anal sex alone; she needs additional stimulation of the clitoris with fingers or sex toys.
How do you know it”s the prostate?
So, the most logical way to find the prostate is through the anus, but it”s not the only option. Massaging your partner”s groin (i. e., the area between the scrotum and anus) also indirectly stimulates the prostate. It feels fleshy to the touch, denser than everything around it, and different from the muscles of the anterior rectal wall, the tissue surrounding it.
What does it feel like?
What does it feel like?
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There are no serious studies of orgasm during prostate stimulation yet, so it is not known for sure whether all men experience vivid orgasms from such caresses. Every body is different, has its own preferences, and every transgressive zone is different. Men may not like prostate stimulation because they don”t like penetrative sex without external clitoral stimulation. It”s not a problem.
However, there is evidence that the orgasm from such stimulation is stronger than from penile stimulation, and can be felt throughout the entire body at the same time, not just in the pelvic area, and multiple orgasms are possible.
Yes, an important point: usually, if a man experiences an orgasm from prostate stimulation without penis stimulation — i. e. with a feeling of orgasm, but without sperm. Sometimes a small amount of “milk” is released — seminal fluid without sperm.
Shouldn”t be painful. Discomfort is possible when a man gets used to the sensations, but if it hurts, it means he’s doing something wrong.
How to prepare?
How to prepare?
- You may have heard that before any anal intercourse you need to have an enema. This is optional. But it’s really worth emptying your bowels before a prostate massage.
- No, the girl does not trip over feces. The anal passage is located only after the massage. As mentioned above, pressing on the prostate stimulates the desire to go to the toilet and the understanding that you have already done so — this will help you relax and remember that this is not a “real” desire, but simply the result of prostate stimulation. This will help you relax and have fun.
It is better if a man conducts his first exploration of this side of sexuality alone. That is, he will practice anal masturbation using fingers or an anal toy. This way he will get used to the feeling of something foreign in his anus, and it will be easier for him to relax in the company of his partner.
- Lube, lube, lube, lube! Lots of lube! No, saliva is not suitable, it dries too quickly. The fact is that there are literally no mechanisms in the anus that provide lubrication, so it must be from the outside, and there must be a sufficient amount of it, otherwise the girl will be uncomfortable and the man will be in pain.
- Don”t go straight to the main course. Relax, caress each other in familiar ways, get excited, and only then start. Ideally, when the prostate massage begins, a man should be relaxed, excited and anticipating pleasure.
- Prostate massage. Standard method. I drove the man!
