Rimming: tips on how to work your tongue correctly
Rimming, aka anilingus, aka “ass eating”. How to prepare for these caresses and make sure that both partners get maximum pleasure?
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Quick answers to frequently asked questions
- What is this?”
Rimming, also known as anilingus, is oral caressing of the anus. There are no rules or restrictions as such. The act may include licking, sucking, kissing and other oral techniques.
- “Who might like this?”
Who! If you want to find out if you like this kind of caresses, take them in your hands and try them. However, do not forget to prepare for rimming, which will be discussed below.
Rimming is not yet as common an activity as, for example, oral sex. Some people consider anal caresses to be a “dirty business”; others associate everything connected with this area with homosexuals. Of course, this is all just speculation.
- “Is it safe?”
The more responsible you are in your preparation, the lower the risk of this activity.
- “What do you remember, what are you afraid of?”
Hygiene issues are very serious here due to the risk of spreading germs. In addition, the following sexually transmitted diseases can be transmitted through rimming: herpes, warts, gonorrhea, syphilis, hepatitis A and B.
You can protect yourself and your partner by wearing special attachments (“dental fillings”) on your teeth for oral sex and anilingus.
- “What if my partner wants to take things further?”
Consent to anal licking and readiness for anal sex are two completely different things. Always discuss this issue with your partner to avoid misunderstandings and unpleasant surprises.
- How can I prepare my partner for this?
Good communication is the key to success. Liming doesn”t have to be presented as a surprise. Start with a frank conversation, share your fantasies and desire to experiment.
Your partner may refuse. Religious beliefs, prejudices — all play an important role. Pass by without judging.
- “My partner is offering me limiting, but I don”t know how I feel about it”
Again, no judgment. If you”re worried about hygiene, don”t worry. This will be explained later. Listen to your partner”s point of view and see the situation from their point of view. Then express your fears and doubts.
Gas, diarrhea, constipation, hemorrhoids, digestive infections and herpes are not the best companions for lameness. If the recipient suffers from any of the above problems, postpone the experiment until better times.
- “Do I need to remove hair?”
It”s all up to you. It is completely normal to have hair in this area. However, if this does not suit you, purchase a hair removal product that is convenient for you.
Smooth skin is more sensitive and receptive to touch. If you take care of your hygiene, you will also feel more relaxed and calm. You will also no longer have to worry about the aesthetic aspects of the problem.
Read also: How to shave your groin correctly: tips for men and women
Hair on the genitals acts as a specific cushion that protects against various types of infections. Excessive vegetation causes mass.
But, of course, not everything is so rosy. Damaged skin can experience inflammation, ingrown hairs, and infections.
Weigh the pros and cons carefully.
- Do you need an enema?
Let”s look at the pros and cons.
Enems help cleanse the anal cavity, reduce the risk of spreading bacteria and give confidence. However, on the other hand, this procedure is not very convenient. In addition, frequent enemas can negatively affect bowel function.
What happens at the end? Enemas are optional. However, if you use this procedure less often and are convinced that colon cleansing will help you relax and fully enjoy rimming, then do it.
- “Do I need a condom?”
Using contraception is the best way to protect yourself from sexually transmitted infections. You can use special latex devices or condoms for oral sex that are placed on the tongue.
You can also use regular condoms. Armed with scissors, carefully cut off the tip of the product, then one side. Place the resulting latex with the flat side on the anus and begin edging.
- “Do I need to lubricate?”
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Whatever makes you feel most comfortable. You can change your dog”s position yourself. Proceed as follows.
- Ask your partner to get down on all fours.
- “What about the language?”
Start with light tongue movements and gentle kisses on the inner thighs and perineum. Then to the anus. Make movements with your tongue as if you were licking an ice cream cone. There are no mistakes.
Slowly move your tongue and press it against your partner”s anus. Alternately tense and relax your tongue. Experiment with the direction of movement — up and down, then left and right. When both get used to the new sensations, increase the difficulty — slowly insert your tongue inside.
First of all, be interested in your partner’s opinion, without losing your temper with passion. Try light, gentle pinching of the buttocks. Reactions to the track.
- Breathe?”
Hot breath on the skin causes severe irritation. Strongly stimulate your inner thighs and buttocks. Bring your lips close to your skin so that your partner can feel your breath. Alternate these games with kissing and licking.
- “Where do you put your hands?”
Caress your partner”s nipples, gently pinch them and pull them back. If you”re licking a girl, pay special attention to the clitoris. This will only increase her pleasure from the process. If the recipient is male, use your free hand to stimulate the penis. Caress your neck, back, thighs — everything that is within reach.
If you like these types of games, Slap in the Face could be a great bonus.
Preparation
- Step one.
So you”ve made your decision and you”re determined. Proceed to hygiene procedures. Take a bath or shower. Give an enema if necessary.
At this stage, begin hair removal. If you haven”t even thought about the fact that hair grows both around the anus and at the pubic bone, arm yourself with a mirror. Use scissors or a razor. In addition, consult with a specialist first.
As mentioned above, hair removal in this area is optional. It”s up to you and your partner.
Be prepared for anything that may come up during the process. It is better to prepare lubricants, condoms and adult toys in advance and keep them on your bedside table.
