Sex with a married man — why you should say “NO”
You are already an adult and should understand that sex with married men is always dangerous. The risk that one day you will have to come down to earth and admit that precious years of your life have been wasted.
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A fairy tale without a happy ending
He may tell you that he has nothing in common with his wife. Just being with you makes him happy. Wait a little longer and he will divorce and be yours forever. Just a little more! In the meantime, darling, don”t call me. My wife and I are leaving for the New Year holidays, and I don’t want her to suspect that my nightly texts and calls are not from my colleagues. I”m sure you will enjoy your birthday alone. I”ll call you later. No, unfortunately, I can”t see you. Are you offended? Kiss!
You should have long ago given up illusions about your precarious position and realized that the more problems you create, the faster he will “merge” you. Yes, miracles happen. But they rarely do this.
Still hesitant to break off this relationship and run to your prince charming, but he beckons you with his finger? Perhaps these stories of real women who found themselves in the same situation will help you change and make the right decision.
“Everything was different with us”
This is a good old story about how a young woman fell in love with a married man with children.
We knew from the very beginning that he has a wife and children — he is an active leader in the social network. “What a wonderful family!” I thought when I saw the photo. But I had no intention of entering into this relationship, not least because I myself was in danger of being betrayed. I remember the first time I met him. I had the feeling that I had known him for a very long time.
That evening we were at a work event. We felt connected to each other. After a few days of receiving hundreds of messages, I realized I had a problem. He shared his experience with me. He said that his wife was a wonderful person and a good mother, but as a woman she was not suitable for him. He was unhappy, but could not come to terms with the idea that he would have to leave her and the children. He admitted that he was never truly happy in this marriage.
I may seem naive, but we didn”t have the usual secret romance. Rare messages and secret meetings are not our case. We responded day and night. We received calls on the way to work in the morning and on the way home in the evening. We met at least four times a week. We chatted constantly on Snapchat and made jokes that only the two of us could understand. He said that he loved me, and I paid him the same. No one in my life looked at me the way he did. We had serious conversations about his divorce. He said he wanted to leave, but couldn”t because of the children. I felt guilty. My anxiety continued. I lost weight. I couldn”t look in the mirror for several days in a row. But she continued to meet with him. So a year passed.
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What does this seem like? Married men should be avoided and that’s it! But sometimes attraction to a man can be stronger than the voice of reason. Is the game.
Then his wife noticed.
This happened on the same weekend. He said that he loves me very much, that he needs me, but he doesn’t know what to do. A few days later he called and said that his wife was ready to work on the relationship, leave him and not harm the children. That”s it.
Months have passed and I am still devastated. I don”t know how to get rid of the feeling that I”m not good enough. It was as if nothing had happened. And I continue to replay his words in my head, our endless conversations. And one question in my head: “How can he recover from saying goodbye to me?”
“He cheated on both of us”
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Nine months have passed. One day he came to my house and said. I don”t love you. And you never loved me. It was a big mistake.” Tears flowed from my eyes. And after he left me, I found out that he cheated on me with his wife. He deceived us both.
To be honest, I suspected this before. It was such love that I didn’t even want to think about it. I”ll never go there again. An affair with a married man completely destroyed me. You can’t command your heart, but you still need to turn on your head. You are not only hurting yourself, but others as well.”
“It all ended in court”
This was my first job. My boss and I had incredible chemistry. But he was engaged, so we kept to ourselves.
There were three weeks left before his wedding, we got drunk, and everything happened by itself. Everything was not as in the novel. We had sex several times. Even after the wedding.
I decided to end the relationship when my boss started discussing it with my coworkers. They started posting obscene comments about me. A few months later, my boss, Shrin, settled in our company. My ex-girlfriend was concerned and “advised” me to immediately look for another job. Then staff reductions began. But I wasn”t going to give up.
Sex with married men is always a bad idea. And if this is your boss, then this is also dangerous. But I survived. She sued the company, accusing authorities of unfair dismissal, gender discrimination and harassment. I won the trial.”
