Sure signs that a man wants you
Have you seen a cute Soviet film about guests from the future? The action revolved around the myelophone, a device that transmits the thoughts of other people and animals. Sweet, big-eyed Alice could easily determine who was a friend, who was an enemy and what mood the animals in the zoo were in. Just now.
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Thought translators can also be useful today. How else can you understand a person? Why does he say one thing and do the complete opposite? Does he love you or just wants you? Does he want you or is there some kind of calculation?
Wants, but is silent?
He is frank, as sometimes people are more frank than their rulers.
- I want you, I have no strength.
Here you can ask clarifying questions, such as when and where. But what happens if a person approaches the horizon but remains silent? Why not go off topic and express your feelings?
How to translate his male behavior into a universal and understandable language? How can I know exactly his attitude? By the way, appearing where you are is already a hint of strong interest.
But here”s where we dance:
Silence means he doesn”t want to talk. He has every right not only not to want to declare his desires, but also not to want a woman at all. And why look for it? So what do you do with this knowledge that you dig out of the trash, open letters, hack emails and submit to court? Maybe he has a good reason, like his wife, or maybe he doesn”t really like you. You must respect his preferences. Accept his silent “no” without additional justification and guesswork.
Nevertheless (there is a paradox here, isn’t there?) — It is worth understanding the male psyche and recognizing the possibility of male interest. Not least in order not to get into uncomfortable situations at work, not to accept offensive offers and not to be obliged to “pay off”.
Otherwise you won”t get a dynamite nickname.
Or, conversely, prepare what you want in advance.
How to calculate a fan”s passion?
Body language. Speech. Appearance. Carrying out. If a man is interested in a woman on the most blatant level, these markers can change. There is no need to search, find or guess anything. Keep your eyes and ears open and you will always have the information you need.
What is he saying?
If a man wants this, if he has already appropriated you in his fantasies, his speech will change and show a desire to get closer.
- He will suggest switching to “you” or will randomly address you by name, forgetting about subordination;
- Wanting to seem more significant to you than he is now, he will unconsciously make you smaller. All these “baby”, “Tanya”, “baby” are about desire, the main thing is not to confuse it with a situation where they simply want to humiliate you;
- Have you heard the rude expression “use”? When we want someone, marker words related to food instantly appear in our speech. He would have eaten you, he says. You smell delicious. Sweetie. Sweet. You are like a breath of air or water. Even the phrase “why are you sour” is from this opera. Translated from the male — fix it immediately and become edible again. The man will begin to describe you in culinary terms: lush, rich, appetizing. It”s hot, juicy and fresh.
He will be interested in you, your affairs and plans. He will brag and joke about himself, but never about other women, past or present.
What does he look like?
We have all seen how pigeons cackle with pigeons, how fish chase each other in an aquarium. The male is equally easy to recognize even among Homo sapiens species. It quickly begins to increase in size.
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He smiles widely, shows his teeth and often licks his mouth (adrenaline comes with saliva).
He spreads his elbows to the sides.
He spreads his legs and knees.
More space is needed for his usual gestures and actions.
All these movements: straightening your tie, touching your hair — have nothing to do with tension or turmoil. This man just shows how good he is. He has cufflinks and an expensive tie, he recently cut his hair and changed his underpants.
- A man is trying to dress up. For example, he switches from T-shirts to shirts. From sweatpants to jeans. Buys new clothes;
- He becomes cleaner and more well-groomed, gets a new haircut, and appears freshly shaved. It may well change perfume or acquire one;
- Watch your hands! The cultural code of our time does not allow him to point a finger at his magnificence, but the man unconsciously begins to put his hands in his pants pockets, hook his fingers into his belt, and place his hands on his belt. He begins to spread his knees and walk around with his jacket unbuttoned. By the way, he can touch his lips for the same purpose to show what he has;
- Contrary to the previous point, he may feel embarrassed or physically uncomfortable about having an erection. Therefore, in the strangest way, he will either begin to cover it, grabbing some objects and holding them in front of him, or fidget in a characteristic way, trying to make the object of pride more comfortable;
- Take a closer look at the position of his body. A man involuntarily turns towards a woman he likes, follows her with his eyes, his feet are always turned in her direction, as if he is ready to step towards her at any moment.
Of course, signs of excitement can be seen. The person may look like they are feeling hot. The sparkle in her eyes, dilated pupils and pink lips give her away. But offer aspirin just in case, what if the cause of the fever is not love?
What is he doing?
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A confident man does not fuss, but acts.
It seems that everyone around is pushing the woman away. He stands next to him, blocks his view, leans down, presses himself against the wall, blocks the way with his hand and starts a conversation.
This is a subconscious desire to create an intimate space in which there is no third place. This includes reducing social distancing. It is impossible to name the exact number of permissible centimeters. The fewer there are, the more bored people are.
In China, less in Sweden, less in cities than in rural areas. However, if a man is closer than a colleague or brother, or if a brother can stand up, you should start running away, if the distance can be reduced many times — he wants you.
He may accidentally touch you, especially your hair: it looks so innocent! Or touch your things carefully, even move your purses carefully. Do you think everything is meaningless? But how many men have you seen who are casually interested in hair or uncomfortable feminine things?
He shows interest.
As long as he is passionate about it, he will find you interesting and attractive. Even if you are constantly discussing worldly gossip, cosmetics or other cute things, in his opinion, they will not bother him. And if you start a conversation, you will not find a more attentive listener.
Of course he remembers your words.
Do you hear compliments, what is it?
- If he praises your business skills, your car, or even your tastes, he is trying to be polite;
- If he pays attention to your appearance and behavior that is pleasant to him, he probably wants you.
The man is always in touch.
It answers calls and messages immediately, monitors all accounts and keeps track of when you are online. He easily fulfills even random indirect requests, sometimes he gives in, sometimes he tries to help you. Even if he plans to limit your possible connections to certain limits, he will try to keep you warm, comfortable and ask if he is hungry. Feeding the woman you love is normal even for birds. In the course of evolution, men are not so complex in their behavior.
They still show that they are strong, successful and cool. Men may start exercising, making expensive purchases, and start saying poignant, personal and flattering things about themselves. And make sure you”re safe: put them in a taxi and ask them to call you when you”re home. Spend the evening. Then it gets dark and it”s time to talk about another friend.
But the main thing is to show interest in the early stages — take a look. He may seem gloomy and irritable — after all, fans may be annoyed that you”re prying into his thoughts. But you are not left to your own devices. We already know: make an effort to turn away from the offender as quickly as possible.
